RTB, Marty & Stephanie

saraphina and I were in a entrepreneurial book club where Stephanie never read the right book and Stephanie was terrible at this book I I really sto at CL I did not fabulous I'm what I just had a visual I just had a visual I proud of it there I can hear I could hear you I sorry we are having technical difficulties no we're not we're just a little slow as no no no poor Marty that we were trying to talk to earlier I just couldn't hear anything that he was saying he was checking in he had to um leave the morning show and then Rich was like Hey do you not have a guest and I was like I don't come on in and I I cannot believe you drove all the way from Province toown this morning believe it you crazy bear I am well I officially am off today W it's really nice even though you know I heard it I checked in with my boss we have a huge project that's do and I send it to him and I was like do you want to you know do you have any questions he's like oh we'll touch base tomorrow I'm like dude like I'm off remember yeah no he didn't remember but you know what I'll be available this is a huge project yeah want make sure he has everything he needs all right good morning Cindy thank you I've got that and oh hanging out with our friends so yeah we were trying to check in with Mar before he had some other chamber business to do so let's just talk about what's happening at the highy chamber and uh check in with Marty everybody I'm Marty bro the great AR highness Chamber of Commerce on this first Friday of October Believe It or Not lot a lot of stuff is happening across the cape this weekend uh we're having the calmus car meet which is happening this Sunday at calmus beach it starts at noon time um all the cars and an enthusiasts meet at 11:30 at calmus Beach and then we parade down to Main Street hyanis returning to countless beach around 3:00 p.m. uh it's a great event it's on the beach the weather will be great have some great vendors some food trucks will be there and you'll see probably about 100 cars or so that's again happening this Sunday from noon to 3 at cus beach in hyenas have a great weekend everybody thanks Marty I'm actually going to be playing some tunes for that so that's great I know well I'm leaving one of the last farmers markets can you believe we're down a two I know and then there were two then we're two and uh Emily has been working fever behind the scenes to get everybody registered for clam jam it's going to be lemon Ado's first official fundraiser yeah and we have the amateur hog off okay Cog stuffies I so if you want my bus if you want to enter if you'll see my two little cute trophies over there uh V Viva stuffy stepy stuffies have been retired oh did we lose the recipe or we were just like putting it away no I'm sick of making them because every time I make them everybody eats them and I get none and I even froze some last time uh last summer and my mother-in-law emptied my freezer before she went back to Florida empty just threw them away no she took them with her okay so when I make Stephy stephies are gone so if you are uh looking to be the new amateur champion of a good stuffed clam then you can share those with us it's only for our professional judges so you're not feeding everybody got it you know I always get upset during these like food competitions where you got to show up with like Vats of your product and it's so expensive are they judging no right exactly they're just throwing it down their stomach so they have something to eat and while they are drinking so we're not doing that you're gonna bring your 10 best clams they're going to be judged by professionals and we've got a trophy I ordered the trophies yesterday uhhuh I also had to order trophies for a private trivia that I'm doing and apparently this corporate gig is like they are very very competitive I yep I can understand that yeah right I I was like I knew you would speak this language but he's like there they still wear the metals occasionally yeah just to remind people about something else I was like all right so I've got to go big or go home with this sort of gift for the winner of that trivia good morning Miss Susan when you coming on my show oh it's spooky season spooky season she's in demand so she's busy right that's true exactly so I don't know why you're bitching about I'm not she's got something going on that we are going to be talking about I just didn't know if it's next week the week after some people we make priority for I need you I want you get on the show you're just too busy the problem yeah right she and I have gotten together a couple times already we've had a great time sorry not to rubb it in yeah right I was like she's my friend I introduce you not anymore that's fine I'll allow it I know it's been a whirlwind of stuff um I I got to like sneak away see my girlfriend much needed but um when I was down there we were out and hung out with the man that invented Uber oh really I Googled it it is actually him because I was like yeah whatever and then I was like excuse me before we have this conversation but he's a Rhode Islander and you're like what a line right but he was definitely a Rhode Islander Meredith couldn't understand his accent cuz she Southern and she thought he was actually Italian I said no he's he's from Rhode Island okay what's up Bethany hey Angie good to hear from you guys thank you for joining us on a Friday Rich drove all the way here from Province Town well yesterday you were in Boston you Liv the life I'll tell you what I got to finally hang out with you in your home area yeah right before you left last weekend and I got a ticket oh what I thought I was like I paid the this I paid the this I don't have time for it I put it in my visor you left my place on no by before yeah before after we had had lunch oh over near the right and I was like very very precise about paying the meter very very specific about it well what Stephanie didn't realized was Stephanie's car has not been registered since April I am so lucky that they did not tell my car well it's a business expense that's for sure because it was a lemon Ado car that's what I said it a clip goes what is a with this ticket because he took my car to go clean it and I was like I didn't have time to investigate I was trying to make my flight just threw it in the car I did I was like I'll look at it later I'll Attack this later good morning Cindy sorry we've been making you wait so long um and then he goes do you know why you got to take it I said no he goes somehow I missed the registration because it's actually registered under him oh so it's his fault not mine yeah um not that we're placing blame it just you know we're just letting everybody know whose fault it is that that's why we have calendars and reminders April I know April we're in October right the whole six months I'm so and he goes and you only got a ticket that was it he's like I guess they couldn't actively do anything because it was the parking meter made yeah you weren't actively driving your car so they couldn't tow you I'm like they couldn't arrest you can you imagine right so before you're supposed to leave I'm a legal beagle now everybody oh my God talk about it on the other side but may may maybe you pay attention to some of those things that might be coming due this month I'm just saying throwing it out there gentle reminder Susan says see you are so crazy busy yeah right just doing I I don't even have time