Hank & Stephanie

went looking for us and I don't see us no no we're going to see this sweet little opener right now you ready for it egg okay I'm ready here we go what saraphina and I were in a entrepreneurial book club where Stephanie never read the right book and Stephanie was terrible at this book club I really sued at book club I did not fabulous I'm what I just had a proud of it all right there's our new intro Hank again hey take two take two I was beginning to think I was the only male there you see folks if you're just watching us live we've already done this little stick before well if you were listening to us on lemonade you're like why why are we redoing this guys we're we're redoing it because we didn't hit the live button I can't I can't handle all of the things I'm on the radio we're on the YouTube channel Roku TV there are lots of buttons to push in the morning so if you throw any kind of wrench in my morning routine it's gonna be off it's GNA be off we'll just say it's because you're not feeling I'm not my 100% you're there we go I'm not even 30 but I'm here I'm going to see my primary again today and uh see how I'm doing cuz uh I'm not doing so hot I have strep throat yesterday there we are well I'm glad you're better I mean every time every time I see you or I come here it's like how you doing it's like oh my gosh I'm not are you with she anymore I mean not the yes I I was I was still at the doctor she's now I'm on anti-histamine therapy which is has anybody ever had to deal with this antihistamine therapy basically it's like Clarin for breakfast pepid for lunch and then it's benad for dinner I'm tired yeah and this is and this is still for the shingles Mar's the expert on shingles so good morning JT thanks for joining us when is your little butt gonna come over and be on the show after I'm not going to spread any disgustingness to you right you're outside thees me come you're outside the window of contagion hey okay I know I know let's be honest you're not a spring chicken flourishing right now hack and steas and and with watery eyes over here I know but I'm better than I was I'm getting better slowly but surely I'm getting better spring can't come fast enough I saw um um a weather forecast yesterday and apparently we're coming up on almost the end of meteorological winter right just because the months change doesn't mean it makes it any better oh I know January's been one for the books no sun maybe sun today maybe sun today May maybe yeah please wear your Hazmat jumpsuit when you visit us like the Willy Wonka one you can be Mike TV we'll both get in jumpsuits it'll be safe that way that's right I'll mic us up from the inside join us for that show so you had an appearance last night that you didn't do yeah but Cliff Cliff pinched pinch pinched hit yep he did he was there working good morning Nate good morning Beth thank you for joining us yeah so cliff did trivia all by himself I asked if he wanted to get a co-host and he's like I'm just going to do it all right well at do know I'm right around the corner I mean I'll I'll I'll I'll come down and give him a hand he loves his dos especially um he was excited to roll out what of the um visual rounds that he had made yesterday idioms okay IDI I told him I didn't like it and then he was like everybody loved it I was like well I wasn't there so what didn't you what didn't you like I just didn't like it it was AI generated pictures okay so I just there's something about AI photos I can tell their AI photos and I just don't like them yeah you can tell one of the things that that real estate agents are doing now real estate agents are notorious for never updating their head shot they used the same headshot for like right for like 20 years right well what they're doing now is they're using AI to update their head shot I actually had to do that on a website for a friend and it's like like okay but that's not you either it still looked like her and it was a fairly recent photo she just needed it to have a better outfit on right so I was like all right I got this and she was like wow that's actually scary but yeah thank you no a couple people we know have done it and it's like you know what you look like you're 17 and in high school I I got you Robert I have been in undated with all kinds of interesting projects that are coming our way here at lemon Ado and I can't really get into the nitty-gritty we've just been really busy and been working like behind my computer which has been nice um and uh we've got a new girl our new girl was supposed to start yesterday she had Co oh stay home I'm like stay home I have strep throat none of us are good none of us are okay here and really and I'm so glad that 2020 did happen because we're okay to say I we're not good we're gonna have to just reschedule and most people are okay with that because they really understand I don't want that either no and actually that is a plus that we're not going into work and we're forcing ourselves foring ourselves when we we don't need to push ourselves they tomorrow it'll be there it'll be on your desk tomorrow it'll it'll be in your email tomorrow if you if you work at home just see and the nice thing too about being able to work at home now is you can't even if you don't feel good you get a couple things done you know and and you're not necessarily taking right do they even have sick days anymore I I don't know most companies have PTO say to your granddaughter uhhuh oh hi hi Mariana how you doing honey Papa over here was almost writing all kinds of things on your Facebook page I don't sometimes I forget which one I'm logged into and I start talking and I maybe a client sometimes y like whoopsies right oh yeah oh yeah I I I do it toari all the time did I post this I don't remember posting this on my page right Ah that's because you didn't it was near page good morning Lynn thanks for joining us Mark how the hell are you and uh what does what does Nate say Bill bellich only has two jobs left after many hirings last week s of Seattle in Washington there is something very odd about that maybe he doesn't want