Amy Carroll on What's News Cape Cod

thank you very much again foreign hello hello and good morning good morning thank you so much for joining me Amy Levitt always looks phenomenally put together when you see her in the morning wherever she is face beautiful glistening you've got your mermaid Heron and you're ready to bedazzled the day that's it it's all about Sparkle I love your sparkle you really do Sparkle as a human being thanks for joining me once again thanks I'm so happy to be here um we love to talk about ditching our bras dozen well it's just a fun thing to say but boy yesterday I had to commend you I said several thanks to you over this very hot and sweaty weekend that we just survived yes I saw you yesterday it was hot it's funny it really was and it was a wild weekend I had six different events that I had from Friday to Sunday so that was just an incredibly jam-packed weekend that I had had but I had my wonderwear and I was wicking away my nastiness which I was so thankful I was like really thankful that I didn't have to deal with the boob sweat that's right and you were sure to tell everybody because it was a new lease on my family I'm not used to this I know it's amazing it's the wow yeah if you've never been around me in public it's usually a dose of inappropriate but also really fun we have a good time always we're always laughing I know well you know I had three events that involved children actually Four events that involved kids and so they don't just sit around you have to run after them you have to run around on Friday I got hit with a uh a basketball it was my fault I brought the basketballs we didn't bring one of the you know the soft kind they were soft my husband and I have one of those traveling basketball hoop things so it was a kid's event it was the back to school barbecue at quad Elementary with Casey Coombs Elementary in middle and it was just such a great time but yeah that that that started with the ball that hit me and then Saturday we had kindness Festival where we had thousands of children just absolutely everywhere in the weather once again steamy hot then we went on over to Seaside Le Mans which you had hot race cars going around Mashpee Commons like it didn't cool off at any point over the weekend no and then I rounded out my Sunday with uh 5K at the Cape Cod Children's Museum for Grandparents Day and the debut of their Heroes exhibit which I felt like my bra my non-bra underwear was the one that was the hero of this entire weekend that's right thank God I had multiples because nobody needed to see that aftermath of what was happening under the clothes this weekend I know well this was the this was the total test right or wicking so I I see Amy and I she had an extra one and I just wanted to show everybody so I wanted to feel like you and be able to measure even though I can't measure when you buy things online I always have such a hard time measuring myself oh it's very easy okay we'll show you how to thank you we're gonna do we're gonna uncover these facts and more today as you watch our show it's perfect and then I got to see you over at knock about yesterday that was great and thank you so much for the support we always have a great time with our Makers Market and I know it was our first football Saturday I know it's a little early to talk about our losses on the field yesterday but I feel like it was way better than I expected that game to go it was all right hahaha we had an opportunity to win that's what that's right things yes just a little just a bit and I'm not a huge Sports person but I do love football and I was really really disappointed so many close calls this weekend yeah but there were people there that were already in the Patriots gar by sawamari there oh yeah Marion Hank you'll see him tomorrow and we can digest all of the sports stuff because that's his favorite thing he loves sports talk so he'll get into all of that business today is national bosses day yes and since you and I are both self-employed we've got a high five ourselves uh we feel pretty good about our Boston yes yes yes absolutely maybe you can talk about that being an entrepreneur and self-motivating and being a boss well it's the greatest thing because like I don't have to ask anybody for permission that's true to take off yep no emails to people asking if it's all right nope I I mean being Your Own Boss you really you have to be disciplined totally have to be disciplined you have to have that built in okay I can do this kind of a thing I I have calendars and schedules and you know I if it's not for my calendar I would miss out on a lot of things right but hey we could do this because we are the boss it does stress me out a lot that I'm a baby entrepreneur and the fact that I've only really been my own boss now for three years and uh I feel like it's been a extreme painful growth period and figuring out there's no there's no one to back that up it's you that's right right and there are ups and downs I'm always talking about yeah ups and downs yeah and you just have to be able to have that confidence to keep going so maybe that's what we're going to talk about today a little bit of confidence um regardless of what you do for a living and what you have in front of you for your day there always needs to be that sort of confidence that you do believe in yourself absolutely you do feel good about that and that's part of your whole ordeal um just really quickly remind everybody what it is that you do Amy I help women never have to wear bras again we like that but in a really comfortable supportive way yes I like that and no support and no and no wires and really good for our lymphatic system yeah we women have to stick together it was funny I saw one of those random memes and it was a underwire and somebody was like my husband keeps asking me what was missing in his toolbox and I didn't have the heart to tell him this underwire it wasn't his tool at all I need to see that Dean I'll find it for you I'll send it to you anytime I see some some fun silly ones because it's kind of barbaric when you think about bras I should have brought my wire from the underwire that I have in my office I mean who needs it they were invented