to pay a ticket why are you bugging me like that why you bothering me with all the legal things W so RTV is here even though it's uh M's leather weekend yes it is in provin zone it took me a minute like when you were saying it I was like Memorial Day weekend already happened what is what is this new acronym and then I was like oh mates leather weekend got it it also is Manchester leather weekend in the UK maybe you can talk a little bit about and Michigan leather weekend briefly happens as well so mlw can be you know depending yeah on who you know where you live what is it uh it's just it's a social organization it's people that are you know part of the federis community some some not just like to enjoy and wear leather um they a first maid's contest which is fun they do a a beer social there's a boot black in case you want to get your boots shined oh which I had last last night was great The Shining of the boots The Shining of the boots whilst wearing them absolutely that's fabulous yeah yeah so did you just stand there stoically like striking a pose no it's a seat just like you know the regular shoe shine you know I just I don't know I just conjured up this vision of you standing Viking like holding a drink while someone shot your foot I did have a beer in my hand excellent y it was inside or I would also be smoking a cigar which is you know some people find that attractive I love it it's always nice to so this is a fun weekend of Province Town if you've not been ever uh where you been secondly there's activities every weekend for different stuff I know everybody thinks that Labor Day you know it's oh God no no spooky bear is coming up that has all of a sudden has become an explosion of a weekend yeah there's a couple different women's week that happened in the summer in the fall there's uh I burst out laughing because one of the women's that was renting your place just left behind a whole wardrobe who leaves behind a whole wardrobe how was your weekend I did not need to show up with with short jean shorts and a br where all these Ladi clothes all over my house what happened here and that's only because my brother from another mother arrived early and he's like this was in the drawer I'm like oh gee thanks he's like I didn't know if you knew who was staying with you you just wanted to throw it out I said right exactly didn't already asked for it they already did the Walk of Shame get rid of it you name it I'm claiming it I'm claiming it trash too funny Susan says spooky bear is fantastic it really is oh yes I just love the activity the place Province Town just hums it really does it's got its own vibration absolutely and uh Little Rocko is hanging out with Uncle Bob right now getting his little Beach Walk on got a lovely little picture of him having his fun time walking on the beach smelling all the seaweed oh yeah that's what puppies do I know he's adorable but he's just like Jason Vorhees he has to be watched every minute every minute of every day um counselors weren't paying attention rtb loves cartoon violence he is also in love with Halloween in fact we were supposed to do a show together and he had his Friday the 13th shirt and everything and I was I was disappointed I know and there's a whole history behind Friday the 13th that I wasn't going to share until we did it you know did it got back together yeah and I of course you know since you just did it on the Fly I'm not going to be able to pull it up that's okay I know you're a statistician one thing about rich is he loves his spreadsheets he loves organization he loves data my spreadsheets my maps so here's the fun fact I found it of course you did Fray the 13th was originally associated with Freya goddess of love and fertility oh it was basically a day to fornicate and the church didn't like that so they made Friday the 13th associated with the devil and bad luck you're fine you're more likely to get the bang then die on Friday the 13th all right so there you have it all it's not superstitious it's just the church again just a little stitious it's not a big one homecoming weekend speaking of the number 13 cuz always was my number I don't know why I always wanted and it's a good luck number there's a number for me so I always wanted that Jersey we would rifle for it at the beginning of the Season most of the time I would win mostly mostly uh so yeah Cody got bopped around a little bit in the numbers Department this year and he was a little muffed and miffed about it but he's fine now and starting Varsity time I'm G to be there so tonight right it is normally homecoming games are later on in the evening the Friday Night Lights game but because we have West Nile and Triple E uh the MIAA has said no games after dusk got it so yeah we've got to get started on that early oh yeah well you're right on top of that Rose it we are right on top of that this like that sings to me they had such a cute pasta dinner all the seniors parents host them uh every single week before a big game I see and uh the just a cute picture of all these boys and I was like who is feeding all of them thank you so we've got this own parents like boosters group chat and they all like sending photos and thank you that'll be bop all night long but I absolutely adore the big group of them in there just getting together celebrating getting ready watching you know Thursday Night Football as a group and staying as long as you want he's like Mom you should eat all the cars he said well you know a third of the team is seniors this year got a lot of cars and why are you asking me for rides all the time when you've got that much car at your disposal M but I was there because that's what moms do not only is it when they can not only is it homecoming weekend but it's also parents weekend for my little witch I know you guys are going up tomorrow we are yeah we're just going up for the day I was going to go up and um see another one of our friends Lisa she had asked me to like do her a favor but then you know things got busy she found a replacement and I was very thankful good uh just cuz I as much as I would love to have been there for the parade in Salem and have helped that situation out the amount of hours to get to S it's just not an easy drive right there's traffic it takes a long time and I'm GNA twice in a week so I'm G to see my little witch on uh Saturday which I'm looking forward to and she asked for homemade cookies and her list of things that she's left behind is getting extra long oh really any other moms out there H how are you doing how are my uh first college moms how are you feeling okay hey are the kids already home have they quit college all together inquiring minds want to know our question of the day if you don't party what do you do on a Friday sleep pretty much snack and sleep um you know give to whatever other vies are just chill at home yeah Jen said spreadsheets send him my way we always need a volunteer specialist happy Glam Rock Fray so says Seth yes I will give Lil a big hug from you absolutely sleep please says Cindy so if you're just joining us rtb and Stephanie we just had a check in from Marty talking about the Kus car meet on Sunday thank you very much to the greater henus chamber which lemon Ado is a member of and uh we do a lot of events with our local Chambers because I feel like they are just in a part of all of the business things that are happening October Fest which Rich got a good kick out of what was this he's