to do it maybe he actually doesn't want to to work there there we go no that's me that was on oh I was think actually Nate I sent a note to Jerry thoron last night from BARC Sports who who Mari and I know from from his comedic side asking him what he thought happen what he thought went wrong okay and I haven't heard yet because the whole thing is just is just so bizarre yeah that he left and everyone was saying you know Mr Krab said it's G to be so weird to see him on the sidelines you know in another hoodie and Coach Mayo said that he would love to have you know belich Sons stay on the staff because they're good coaches but obviously they can go everywhere their father goes and then like nothing yeah it's almost like was a behind the scenes agreement or scenario and and somebody backed out well we'll never know or we won't know for 20 years someone's on their death bed and we'll see what Jerry says D I'll let you know please give us The Insider track good morning Gloria how are things in Canada Oh Canada we haven't been to Canada in a while I need an appointment over at the um Town Hall to get our our passports renewed post office ah Town Hall Town H fast make an appointment they get it done they sit stamp everything here you go done make an appointment I'm telling you we did the post office and I'm like they no I don't have time for this today Town Hall good good just letting you know easiest wonderful they're awesome because we have to renew ours and we have to get one for and and Megan has to renew hers we have to get one for Mariana because somewhere on my to-do list I know it's not a big deal I want to take Mariana to Niagara Falls very cool I I mean as a kid theist that was one of the coolest places I I remember going to as a kid and the made of the Mist and you stand behind the the waterfall and everything and I know she'd love it but we want to stay on the Canadian side oh absolutely not not in Buffalo all due respect to our friends from Buffalo but no I'm not gonna stay there yeah right yeah we do need a v today is National plan of vacation day so uh we're in the midst of planning Lily's graduation trip and that is I I mean really given the events of the world in which we want to visit it's uh precarious planning right now well I I get it we this is a 35th W anniversary this do we plan Poland do we not I don't know and we've been thinking about our original thought was for the last year or so we were going to take we have a couple of people that we work with who took the Italy to Greece uh Cruise Y and they loved it but we're starting to think nah we we really don't want to do that okay so then where do we go that's kind of sort of close but will be special and and different I mean we go to flor do that cruise I'm not a big Cruiser but I would do that cruise just because it's like close ports yeah so it's like not mari's not big on it so we're not going yeah um there is that there you go I mean that's that's that's it and she doesn't I know she's not looking forward to the long flight because Mari doesn't sleep on on an airplane I can sleep half the way to Italy same you know have something to eat go back to sleep again and it's fine because I did it a whole bunch of times um so so we're trying to think of something that's appropriate for 35th Anniversary reasonably I mean that would be a nice trip but not and we just really haven't you know well Bermuda well maybe the Caribbean um go to the UK yeah go to London that's true it's cheapy to fly it's like it's a less expensive than going to Florida I'm not even kidding really and there's just so much to see want to go toland sometimes so I know you should go you should definitely go um Gloria is only two hours from Niagara Falls okay she said gray gray gray yeah Paul Robert every time someone mentions Niagara Falls I think of the three stoes why the three stoes I just think of the office because I love the office yep it's where Pam and Jim got married right Niagara Falls such a good spot my parents got married in Niagara Falls so that that was their honey mood and how did that work out well they were married for 25 years well that's good I mean I feel like that they did a lot of time together did a lot of time I don't know why they quit but what I mean they they should have quit whil whiles earlier I mean at that point when she get to 25 I I don't know right they just didn't like each other anymore I didn't think they liked each other in the beginning but oh it's not my business yeah but they hung out with 25 did they with all due respect to them did they do it for the kids no they were miserable they weren't doing anything for us other than being miserable near us oh okay they were great parents separately but collectively terrible terrible not not fun to hang around with do not recommend and and and notice I'm not asking how mom is we're just I can't I can't deal with her I can't sometimes family members I just need a really long pause like maybe forever I'm fine with it oh geez she's just she's not she's not a nice person you know I mean sometimes you are around people that are just not nice people it sucks that I happen to be coming from one it happens you don't need to to wallow in it yeah luckily right now the 3,000 mile buffer zone is a really nice buffer zone I don't know if that's going to be interrupted soon I got a text from my brother yesterday and he never text me so I know it's a preemptive conversation I'm just waiting to see what follows with hey how are you how how are things going is the next text going to be mom's coming yeah it's it's gonna be so all right we need to have a conversation oh God what am I gonna do with her that is your problem bro Baby Bro tag it's your turn whenever it is I'm busy I've got to he doesn't have a family he can deal with with her he's her family go I got a family I'm busy right very busy over here and I work I work nights yeah it's a lot right now and especially since we've got a lot more coming onto the plate and we've got some new hires so lemon Ado is going to be taking a lot of my time this year as well as my daughter's