by a man correct yeah and you don't need it you do not need that stuff to to hold you up well I think that that's the skepticism I saw you having a conversations with a couple of my girlfriends yesterday uh and they were kind of fascinated by the fact they were they were concerned about the lift because as we age things tend to not be so lifted well that's true because it happens it's life that's right I was going to say that's life that's what's supposed to happen right ever with this particular technology that we have you are lifted and you don't need that wire yeah right good morning Seth I'm confident that I want to go back to bed this morning happy Monday to you I wish confidence was like a vitamin that we could take daily it can be such a battle absolutely Ashley and thank you for all you do you seemingly have it so I'm definitely one of those fake until you make it kind of people I have to have that internal dialogue with myself before I step out all right and I kind of arm myself it's that conversation that I have with your inside voice sometimes outside depending on who's around but I'll sit there and just say to myself all right we've got this we've got this we gotta go in here strong we've got to portray this I have those yes dialogues with myself and it's important so my grandmother I think about her all the time she said to me you have to love yourself first you have to wake up you have to look at the mirror and say I love you I'm proud of you I don't utter those words but I do utter the the habits today's also National make your bed day and I think it's a habit that we should be getting into where you're looking into the mirror and saying to yourself whatever it is it could be I love myself it could be of this situation or it could be a all right you've got this day you're a badass you're gonna go out and do this it is that self-pep that that self-talk yes that you have to be mindful of and be kind to yourself absolutely and so I just have to say you know when you're wearing these things you stand up straight yeah and so that kind of gives you that self-confidence just because of the skin that you're in okay right your shoulders are back you're standing up straight hey I'm confident yeah I can conquer this today yeah there's there's a lot to do with posture that's that's a yogi mentality right Ashley you're our resident Yogi um I I like to get into more of it I need to get into more of that my body's saying yes yes Stephanie that is correct and I was making a point of starting today but we got busy this morning so we'll do that Thursday but I do have a plan for it plans are good that's it you just have to execute it as well as the boss that's it we're putting all these layers these steps together so you're saying the wonderwear makes you already hold yourself up you begin with your posture and confidence you tell yourself I love you in the mirror what else did your grandmother give you well she gave me the love for color and purple and all that other stuff you are really fashionable I am jealous of that I don't have that in my life you can I could maybe I I just don't think I'm that creative I use my creative for different Outlets well you're creative so yeah your beauty comes out that way differently correct right you love wearing your yellow I do I do it's my it's my new color regardless if it looks good on me or not it's what it is I just ordered a yellow dress oh because it is the best of sun Wednesday so I'm going to the dinner I've been nominated for two Awards I'm in the top three and right there I feel like that's just a win and the amount of work you do regardless if you win fully I just love the fact that I am appreciated someone else saw me someone else nominated me and I was voted enough to to be there because these are Community Choice Awards which I feel are much more important than than metrics sometimes I feel like it's really absolutely a measure of who you are in the perception of other people's eyes sometimes your peers the people that you're out there serving well and it's really great I have to say this is something that I've been learning you know as part of my confidence kick and all that appreciate and acknowledge that somebody is saying this about you yeah and it's not just one I know it's hard it's very hard to take that self the accept the acceptance of yes I'm doing something great and I'm proud of myself yeah so that's a great deal so congratulations well it's one of those things that I think is becoming more of um uh societal Norm where we're allowed to congratulate I feel like before you had to be quiet and humble and not make a big deal out of it I don't know if it's a societal thing or if it's an age thing or if we're finally just getting better about self-care I think it's I think we are learning about self-care and we are learning that we are important and we have to put ourselves first yeah and the rest just falls into place thank you so much for joining us this morning we've got Amy Levitt she is here for Ruby I absolutely need to learn how to measure myself rubyribbon.com is her website slash Amy Levitt and you need to go there because sometimes you've got specials you've got deals if um I know I meant to look for my daughter there were so many killer deals and I missed them especially for swimwear yes and now we're moving into other stuff but you're always getting new products as people are seeing the knee yes absolutely like can I just I love that this this is our brand new Sleek yeah it's called Sleek okay and it's wide straps it's really like a tank I'm wearing it as a shirt I'm perfect like in this weather who needs right to take off the layers that I need all of this no way I know yeah and I'm one of those people I just prefer full coverage I feel safer for everyone this is not the king's cleavage contest over at the King Richard's Fair here we need to like keep it all together nobody needs to see any of that uh so I feel a little bit more comfort with that like squish that hug and I like that that the sizes are for whatever spot you're in right now maybe you ate a bunch of cake over the weekend and you need like a little more rum maybe it's that monthly time maybe it's a different