like why is the high school sign pumping October Fest I the one big activity we have here in mashby it's not only that but it's also porch Fest and sandwich so we have these two giant festivals okay one t like one town apart towns touching each other and they really they well they want to get it out there same day so if you're looking for something to do this weekend you shouldn't have to look that hard we've got activities absolutely everywhere what's up Miss Lindsay thanks for joining us on the show miss your face hope to see you soon um uh so when I was visiting Meredith in Charleston uh a lot of the places down there apparently had no flood insurance because either it's too expensive or you can't get it well most of it was in the mountains like th those are the areas that are not in the flood zone they don't look at that it's about geographic like just a section yeah yeah you know they they're not even dividing it up anymore so everything in Helen's wake apparently they said are really struggling right now so I don't know what they're going to do uh I know that we've got friends in Asheville that just like are waiting waiting in lines waiting for things one grocery store that's pretty much empty they keep trying to bring stuff in there they still they don't have an ETA most of them have evacuated they're like we're not staying and they've gone to to friends in close places but not everybody's got the luxury of that some people really do just have to stick it out um we've got friends of ours that have a kid in college there they just sent them home like we we'll let you know oh um classes are forever online now we'll let you know when you can come back I don't know if it's going to be anytime soon so that's a wild situation there I know right so you are busy working on a uh a presentation I feel like um for our upcoming trip yes if you don't know know it rich and I are both of the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame of course you are of course you are we've got our little I use my my coasters all the time yay we got our little membership cards but this year is actually at the Rock Hall it is in Cleveland Ohio and I bought my ticket do we have accomodation yeah yes we do okay we do all right um I think John might be watching John Whitman he's coming with us too he's going to arrive Saturday and um the accommodations leave Sunday morning all right perfect yes um so we've been to La we did New York Barkley's was super fun yes and it was in Brooklyn it was a lot of fun yes yeah No Sleep till Brooklyn I very much didn't I was the one on the subway bye guys enjoy your time going to my brothers in Manhattan totally uh so I don't have my brother to run away to this time we've got to actually figure out this and I I I think I found a good place okay good so um uh Rock and Roll Hall of Fame induction ceremony I just got really excited when I saw it was Kelly Clarkson and I screamed out Kelly Clarkson kind of like um that was just the most recent one yeah Steve they've been announcing them periodically throughout the day the week in The 40-Year-Old Virgin it was and here we go Chuck D is gonna be inducting that gonna be awesome Keith Urban Robert Roger dotry and Kell and oh it's just them two uh for Peter Frampton Kelly Clarkson for foreign um Julia Roberts for Dave Matthews Band she was in one of the original videos which is really exciting to see du leap is going to perform for shares induction so exciting that's gonna be amazing uh Demi levado is gonna be performing as well uh what else do we have oh for Jimmy Buffett being honor for musical Excellence we're gonna have James Taylor Kenny Chesney and Mac mcal definitely worth watching if you want to go back on Disney plus and see the episodes um from the last few years years being there live though is a whole it is like a a Non-Stop Sensations situation we like true and usually like we're right beside them so it's crazy we're very excited and the other thing too is you know when we went in La they taped it and then redid it and that's when we were there for six hours oh my God but they kicked off the show and Duran Duran was like I stopped the show I can't hear anything and they restarted it I was like we're here for this I love those moments um and also that year which was two years ago that was in 2022 we got to to hear such a wonderful private that didn't make the taping when um it was there it was the um the emit Earth gun award that is for people that are in the industry and it was [ __ ] of course there not there's a class um it was the the law attorney who was just he he he was talking about the architect that they went to you know introduce and say you know this is what we'd like to do we'd like to know if you'd be the architect yeah the back end of the music industry yeah and what it actually happened it was it was a really touching story and how it all happened how they were you know the guy was like okay thank you and he was the guy who did um some architecture of Lou in France yeah they thought like they were crazy asking for something like that and then like a couple weeks later they get the call from the architect and they're like oh no I found it truly inspiring as an entrepreneur like just be like I'm shooting for the moon and I'm going to ask for that and I'm not going to be afraid to ask for that and that was the conversation like here I am getting inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame and I'm a lawyer so no and you know there were people in the industry like Mariah Carey that were talking about how excellent he was and how influential influential on how they helped his their careers it's pretty cool yeah it was very neat so I'm very excited for this year and uh as the people slowly get leaked out as to who is going to be there at exciting yeah given all that's going on in the music industry right now there's a lot and I don't even want to classify that part of the music industry but it evolves through all of that yeah well now people aren't afraid to speak up I mean even yesterday the whole story with gu Brooks being investigated for assault battery like being horrible to his hairdresser like makeup lighting artists all that stuff all the little people like you just can't treat people badly anymore it's not it's it's bad that's it um you had sent me a video of like how deep that that Diddy Rabbit Hole goes and I was like it gets worse it's gonna get worse people like Mary blig has been Jennifer Lopez jennif well Jennifer all the time we always knew that well that was Jaguar white real and that was hysterical when she said put him with that drunk white boy that drunk white boy hooked him up with that drunk White boy he got her out of jail it was Betty Medina she oh my God that was hysterical but also not wrong she always runs back to Ben Affleck when she needs a shield wow second well you know that whole first time shame on second time shame on you right like girl you better get your [ __ ] together seriously so here we are Friday before the first weekend in October I've been busted out the spooky wardrobe uh my husband is in a fullon Harry Potter marathon right now because of Maggie Smith know why he decided we're going to start this from the beginning but I'm waking up to all kinds of wizards Leviosa and things blowing up in the background and I'm like oh my God what is this and then then I'm get sucked into it I was like that's not even the potion right he's like