graduating there's a new event every single day she's in a play she's in the chorus she's in this I got sports pants over here I need Mom I need a ride Mom I need a ride I wish someone around here would get there license we're keeping Uber single-handedly uh employed Lyft won't use us anymore because they won't transport children under 21 really so annoying oh I didn't know that right neither did I when I dispatched them to get my child he's like Mom they won't pick me up I'm like oh my God meanwhile I'm in the middle of a board meeting and I'm texting anyone and everyone CU someone pick up my child cuz I'm that Mom sorry just so ridiculous JT was next to me on that one just absolutely ridiculous he's like don't worry about it we'll figure it out right I'll return the favor sometime when I have what is everybody else doing is anybody planning any fun vacations please say yes please let me vicariously vacation through you let me know what you're doing out there we're going to Orlando at the end of February see that's fun for weekend I mean I that was our family vacation we a house there so that every single time there was a vacation to be had we went there so for me that's why I like to travel anywhere but there with my kids yeah we will visit my aunt lives in Jacksonville my dad's in new samna and his H winter home must be nice old man I'm sending the kids for February vacation there you go get ready he tried to tell me when he first moved down there yeah that uh it's a 55 plus Community can't have the kids that's not how that that works so that's not how that works I live in one of them that's not how it works I really appreciated it though he was dead serious but then he started hanging out with them a little bit more and they're older so he's like oh no they can come yeah I know they can come dad right right the 55 if if if the kids are really small the 55 and older community is is really I get it but they're not four and five anymore they're 15 and and 17 they're going to hang out they're fine they're going to hang out they're going to go down the pool they're going to come back they're going to hang out you're going to take them out to supper they're gonna oh don't get me wrong they fight but they fight they're like garbage cats I like dumpster cats I don't even know what the hell those two are doing up there see I can't believe that Lily is such a sweet girl you're snowed Hank you are snowed you haven't seen the real Lily 17 year old girl so sweet every mother or father out there with the 17 year-old knows exactly what that is yeah it was funny they reached a certain age and all of a sudden they know how to slam the door I remember that moment I forget how old Megan was that all of a sudden we were discussing something and she got upset and she went upstairs and she slammed the door and we were like where did she learn there she is huh where did that come from we don't Mar and I on Door Slammers or anything so was like where did she learn to slam the door I've had this conversation many many times as I've raised three teenage girls and this is my last teenage girl um that when girls become like 15 I feel like they should go live on an island somewhere and if they make it back to 21 they can come back and live in civilized society because there is something psychotic that happens to them at that age bracket and it just needs to go get your hormones out come on back to us afterwards let us know I guess it's tough to do if I yeah it's a lot yeah it is a lot you got a house full of girls you know what that's like hey oh I know no I do I mean but growing up I mean boys didn't do that no we just kind of grumped along that's it you we call it harping I mopy pants yeah well when I was 17 my high school closed really yes well they tried to close it well they closed it but then our parents um convinced them to keep it open so that we could graduate really yes what happened well excuse me I had the um picture of Health oh I know AR I um no I went to a Jesuit High School and a lot of younger Jesuits there and they decided the teaching middle class kids wasn't wasn't where it was at and they wanted to go into the inner city oh wonderful wonderful great no no problem with that except they had a high school full of yeah right you know full of full of boys um and they told us well you know you could go to BC high well we were all accepted at BC B high and we didn't want to go oh so they even said to us that was their first thing will you con graduate from BC high and all our parents were like uh no so interesting so they opened for us we had they were really smart we had three years of three three months three semesters of of academics and then that fourth semester when senior itis Creeps in they abolished classes and they had like activities yeah you know if you were if you were a jock um they had like a course on how to be a referee yeah or it was it was really it was really cool but the funniest thing about it is one of our classmates mother was a retired math teacher and she came on the faculty to teach she was god- awful teacher and I felt so bad for Jim but there was another math teacher an older Jesuit I mean an older straight laced Jesuit I don't know if you know what that is but it's a lot it's a lot it's a lot father greenler God bless you father greenler I'm sure you're no longer with us um and we would notice that father greenler and Mrs Moran were like in the computer room with the door closed all the time interesting morning they ended up getting married real see I like that story though you know what you fall in love you meet people my aunt was a nun we called her The Singing Nun she played guitar and she ran away with um Uncle Jack was he a priest he was not a priest okay he was a real estate agent can't trust them dang real estate agents now can you what's up Hawk good morning good morning Dave hegner thanks for joining the show Hank and I we're talking about senioritis just a little bit Lily's got a a senior privilege this morning she doesn't have to be at school until 9:30 because they're running programs for the seventh graders to come on up to the high school or whatever and so they don't want the older kids around no I was I was shocked when she told me about it I was like oh oh really oh okay but then the school automated message came on and I was like oh here it is and uh no they they're allowed their senior privilege hey Mar it might be too late but Mariana has a field trip today I think you know that whoopsies I hope she remembers that they're going to the planetarium in Plymouth cool I didn't know there was a planetarium in Plymouth I didn't know either there's a middle I think it's a middle school in in Plymouth that has a planetarium very cool yeah we've got a solar eclipse up April 8th that uh we're going to be able to say I think it's mostly visible it's not like a full-on visibility situation but April 8th put it in your calendar because I'm I'm excited to see it yeah should be pretty awesome and there's a lunar eclipse too coming we got eclipses all over the place look at us I'm speaking of eclipse while I was um on my deathbed yesterday that's I ended up watching the Twilight series all day this is I watched garbage television I guess you did just trash and my husband would walk in and be like uh really I'm sick leave me alone alone that's what I did so that was something to miss apparent that's I did well you know what yeah and I rounded it out with 50 Shades of Gray I literally watched garbage TV from start to finish yesterday my god oh that's terrible half in out well it's good when you're like half conscious and half not right because it doesn't matter yeah well the good thing about all those options now is when we were kids and we had none we had none the soap operas were on if you were sick home school sick price is right then the soap opers then the soap opers like all afternoon like oh my God gotta love game shows speaking of which we had our Wheel of Fortune yes contestant Natasha from Yarmouth she did very well yes she did she won almost $6,000 yeah not bad you said she tripped up once yeah she tripped up once but other than that she was you know she was great and the winner was somebody that got the trip oh so that automatically other than that he didn't win very much but he got the trip which which was like I don't know eight or n thousand or something so I don't know if that's fair what do you mean when you win the trip they counted in your earnings yeah I don't like that either but somebody's gonna pay taxes on it right right speaking of which this afternoon and maybe even tomorrow on lunch break I've seen a lot of Articles lately about what goes on behind the scenes on on game shows and other kind of live TV stuff okay so that's what I'm going to be talking about cool yeah you know like some like like like some of those cooking shows yeah they really tell you in advance what you're gonna have to make oh like Top Chef and stuff like that this is the Box challenge I always wondered for that because you know and you have a chance to practice it which really makes it interesting that if you know what it is if you have a chance to practice it how can you screw it up right well I mean anything can happen on any given day and nerves and cooking and temperatures and like everything's Ram breathing down your throat well it depends yeah that's a Hell's Kitchen situation that's not exactly fun and Hell's Kitchen is one of them I think where where you know in advance they've got a pretty much set menu anyway it's always scallops if you don't know how to make a damn risoto you better get gone and right and beef wellington a stunning Beef Wellington I love Beef Wellington because of that stupid show I make a pretty mean Beef Wellington good morning Ashley thanks for joining us that's the one that always amazes me you know even if even if you don't know what you're going to cook in advance you know you're going to have to make beef wellington right and the people that consistently screw it up I'm just like okay what's wrong with you people I could do that I could go on Top Chef and screw up Beef Wellington you're and he's not a cck no I'm not exactly the point I could go on and screw it up I love it Lynn brederson uh who is oh my goodness is she a cook the stuff that she comes up with I'm just like vicariously eat with my eyes anytime she posts anything and Cap Cod dining at home and anywhere else delicious foods I'm inspired yet you don't find me in the kitchen right now I'm just I don't belong infecting anybody uh Duncan's got their new Donuts out they're donutes what Don notes they're Valentine's love letters apparently they're four different kinds of donuts that are out for the next two weeks I'm not a donut person I I will I look like a donut person but I'm not a donut person my downfall is Donuts if I want to start to drop weight I just go to dunks get my coffee get a get a um an egg and cheese wrap and don't get the dut and I'm fine okay that's what does me in is the donuts wasn't that your like dry January you were off Donuts yes I did I did pretty well I did pretty well I tripped up a couple of times when I needed the when I needed the sugar rush but power to everybody who has made it through Dry January uh leave it to our our good friends over at Shipwrecked where I'm going to be tonight uh to ruin everyone's sobriety they're having like a party on Feb one like have price appetizers Everybody celebrate you did it feel like if I did 31 days of sobriety I don't think I'd jump on back om Mari you're do you're doing well still yeah she still is she's done really well awesome one day left Mari and I said to her so how about dry February did she look at you and laugh I'm lucky I didn't knock on the door here and say hey Steph uh can I she's got a couple of wines poised extra room tonight she's so ready so ready right Dave I made you coffee and pancakes once on my porch you absolutely did make me coffee and pancakes thanks Dave guess I'll get that donut for myself to say Happy Valentine's Day oh no go to go to Madame Stephanie's uh speak dating thing Madam stephies I he's a little too young for our speed dating event he's just 21 I