you did read the books right I was like was I wrong he's like no so here I am in Harry Potter town it's fine it's only a month out of the Year we're we're going to be all right and I've been deeply entrenched into bringing you a very magical Winter Wonderland do you know what it's like to look at trends for 2024 Christmas trees I bought my Balsam hill tree that was my big purchase so that I could have not have to go out and get a I got sucked down into this place I never want to go back to of Trends and the most vapid human beings I've ever met in my entire life on Tik Tok have we made a decision yet oh yeah because this year is like rustic and back to your Ro and it's definitely going along with our Farmers Market them so you're going to be seeing a lot of um just oranges and just natural decorations cranberries oranges fun bright festive colors popped in between all of that stuff although um kit Christmas is also a thing with pink Christmas trees this year not for me no we're we're not going to jump on that little Trend we the ones that rotate and they change colors it's twoo extra no it's way too extra are you really sitting there watching the tree do all that not happening saraphina do you possibly have did I lend you Billy Porter's autobiography just curious just say yes or no and I'll move on with my life I need to find this book cuz it's not hers especially because it's not mine I can't find it anywhere my house is is a scen out of Harry Potter I feel like I just not asked the right questions to my walls that might have eaten it know we've learned here we've learned that we don't lend I am the worst yeah don't she said no and good morning lovelies it I've got two more places I could possibly look for it we upended the entire house as my daughter went off to college still persevering you know where it is where it's with my artbed gift no I think that's still in the cabinet make sure we I'll take that out when we go upstairs a 100% I lived here 20 hearing about this 22 years this house eats things especially when I hide things from myself that's why Lauren knows for a fact she went through my garage and she's like there are gifts in here that have never been opened there there where is this to and I was like oh just throw it away and she's like she opened it up and it was like a brand new one I forgot what it was I was like that's where that went that's only one room that's you know oh Lauren thank you so much I canot thank you enough she's going ziplining in New Hampshire this weekend I hope you live girl wear a helmet it's the only thing I can tell you wear a helmet she said no but I also need to read it you do it's really really good wherever it is not with me what else is going on with you uh just finished a big project at work um you made me laugh it's the final draft uh it's going it's being submitted I think today and then we meet um to discuss it with any other concerns questions justifications and then it goes to actual Provost so that's kind of exciting it's a brand new um method and then do you get a little bit of a break do things ever calm down for you yeah I get I get little breaks here and there but um you know we're just we're we're still ramping up um you know because this is the time of year I like to talk to you about Brian's food our Thanksgiving plannings our feasts celebrations so I do have the week of Thanksgiving off I've already taken care of that which is great and uh yeah Bob and I were talking about what we're going to do this year um whether we want to be here in Ptown at my place or their place so many choices or yeah also maybe rent something because in the past you know with Daniel Bob and May and sometimes some other folks we would um find a place up in New Hampshire or Maine and we'd run in a nice you know F four or five bedroom bring the turkey you know do you do like a whole big shop on we're food and beverage enthusiasts so we really do this is like the magic time for us it's true and it was funny Daniel finally was convinced after few like I know why you like the holidays because there's always food in the fridge I'm like well there's nothing wrong with that right and I always always I would find these obscure videos like I would actually way back when where you didn't couldn't get everything immediately right I bought these like remember those days I bought this VHS cassettes of like or DVDs most of the time it was VHS cassettes of like Saturday morning cartoons when we grew up Bionic Woman the Linda Carter specials oh so good her 1980 special so good and so bad fantasy fantasy fantasy the worst television you've ever seen in your entire life yet it's so I I had a rewind moment about one show and I think it was the monkey show and I was like I want to make it like the monkey show intro and so cliff and I sat there watching them and he's like this is really bad did we want to I was like it was much different in my mind yep it's true when you rewatch it when you're older but also when I think of the monkey SC I also think of The Banana Splits yes you remember that yes it's hysterical because that's how my dad learned to speak English was from Hannah Barbara cartoons and then you had Witchy Poo and all the those were waack see this is the fun that we have um Cliff bust those out during trivia and do a visual round this week was '90s C tunes and there was one of our one of our um friends that Co comes every single week uh we don't know they're just really they don't really talk and they're on a team all by themselves okay but this apparently was the round for them because they were just like here it is this is a winner Cliff was so delighted as he left trivia yesterday it's like L and Shadow crushed it this week and I was like awesome they are in there cuz I get so nervous when they're by the you know and no one like really talks to you and then you're like are you a serial killer or are you just here for company either way I'm fine with it but I'd like to know what to be prepared for just in case I need to defend myself after this that's all I just don't want to end up roadkill right exact that's all but I feel like with those old cartoons we had to use our imagination to make it so much cooler that it ended up being so much cooler yes because we did and then you have the Christmas specials where you're like this was made in the 67s you know what were people doing they were doing acid other kind of stuff it's like that's how these Christmas specials happened we're wonder where where where what was going on here I mean drugs clamation drugs were going on yeah yeah the Year Without Santa Claus Santa Claus coming to town I don't know the one with Mr Freeze and the sun heat meiser I mean come on how do you create those things yeah there there was a lot happened Hollywood in the back rooms what's up Nate thank you once again for coming on the show yesterday did a really good job and I'm so proud of all the work that you're doing Nate's awesome he's leaving I know it's weird it's exciting that's great to yeah to start a life see see these college kids grow up a little bit and start doing transition yes real things we have somebody else who just moved and is doing really well um right exactly it is a year of transition but also in the stars I think I was reading there's something going on in the cosmos if you don't make the moves there's lots of things happening every week but also true I don't live my life through that but it's always