feel like I I think we set the bar at 25 for this one but um hey uh it's good to know that if we need a mail to round out our speed dating experience I may call on you Nathan he's a nice guy he's cute good looking guy toally I agree he checks all of the boxes I just don't know if these cougars are ready for him oh right I I I mean if she's a if they're cougars they like the younger guys that's I don't know if they're ready for that whether what status they're at what there's several layers of that Puma cougar Lions there's like a whole chart Hank I did not know that so I'm gonna have to take you the list and uh look at the ratio of ladies that have signed up for this do you ask them are you a puma or a cgar no no no I just have to look at their age granny whatever that's a category too a granny possibly possibly right Gotta Love Cap Cod in the winter yeah that's why we live here Cape Cod RTA is offering free Fe free trips for seniors and also people with disabilities that's exciting news yeah you can just hop on the bus and go anywhere I've taken the bus all the way to Province Town and back it's not that bad it's pretty fun yeah that could be fun to do some yeah it's a fun little date trip I would get it from the hyenas area right and then go yeah there's a couple of them that stop very little so that that's not a bad day trip yeah that because P Parking down in Province Town is a bear very little it's a bear yeah it is really is no pun intended right it's a bear it's a and once you get there you might be able to see see a baby shark I just ruined your day folks I'm sorry Han did it I did it I did it hate me today it's okay I get it I like that he sounded so emphatic when you said it Hate Me Today hate me today it's all right I'm fine with it happy Tuesday so a photographer has captured a a first apparently we've never seen um a brand new baby great white really and uh they got they got the whole I don't know do they hatch do they birth I don't know what I think they birth I thought they I don't know either way a photographer captured it now they got the first ever baby great wife very nice I saw I saw a picture of the first picture they ever got of a um a clear um octopus oh I mean it lives like thousands and thousands of feet below the the translucent octopus trans yeah you can you can look you can look right through it it is so cool you can find it on GTS it um you can you can find it and it's really really cool did you just say GTS it I love it Google that perfect we've got Marty Gro coming up oh I got my fishing pole I'm ready to see it in person one of my friends is out there ice fishing Caroline uh who just recently uh relocated to Maine from Cape Cod cut herself her little ice fishing pole her and her Housen are like super outdoorsy people really and uh they've they've got the whole um snow what are those things called I don't know the snowmobiles yeah snowmobiles they're ice fishing they're doing all kinds of main sporty things yeah I think I would die yeah that's not for me maybe maybe for an hour it'd be fun proper in proper gear anybody can deal with any of that I just don't know if I would want to I would like to do it for one time I don't think that that would be like the forever we're gonna do this again today no no no didn't we already do that no I'm gonna sit by the fire yeah right with a with a with a hot totty from we we've discussed this I'm an AA ski kind of gal go ahead get on that mountain I'll find you afterwards for a cocktail that's where I am I'm I'm no Ry kind of guy so no no no I'm not that coordinated you're an ay guy also yes I am right yep maybe at the end yes absolutely I I know I'd hurt myself I mean yeah right there Comes A Time most times right all right so sandwich police I checked him with the blad I don't know if you took a look oh yeah a lot of it is checkins yeah well-being checks which is fine this well-being check was initiated by a clinician when the man thought he smoked too much of the herbaceous plant the day before that's what he called EMS the day after right he like I just was waiting for it to wear off and it never did this is probably a condition that made me laugh and another one was a well-being check on an 18-year-old that just overslept right she was supposed to be at school today and she's not let's check on her also do you call the police for a box in the road that was what people were calling right a box in the road yep a suspicious box no it's just a box it's just a box so they called the police and the police officer just came and moved the box out of the road like okay well well the people in The Villages the people in The Villages were concerned last week uh oh that the snow plows were driving around too much okay aren't you on like a board over there aren't you meeting no no no no no okay no no they they were they were concerned that the snowplows are driving around too much that the um Street was already clear yeah and why were they going back and forth oh because apparently somewhere in the fine print they have a contract the the management or whatever has a contract where our HOA fee pays for I don't know two feet of snow and after two feet then we're all going to share the expenses of oh so they want to pay for so they don't want to pay more right but the I mean I had a laugh I mean the response back from management was they're just trying to make sure that the road is really clear right and I'm thinking to myself sure so another group of people won't complain that the road is icy right so you don't win in that situation you know that right no no no that's why I'd never go on the board I mean I was in politics and I and I you know did that but in an enclosed area like that I I I couldn't do it I couldn't do it because you'd immediately know you know when the callor ID GL Kravitz ises up oh here she is Mrs Miller I know just calling again yep and the Slowdown lady is back oh perfect I love her yep I was going 19 she's out walking her dog going that's awesome you know Mar I came home and I told Mari and Mari said so did you stop and talk to her I said you really don't want me doing that if you want business in this place you should though or you should put like some like speedometer thing that's on the front of your car like just a little thing that flashes the current what you're going just so you can say here it is get out and say what maybe maybe hi you know you've been waving to me for the last year and a half and I'm sorry I haven't stop well I mean if you're going 19 you can conceivably pick up one of the paddles that Cliff just ordered with a dryer race board to write down the speed in which you're going and wave it at her right while you're driving by and her husband a 10 her husband she has a husband God God um he he carries the dog he doesn't walk the dog he carries the dog does anybody have anybody in their neighborhood like that I do I have I have neighbors that are dog walkers only they walk with their dog in a carriage oh Mariana and I thought it'd be fun to get a carriage for the cats but it's a dog we haven't used it they need to we have a field across the street I mean yes my road gets a little bit busy but what's the what what's the point of going for a walk with your dog if your dog's not walking right it's not like the city where you got to transport it and if your dog is sick you probably shouldn't have it outside anyway I don't know what the status is with that latest dog situation that was going on with the the fevers and the yeah that that seems to have dropped from the headlines doesn't mean it's gone it's just drop from Winter we're not sharing water bowls and being close close proximity to stuff like that I would never share water bowl with a well that's good news Hank just wanted to you oh my goodness today's gonna be a good day oh I think so we've got um I'm looking forward to marig gr we always do like a little baby marig gr celebration in my house I really just make jumal and it's an excuse for me to make beet which I are find delicious those are sort of donuts right but basically they're just fried dough anything fried dough right oh anything fried bough absolutely easy oh my gosh it's like having an a fair at home it's so exciting yes love fried dough uh did you see what's the latest with Jay Leno I guess his what he had to file conservatorship for his wife mayis has terrible Alzheimer's no yeah I didn't see that yeah so I guess he had to file I I was surprised that you hadn't and um I brought it up because I know you're a big fan yeah and uh I guess that's the situation with their they've been together 44 years right now and uh I don't I don't know what that means why you would have to do that wow is that Insurance situation or is that what she's always been behind the scenes you very rarely saw her so I'm just curious why one would have to file for conservatorship and I don't know if we have any lawyers or estate planners or anybody that is on our feed right now but I'm curious why someone would have to do that for their their spouse well I think I think she has her own Foundation oh so so maybe maybe that's why okay you know I mean these are valid reasons I was just very curious why one would have to do that plus he's never the story has been all along he never cashed a check from The Tonight Show I'm not surprised he he just lived off his you know his his endorsements and um all the money he made doing doing standup and you know his his car collection is is well known and and and all of that but no I did not know that you know L thinks money management yeah it's it's weird when you think of somebody like J Jay Leno and you realize oh he really is that old yeah oh yeah yeah you know well that when you leave TV too I feel like you forever have this view of someone right like you saw them in a specific role or you saw them do something and that's how you picture them kind of forever right and then when you see them not looking like that you're like oh what happen yeah yeah and actually we haven't seen him in 30 years and actually he looks pretty good after the the fire and and you know had a had protic surgery in the side of his face you guys have it so much easier than women do I feel like you age better than women do oh guys in general do for whatever reason I think so maybe because you're low maintenance to begin with so it's really not much changes there for you good to hear that I'm low maintenance guys are in general generalization in here lower maintenance than women right my husband's more maintenance than me but that's different his lotions and Po and that's basically because my daughter with his skin care oh right like your bags you're this you're this and he just listens to her so now he's got hundreds of dollars worth of products that I'm like seriously I don't have to worry about skin care because I just used his okay Mari Mari Mari got me some skin care stuff for under my eyes yeah yeah you know because I've getting the baggy the baggy eyes so it happens I wanted to take care of that well it happens yeah he had baggy eyes at 20 though I think that's just because of our children no baggy eyes in the dark and the Dark Circle tend to run in my family so we're gonna we're gonna get after it and see if we can see if we can knock it down well you're doing a great job you know who is not having their big birthday party this year is Oprah Oprah's turning 70 years old really and she does not want a party she's like no normally she has these lavish ridiculous parties her birthday was yesterday and uh she no no party for her this year really she looks good well maybe because that's what she's like I I'm not going to be tempted right Body by OIC not going to be tempted by this I don't want any your lavish parties get out of here she's enjoying her revenge body right I mean how many times has she gone through this is my new diet and it's sad to me that that's really like the what she's going to be remembered for mostly is like her struggle with that carrying the wagon of fat that she lost the first time that she lost all that weight yo-yo dieting for all of her life y I mean yes there's the book club yes she's amazing but it's like the Jenny the Jenny Craig thing