like one of those things where you read it and you're like huh that's what's going on like you need somewhere explains it in your brain to explain the crazy around you sometimes and I feel like that fits the need sometimes when I watch those Tik Tok videos on astrological things that are happening around me whatever it is we've got um hayana parents new podcast that is starting to air this weekend on Lemon Ado and uh uh if you're in a stuck situation if you're feeling unheard unloved uh if you are struggling with addiction if you are going through a space right now that is a transitional space and you're kind of feeling lost in the shuffle definitely give these two episodes a listen and uh there is help there are people we do recover and there's great things that she is talking about along with some other racial justice issues she kind of weaves it in really nicely and uh I personally not because I'm producing the show but I actually really do enjoy her take on things that's different than the regular cultural norm yeah it's funny that you mentioned that because last night we were talking I we ran into somebody who doesn't live here in the Boston area he used to live in the Fenway area and he's actually going back to Boston and he's going to check it out because we were telling him how much Everything's changed he lives out in France now oh um but we he was asking about people that was part of our little Social Circle and some of them are you know they're sober now and you know a lot of the things that happen is the social network changes so you don't hear or talk to that person because they separate from you know other people that were part of that experience yeah to to help you know just kind of well it's part of living life sociiety going on you know it's and it's it's hard because sometimes you miss people and it's not people that have to drink or whatever but you know sometimes they're triggering hard yeah exactly you've got to change your your space and your friend group doesn't evolve yeah to what you need it to evolve to so if you're in an evolution of yourself and you're looking for a little assistance we got that for you here at lemon Ado saraphina yes the old Christmas specials are the best I mean the worst yes they are it's everything check check checky it's everything and nothing but again it brings you some comfort I think in some ways makes you feel good it does it's that Nostalgia a little bit um yeah I was checking in with mying of nostalgia checking him dad check in because he's been checking in with me because of you know some small Health stuff that I'm dealing with right now it's fine it's I I Will Survive everyone okay Gloria right Don I evolved you have to evolve that's part of everything yeah once again I was listening to another pot of ours uh something more with Chris Boyd he was just talking about what like phases of retirement like your life just changes yes you know at at 60 most likely you're not going to start a new business and you're not going to need X Y and Z to plan for your retirement or just talking about paying for college uh or as wanting to help out with a grandparent shoulds and shouldn't it's all those fun little things yeah that at least I feel like all of us are trying to do our best to live our best life at some point that's why he's my fulfill facilitator oh my and my partner in prosperity that's his tagline and I love it Chris is awesome she said Ken started it all over at 60 years old well oh a 21 night stay we need to talk about that mess we'll talk about it being in the service industry well it's yes you know and it also is about your your financial status and whether you know you have you have the energy and and the passion to want to do and change what's also quality of life thing that work life balance that everybody talks about like where where is it for you yeah and that changes every decade and what's going to fulfill you what's going to make you happy I don't know my priorities have definitely changed yep even in the last two years and that's a constant Evolution I'm like I don't want to do this anymore can we do something else my husband's like stop maging up more stuff for you to do I'm like I'm moving into the things that I should have been doing all along I had a great meeting yesterday uh because we're building a volunteer program in in Mash p and it's very disjoint Ed everything seems to be siloed in my my town you do this and you do this and you do this and you do this and you stay in your lane and we there's opportunities for us to all work better together and I'm I'm finally like okay well if I have to be that person then I'll be the person yeah consell I was chatting with consell Carol yesterday she was like what is your official title I'm like I don't know Community organizer what would you say your official title would be I feel like that that would be it yeah I mean we all wear many hats in our regular life it's true do we need all these 47 titles underneath our name to feel good about ourselves do I need all the accolades underneath your title I always laugh when you get an email from somebody that's just got all the stuff all those initials after your name well not not even the initials it's just like the stuff it's like the awards and we won this and we're a part of this great company thing and all of these things yeah but you can't take them with you no so they're in your email by line what's up Thomas hey Don how are you there was a really um very nice um post about um the philosophy of Charles Schultz okay creator of peanuts um and it was a bunch of questions where you know they asked you know you to answer all these questions yep and it was about you know you know five wealthiest people in the world Heisman Trophy winners winners of the M Miss America Pageant and all that kind of stuff and a lot of people don't know that and then you ask yourself the other questions these are the other quiz questions is listed teachers who aided in your journey through school name the friends who have helped you through a difficult time name the five people who have taught you something worthwhile think of the people who have made you feel and appreciate and be special I know it's hard not to feel emotional about that but it's like those are the things it's in mon Angel said that once you know people remember how they made you feel how them feel yep and uh that's what you have to put into perspective oh hugs yep I didn't mean to make you get in your feelings today but here we are talking about them damn you I know Don said your mental health is very important my father took his own life over not being able to support his family that's that's heavy and not not hot talking about it not asking for help that's one of the hardest things is asking for help and there are people that want to be there for you and you don't know it sometimes yeah we're so much better about it I feel like as a people but we could do so much more so um if you're struggling we're here for you what's up Mary Jean thanks for joining us on the show um he went from a director of operations to pet sitting sometimes you got to do it quality of life right less stress I had a conversation with a lawyer who is now um a professional Knitter she crochets and she's so happy I mean she does do the law advice on the side for a couple of extra bucks but it's less pressure of having that firm for sure I'm going my goal is to go from director Finance to a kudin on a park bench oh you're better than that you're not going to be kudin le Muppet you talk smack about it but it's so not you I know but you know with my friend Greg we are Statler and W that's it Knights we're just there to complain y you know it's trible we know that but we we have fun well I'll run your Muppet Show for you anytime time and allow you that bench oh but I won't have hair growing out of my ears I swear constant shaving oh that's just part of life my friends oh my God inside and on the outer skirts of it oh just like please it is such a pet peeve of mine I just like men please just that's part of grooming I know that and getting a pedicure more men need to get pedicures if unless you know you're going to PSA everybody if you're going to Sock your feet don't wear sandals if you hadn't had a pedicure this is your pssa there there is nothing feminine about it it's gross as seeing your nasty heels I'm glad that you you brought that up because apparently there's going to be zero privacy in our lives going forward Ray Ban has these new metag glasses that will literally stream everything that you see online so there will be nothing I mean not that there already isn't that way but this is like taking that extra step to ensure basically it's Terminator Vision I right where you're looking at someone and it's already going to profile them and show you all their their stats like we're getting closer to Tom Cru in Vanilla Sky than we've ever wanted to get in our entire life I right I got this advertisement or this um a sample of these pills that are supposedly like to regenerate your mitochondrial DNA like basically turn you back into your young self and I was like do people actually spend money on this they do people buy this yeah biohacking is a real thing there's nothing well I don't know I've got this story right here where see the routine of a biohacking couple who plan to live longer than anyone on the planet and the first time I've ever even like really paid attention to this when I saw this stupid Paris Hilton special when her and Megan Trainer were going over all of the machines yes that they own in their home for their well Ness and I was like this is outrageous like we made fun of gwenneth paltro with her goop this is next level stuff the things that people are doing to stay alive longer till death Dre us part but not for a long long time is the story title A young couple from the Midwest said they plan to live longer than anyone on the planet they um have this thousand a month membership to Precision Health and a longevity Clinic that's in Cleveland M um what oh they both decided that they were going to live like this after nine months of dating but uh they set the tone for optimizing their mind and body the amount Ox hyperbaric oxygen Chambers Nano VII that claims to repair everyday cell damage for dinner they cook organic dinner which sits down around 530 the couple then take long walks through the hills and begin their wind down routine then they do a SAA session switch the house to red lights at Sunset they're in bed by 9:00 p.m. every night and do those long walks in the mountains they're young belong to their own land well this is that's do they have a dome over that's all clean air right you you can't pulse electromagnetic field therapy that they're also using through their yards the couple hopes that their strict routine will help them welcome their first child soon you're going to bring a big me into that crazy of course I'm saraphina but what if they get divorced who gets the Hyperbaric IV chamber well the thing is it's like why do you want to live to be that long what are you contributing what do you plan on doing right if you're spending that much time worrying about living what are you actually doing with your life absolutely I'm I'm just curious how are you bettering Humanity not we're just persevering you're preserving yourself you're like a jar of of applesauce no you're just increasing the insanity right I I I don't know if we need you people to live longer Susan Powers when you need it I miss her can somebody know we need more stop the insanity commercials that are going around out of here that was like the best I don't know if she wants to be known for that anymore Mary Jane says I swear not all Midwest People are cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs thank you you Mary Jane that's awesome but also why right and there these this is an extreme couple version of this but a lot of people in that space I know the beers are also into all of this like crazy Wellness we can't even open that luggage right now there's a lot and I feel really heartfelt heartfelt sad about what he had to go yeah yeah but what but what's the wife's excuse we're not talking about she's in a reparative state herself so exactly and you know what he he he invited that crazy one what's up aune thanks for joining us on the show rtb and Stephanie it is Friday we are very excited to start the weekend here lots of fests lots of activities lots of um just I don't know getting out enjoying the fall weather I yeah I put the winter stuff on the bed yesterday I made the decision I made the call my husband's like you're crazy I'm like that's it the winter Decor it's happening I need the warmth it was freezing in my house yesterday there you go I don't know how I'm going to survive all these Christmas festivals I need to thicken my skin well we need to get through October Fest listen I was in I love October Charleston last weekend it was 91 degre 91 that was your that's not October I know that was your choice though sweat mustach you know so have we eliminated retiring anywhere not where I need to be I not to be there no yeah I know I'm I love the change of seasons it's yeah I don't think I'll ever not be a New Englander agreed I do like to travel don't get me wrong our lemon8 o Cruise itinerary just came through yesterday I haven't seen it I don't know anything about it well I hope I can go it is an adults only Cruise everybody and it is a very small grean Cruise Line and I am very thrilled it's jnik it's a little Montenegro and it's a little bit of Greece and I am saying yes to all of it seems affordable all of the itinerary which I love there are like seven different activities you can choose from not all of us have to do the same thing that's cool which I love that yeah what was the first place before monegro you said um de brnik de brnik where are I know how to spell that where our lemon Ado servers are out of I had no idea our Croatian servers you know not even oh my God I was like cliff wow that's cool that's where our stuff is isn't it he's like are you kidding me right now I gotta go listen he's the more techy Tech of the planned that 100 do you think so yeah well he has no choice over the cruise I chose the cruise okay but I gave it to one of our eforall girlies uh unique experience travel she's like give me a chance give me a chance to to plan something for you cuz she knows I usually between cliff and I love to plan these ridiculous um very Thrifty trips this one is going to be uh I'm gonna sit back and be a potato yeah for a full 10 days that's cool walk me to and fro feed me and tell me what to do it's only Adriatic too to shut my brain off yeah that's where it is I knew it was around the do you remember um cheers no you remember coach the yeah remember the show and I think it was Sam or something was trying to they were taking a history