and the Weight Watchers thing and then all of them I mean that I feel like that's a female struggle and if you've ever been heavy in your life and you've yo-yo dieted you definitely know the pl of Oprah and the story of the up and down right and years of it and then there's Marie Osman who's had too much work a lot of work I mean she doesn't even look like herself no she's still still sounds like herself though I know but those whatever diet thing she's she does you see the commercials and you have to look for a second and go is that Marie Osman oh yeah I guess I think she's happy because on stage she looks still like regular Marie Osman of like the last 40 years yeah I'm close you're like what why why why did you do this yeah yeah I don't know I don't know why they bother I mean at some point it just must be vanity or or someone tells them they have to because at a certain point everybody knows who you are and everybody knows what you look like and right what are you I you're just going to be judged regardless so you got to do what makes you happy right doesn't matter what other people think people are gonna look at you and comment on regard it does not matter what you do Harrison Ford would be a perfect candidate to have work done except he never did yeah why because he looks right yeah he looks his age you know I still think he's attractive even in his current status and I'm sure sure they've slapped on a ton of makeup but there's um um a TV show that he is currently on and it's Netflix Hulu I can't remember it he's a therapist I guess he's like kind of crotchety and he's the only one in the in the entire staff or the team on the show that's not in the the group chat oh really like he's not fun he's not in the group chat Oh that' Be Me that' be me for sure you're not you're not missing anything by not being in the freaking group chat I'm in about seven of them right now with all of my girlfriends and I'm like God don't care not I don't need to be in this Noe no and he has a younger wife significantly younger and they've been married for a long time now well they said they were trying to bring back uh bring back Ali mcbi and she said go write it I'm in let's do it oh I'd watch that immediately you that was one of my favorite shows I don't know why Ashley says Oprah doesn't want to give up her 69 where's my drum roll for you Ashley boom there we go that's a good one oh my goodness yes it was perfect um I saw the story about parenting and I loved it yes there was a mother that was on Tik Tok and she sent out this video and every single day at 4 P.M she's got children I forget what their ages are but I think it's like three children under five God bless her right and she calls it whatever makes you happy hour uhhuh and so for one hour they get to do whatever it is the hell that they want to do works for me I mean I I saw some some real doozies in there with like flour lots of messes in that kitchen but you know what for one hour it's whatever makes you happy hour it's at 4 pm every single day and she says it's awesome I don't have to tell them no or whatever they're just within reason within the home can do whatever it is that they want to do watch TV veg out she's like my daughter loves taking a bath she's in there for a full hour letting her swim the other one's like making potions in the kitchen right and I I love that and then they have it out of their system supposedly you know I mean I guess it works for her but I feel like oh good for you Nate went back to the gym yesterday good for you Nate I canceled my gym appointment yesterday because no one wanted my infectious self in there oh funny how that worked out I'll be back at it on Wednesday yep but feel like whatever makes you happy hour should be a thing that we do for everyone I think that that's a good lesson of life right I don't know what I would do what would you do sleep oh watch bad TV apparently and there you go I had a whatever makes you happy day and all I did was watch Trash so I mean I need my power nap every day yeah you know it's gone from 15 or 20 minutes to maybe 30 or 40 45 minutes but that's okay I need my power now you're up early yes I am I'm up early every morning one way or the other either I'm coming here or the cats know oh hey this one gets up early they're awful so they're they're looking for me I had a day yesterday where I woke up too oh isn't that the worst I'm like no no oh that is the worst and then you've got to run around and try to find it and I was sick and I had a Fe was like they Incorporated it into my dream and I'm like is it happening and then cff was like why do you have to wake me up for everything like I'm sorry and you think they're gonna die that's the thing you think they're going to die no where is it I mean they sound like some 82y old man on his on his deathbed and my husband's going no no he's just chewing on something he's just playing with something nope you were right found it no yep oh that was I did not have a great day yesterday it was not awesome so I could use whatever makes me happy hour pretty much every single day I need to schedule that in my phone I feel like that that would make me happy yeah anybody else doing anything with their kids that you feel like is like a success story like sharing things with others right I don't know excuse me excuse me folks I'm still we don't have a kill switch here so no you gotta just like whatever I'll lower I'll lower you down all right every every like I don't know five minutes or so just wave just slow me down for a minute and I that I'll sound like a cat my catat this morning it's gonna die seriously right all right I think I uh I've got so much stuff to catch up on really well yeah because you took yesterday off not great uh but we do have a brand new events page that I want to let everybody know about events on cape.com if you're wondering where the heck are we and who or what you got a free night and you're like I want to fill it with something fun we've got that for you events on cape.com you can go there and find out our schedule of events because it is becoming larger