class and and coach was te um was teaching him he's like Albania Albania oh yeah you are in the adri Attic see and now I I need to remember that it's always in my head when I think about the Adriatic City well it's like that and I never watched it regularly either but it was that was just that one episode that stuck with you that one specific moment yeah your recall is crazy good I still hav most times yeah I still haven't even seen the new season of Saturday Night Live but apparently they stepped in it yeah it was what are your thoughts it wasn't that great what are your thoughts on the new cast the new cast I haven't seen enough of them yet okay yeah I will say that the opener was fantastic okay you haven't seen it yet no I so you know but you know about it yes yeah I mean my of course do and kamla and then Dana Carby showing up to do that's awesome Joe Biden was hysterical excellent I love Dana Carvey and then I was like is that gaffan acus and it was awesome he's so thin now right uh Kinda Yeah I he's not like he he go that's part of his strick vas vacillating yeah yeah I think he wants to be kind of like what's the gentleman oh there's a big following for him handcrafted by Aaron I've gamada you know gamada he's got a lot of oh Paul Gatti yeah Paul Gatti a lot he's got a lot of bear followers G that find him very attractive so I think G I think gaffan is that his last name galanakis galanis can't even pronounce it can't remember it you know I think he wants that kind of notoriety but it's not gonna happen I just love him I Channel my inner Zach gal fakis every time I go to mash PTV because it's in between two ferns his fake little talk show that he did on oh whoa no not g not him not oh okay Jim Gaffigan his name that's who I was talking about he was the one that was on he's like Dad funny yeah it's like oh Dad told another dad joke again Dad funny there were there are more dads that are funny yeah sorry I agree uh eron says I've forever been waiting for this weather you mean Sweater Weather Sweater Weather Sweater Weather yes sther we've been waiting in Sweater Weather and I told you last week I finally bought my ticket because I usually don't go to see a lot of shows yeah outside of rock D two weeks away yes um that's the one though because I feel like you get the taste of everyone back for your buck totally um but I'm going to see Margaret cha she's coming to Boston in March and I'm excited at the Wilbur right at the Wilbur and I love that venue it's better than a TD Bank or Bosch Center formerly the Wang that's another thing that rtb and I bonded over is the fact that we just love comedy regardless good bad otherwise and we still keep talking smack about doing one night routine oh god there I know I I feel like we got to I know we have to do it like what year is it we've got to do by by the end of 2025 we need to have thrown ourselves to the Wolves right and opened a standup show for AJ I feel like that's the safest place for me to start it or even maybe even one of his Open Mic nights like I'll feel like I check that box if I did the open mic night and got one person that's not in my Vortex to just chuckle a little chuckle I'm not a laugh out loud person I even asked my husband the other day I said do you think I'm funny and he's like dead silence he's like no you're funny he's like it's just different comedy it's not like punchline funny yes it's just like think about it later and you're like oh that was that was funny yeah because we have more dark black comy I don't know what it is but I'm not like funny but it's definitely like all right that was that was a aming I'm amusing okay yeah so I I want one small little chuckle out loud like you couldn't help but laugh at that because that was clever yeah then there's then there's the die tribe if you're gonna go on a specific I'm a Ranter boom yeah and that's a thing where it's really hard to write material because you're just like oh I just can ran about it but you know it's different when you're up on the lights right yeah that's it being nervous being up on that stage being out in front of people not being able to see them and frame you've got to deliver yeah because you got to know your audience and when you don't know your audience it's a whole another thing you've got to be just generally funny well then you have to like have the experience well not have the experience but be experienced enough to know like specific Comics who have gone through that yeah like J Rivers where she doesn't give any [ __ ] right she was just like grow up get over it's comedy I abuse Melissa on the regular you're a poker player what do you a poke player I I'll never forget Celebrity Apprentice when she said that about Annie Duke and I and I I'd known Annie before that and thank you for bringing Joan back to me you brought her you mentioned her to me last week absolutely and you mentioned her to me this week it's the levity and the the just the honesty about it and the absurdity about how some people can be just like she always grounded people and like get over it come on yeah you've come to see comedy you know and there's a lot of things and it's one of the things that's happening comedy is dying because of all this pc pc stuff yeah I think it's just evolving um I don't think it's dying it's dying in that respect and less like hurt your feelings right but there you know there's still an audience that really enjoys Zak com and I've recently found uh mat oane to be one of my most favorite human beings I did I send you as real yes I've watched them all it was hysterical there's not one word that this man has said that I have not ingested over the last month and a half I don't know what why I'm so late to finding him but I am obsessed with him what it was an mtv80 show about dating oh yeah it was on a bus like they have five people I forgot the name of the show it was hysterical he's just like re rewatching things and like poking fun at them but his real show is basically um his he did a standup show in Chicago for a year where he just basically invited people to come in and ask him questions with his comedy friends yeah and I loved the premise of it yeah because it was just very very funny but he himself in his comedy makes me die laughing he's so funny he was so open about getting hair plugs he was so right yeah he's very on and he's even when he was like dishing the the stuff people were wearing on that MTV show and the like I was wearing that right you know it's like it was nice because it was funny it's great to kind of joke at but it's like all right I was wearing jimy zip you know foco pants back there and too that line of self-deprecation but also self celebration it's like it it really is a fine dance in between you know living your best life yeah well we've all been there and we've all learned oh she goes saraphina goes that show was called Next that's right that's right thank you I love it that's right completely right but he did even like remote control he started going over the different ones and how bad they were and uh it was awesome Kathy says maybe they need more places to hang their laundry are you talking about the couple that's trying to live forever I don't know good morning Emily thank you for joining us on the show today RTV and Stephanie hi Tom Ricky thanks for joining us on the show it's Friday it's fall I'm excited I am too yeah it's this time of year that just I don't know I feel whether it's the new change of pace or just the crispness in the air it just makes I don't know it makes me feel like okay we survived the summer things are going to slow down just a little bit even though they're not but they are well there's a big thing about the the changes of season yeah it's a different pace yeah and when people say that they hate the snow or they hate the cold I'm like well that's part of rebirth right you know I mean have you ever like really just been in the Silence of snow yeah it's kind of terrifying really do you know what happens up here no that is not a good place for me to be I I love it it's the most it it can be the most well it is it and it's true you have to keep keep it in check and just breathe and meditate in some way because it's the most it's the most isolated Majestic thought-provoking uh realization of your being I'm terrified when I shut these wheels down what's going to happen it's like oh spray everything down with WD40 we're going to have this is going to be a massive overhaul to get this engine working again you don't re you don't re you don't evaluate your life but you just enjoy the moment that you're in it you don't have to spiral into existentialism you just enjoy the moment do you know me do you know me at all I need to do that I need to do that with you you're going to take me on a spiritual journey we're g to take you on a spiritual journey we're gonna be in a dead of winter good morning Jackie benon this is it lemon8 host Stephanie vaa she's an award all by for the rest of her life you need this this say she needed a break she needed a break and she had a break never to be seen or heard from again goodbye no big rot Dust in the Wind that's all we are wow oh I don't know the I have such Fascination for meditators and yogis and for people that can have this sound mind quiet bath sound bath stuff I don't do it all the time but there are just these moments where I can get it because true I mean I'll get into those existential Spirals and I'm just like no I can't do that because then I'm traveling in time right I am Reeves and sedra Bullock and speed and this is I know one pace I know one note I remember it's true it's fast it's loud I know one song I'm good at it and that's all I'll do all I know this is it oh my God I remember one time when I was judging D Tucket un uh junior miss and it's now distinguished young women it's a scholarship program uh and one of the judges is a Men's Choir um director Sean and Sean was like do you got one note Viva you got one note what are you singing I was like I don't know harvy it's one note it's the note that it is leave me me now I know what your theme song is one note no it's Take Me As I Am by Carly Simon that's it it is have you do you know that song yes I do from her come upstairs album It's 100% this is me that's hysterical right now this is my song oh my God I know what song to play for a big birthday celebration for you I love it Emily says where is Stephanie she is on a spiritual journey forever for life what's up Mark thanks for joining is Trish how are you today it's RTV and Stephanie if you're just joining us I am not going on a spiritual journey you are going to take me as I am this is my new theme song I love it to quote one of our favorite Rock and Roll Hall of Fame abues uh that we were sad that she was not available on no but she's in the class the first year we went that was great 2022 right but I've heard so many rumors isn't it funny how people like to start rumors about things that they know nothing about about so they're like nothing else to do yeah we haven't seen this one in a while what crazy thing can we make up about them to tell everybody to make up for the fact that they're not around or participating in what it is that we're doing and we want them to we want them to come out and say something it's like no you we all know a person like this she's got more money than God she doesn't have to deal with any of you so shut the hell up there you go there's no validation needed like she doesn't need her passport stamped anymore she's doing what she wants to do when she wants to do it exactly I strive for that also it's got plenty of plenty of fans plenty of accolades plenty of uh people that are close to her well there was one of those questions sorry she's he got so excited go well you know why she you know she's close friends with who Diane soyer oh I love hero fun fact about rtb big fan of Diane Sawyer yep we love her and Mike Nichols her has been passed away I know that was sad he was he was a very talented man and wonderful person he's a yeah there was another celebrity was talking about how he had influenced her to go to therapy you know who it was Julie Andrews I love Julie Anders everybody does and there's a person who will no longer sing again because of her botch vocal cord surgery and she just had to figure it out like okay I can't do this anymore yeah but she wrote a book and and has helped so many people with all different types of um you know mental health issues that she went through yeah because she went through it yeah and not just the singing all other other personal struggles I we all go through yeah I love her she is like just one of those humans that is just a beacon of light you don't even have to talk I know I remember when Rosie odonnal show was on and she talked about how she had actually gone over to her house and like she's like Mary Poppins is putting putting a um a a blanket on me in her home it's like wow you know what an experience well that's kindness when you experience actual genuine kindness yeah it's mindblowing especially when your kid you know she's you know Ros is always about I was just a kid from comac Long Island and you know here I am I'm with all these people that I idolized watching well and then I mean she got the angry woman narrative on TV and then disappeared off the face of the Earth who did Rosie oh she was just being honest is she right right is she angry and alone I don't know no she's not no she's not um well we need to end our show because we've been here a full hour can't believe it's a blink it's aink when I'm hanging out with you so exactly um Mark I don't know what YouTube you just sent me I'm going to have to look at it at a different time uh hopefully in a safe browsing situation Chris thank you for joining us on the show Jen thank you for listening to us uh just absolutely have our spiritual journey together take me as I am rich you need to experience a DEA winner no I'm not GNA do just a small source we've got homecoming I've got baby witches to get to and I hope it is that you have a great weekend um don't forget about our two final mashby farmers markets Sunday uh we have got um uh Matt leac going to be performing for us and it is our Fall Fest and then following is our 05k our Pink 5K in which I talked to the bagpiper yesterday it's on good we have a bag Piper opening yes Stephanie is it under 5K yeah it's a point 5K will there be candy I think there will be there'll be 100% candy we've got a dog birthday party going on we've got the big flag from the mash B Police Department it is like it is on so make sure you get signed up and that is our final mashby Farmers Market we'll do the clam jam and then get ready for our Christmas Market so I hope to see you out in mashby Commons doing something fun at some point soon Rich rock and roll yay and then we'll see you soon bye 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