and I feel like I want to have a we're having an announcement I don't know I can't I'll push it any any button except that one we have cabin fever coming March 2nd oh my Lord I know I've got to double check on the date before I uh I uh announc that we're going to be having this huge party which I'm very excited for I'm going to get tickets all squared away Cabin Fever is going to be happening over at Sea Dog and it is going to be one to five two to five two to five and the Midnight Society is going to be playing we've got t-shirts in the works our fabulous art designer is making some fun Cabin Fever t-shirts is is he gonna be over there making his t-shirts or no no no Cliff is not gonna be making the t-shirts we're Outsourcing that one okay we're gonna we'll be at Sea Dog and it is two to five we are raising some funds for tab tap for Humanity and uh we've got food we've got t-shirts we've got giveaways and I'm very much looking forward to reigniting the cabin fever and the party which is going to be over at Sea doog so I will have more details for that today as we start releasing some tickets for this event it's G to be a party get ready for it yeah it is going to be the day oh the day after Marty grow would be fun but it's not hi Michael Anthony thanks for joining us hey Michael how are you and Michael why don't you the page that you have with u with Mari he's got a page too going now what is your new page everything Cap Cod I think I'm not sure I don't remember I should but I yeah right you should I don't also she said it was the day after Mari day oh Mari day yes March 1 is mar day March 10th is mar day yes that's where she got the idea from she saw her story about Mario day which is M10 and she saw her story about a bunch of Marios getting together so then she decided Well if March 10th can be Mario Day March 1st can Mari it's a big party so maybe we'll we'll make it the official Cabin Fever Mari Mari party yeah folks just just just remember okay forgetting Mari day for me is like not bringing the fries yeah right okay if you know that story then you know don't forget the day don't forget the fries don't forget Mari day um all right and what's going on again you are talking about just just stories that I've seen lately about behind the seen stuff on on game shows and cooking shows and I mean we all know that the cooking shows are kind of sort of fake I didn't realize they were as fake as they as they apparently are right and the things that happen on game shows um you know like like like Jeopardy there this whole they do um five jeopardies in a day yeah most of them batch filming like that you have to yeah so they only film 49 days out of the year it's not a bad SC no no to do the whole thing but you have to if you're a contestant you have to bring you know enough clothes to make sure that it looks like you've changed and you knoww and all of that and you know Ken Jennings you know do you like Ken Jennings he's all right he's kind of like a robot yeah I feel like I don't know I'm he doesn't have enough Charisma for me to want to hang out with yeah well seea I like him nice having a smart friend I don't know Ken tell him right Ken you know the answer yep Ken what's that yep like it would be nice to have your own personal encyclopedia that would be great yeah that's what I think Ken would be yeah I don't know if I'd like to hang out with them though it's kind of how I judge most relationships would I want to spend a few hours with that person I don't think I could do that oh I bet he'd be fun to talk to possibly just because of all the stuff he knows and all the things he's done I feel like that would be more of a Pez dispenser friendship Pez dispenser friendship I need something from you give me the candy Ken give me the candy I have never heard that before a Pez dispenser friendship that's very interesting right where you're just like I just need something from you could you give that to me thanks right that's I guess he kind of does look like a Pez dispens a little I don't know why yeah I still haven't visited the Pez dispenser place which is in Connecticut right off the highway oh all right I think we need a field trip maybe Fe vacation I'll take the kids that's a day trip V visit my dad's wife cuz Dad's in Florida visit your dad's wife yeah he's in Florida but his she's not retired she's young oh okay she's got to work I see he's enjoying his retirement how did he work that out I don't know but he's he's a smart man apparently I need to talk to him my wife is Young right yeah right yeah I don't know how that's working out for you Hank I but I you need to talk about that getting on that program I got to talk to Dad she stays at home and watches all the dogs and the cats that she rescues right right she can't help but houses I stay down in excuse me that's it you can check the houses um yeah I'll go down to Florida and hang out and CH I don't know how it works but apparently it works for them so good for them how long have they been married uh 20 years oh I guess it's working right and she lets him get away with it I don't think she loves it but also I think she likes her time ah he's a lot like me no I find that so hard to believe super weird I know listen 1180.com you can get us on Roku TV Alexa play l8o radio we've got a lot going on this week so events on cape.com is where you can find us and uh we're going to be talking about a little bit of a fundraiser here for lemon Ado we' got some things that need to be taken care of and uh we're gonna be asking for your help so we appreciate you we love you it's it's it's it's not gonna be one of those fundraisers where hostage and say you know we're gonna play Opera until we get this this amount of money no but we are going to be doing silly things for money Hank Okay leave me out I don't do silly things well you might have to be wearing costumes or and or otherwise so okay boy more on that coming up for you everybody we hope you have a really good day and if not there's always tomorrow we'll talk to you then see you later kids bye come on Hank just a clown suit no clown suit's okay