shift in your body this week this month and I didn't even tell you any of those things no that's what I talk about all the time because our bodies are so different you know every day right depending on you know the day of the month or like you said um if you've eaten too much I've got a lot of sodium over one weekend and I was like oh this is too tight like I need some space right right and so normally I like to be squished but I needed space it was Sunday right and so so you can have one of our pieces in two different sizes for those days that you really want that hug when you're wearing that dress and you want it to be yeah or you want a more consecutive a more comfortable but it's not it's a suck it in but it's not it's not you're not being you're not feeling like you're a can of biscuits really the pop I Love It Jose says you or on my desk in the middle of the Atlantic he is checking in from um Pico which is an island in the Azores wow so thank you so much for joining us this morning very exciting yes I cannot wait to get back how was the wine this season tell me everything Jose we miss your face I sent a couple of people your way so I will have to let you know when they're in town and uh maybe you can give them the grand tour of Pico oh wow such an amazing Island we really just loved everything about our visit to the Azores I have a friend from there oh and I always would see pictures love it well because it's like the Atlantic Hawaii it's stunning if you've not been able to check it out five hour flight from Boston everybody oh it's not yeah direct oh wow so it's a really nice flight I don't know why more people aren't visiting but I'm okay with you not visiting right that's it exactly so we're here talking about confidence we're here with uh some measurement tape around our neck what is the best way for you to explain to people how to measure because I don't really I can't ever remember my sizes so here's the thing traditional bra sizes are not what you're what is going to help you get into a comfortable piece of Ruby ribbon yeah so take this tape measure and if you don't have a tape if you don't have a tape measure I have tricks okay you can use a string you can use your telephone cord and did you know that a dollar bill is six inches well now I do so if you don't so now you do you don't have a soft measuring tape you can use any of those things and then measure all right so you want to measure under your bust where you're what you're getting today everybody wear your Broadband where your bra band would be and you want to keep it you want to keep it parallel to the floor you don't want to have it up halfway because that's not going to give you a good measurement okay so that's your first measurement your next measurement is over the largest part of your bust and not and you're not pulling it tight you're just letting it sit there the third measurement is your waist okay and then your fourth measurement is your hips okay and where your hip bones are correct yes so it's sort of like um over your belly kind of a thing okay it's like yeah because one of my aunts likes to wear and I'm calling you out like Ed Grimley nice and high-waisted pants everything's the high-waisted pants thankfully we're away from the Britney Spears world where it's like adjustable above your girl parts right right oh yeah right there's a vast area in between there in which we should be measuring right and some of us are short ways short-waisted you put your hand if you put your hands like this um and you measure from your where your bra band is or your Anchor Point yeah down to where your belly button is it depends if you are short-waisted average or long waist we were having this conversation the other day because as my son is growing like a weed and we're getting fit for all kinds of different stuff with him and you know he's always constantly measuring back to back with Dad am I taller am I not I said you know what's funny his legs are longer but his torso is shorter well that's just a different body shape absolutely yeah I'm short I'm I'm short I'm five two and a half you are short I didn't realize that because my lit I have very long legs and a very short weight and a very short torso but people look at me and go or if I'm walking with a friend and you know who you are if you're watching when we go on our walk she's like slow down oh yeah right my legs just they just take that's your stride yes yeah so that's it that's your torso size it's just what you've been given that's it accept it embrace it a part of the confidence that's right we're working on it Amy right we're getting better with this yes we are um so okay I've gathered all these measurements and now I'm ready to order what do I do now so now we need to know what style and size is going to be right for your personal body so I have a fit finder it's a link that you just fill out you put those four numbers in we both get emails and then I'll say to you yes I agree with it no I want you to add this to it and then I give you the or the the link to order because I don't I what I don't want to happen is people just say oh yeah I'm a 36 and then they just order something randomly and it could be totally off yeah okay and so it's super super important that we work together on this yeah and it's also something that you can do for um for people also if you're not really you haven't gained your confidence yet because you don't have your wonder where Mario said they played a good game just not good enough it's right and attitude determines altitude I like that Cindy I volunteer to hold the tape so says Dave hagner I'm sure good and foggy this morning oh it's Heidi when you walk with me Heidi's calling herself out oh yes hey thank you so much for joining us this morning so we're just talking about some confidence today a little bit of measuring today and to not be stressed out about this measurement I know that that's a trigger for some people it is when you start holding the tape and then you've got this 24 36 24 brain space of of this is the ideal size or maybe you've been scarred for dance costumes when you were a child not that I'm I'm speaking from experience um just any other way when you see a tape measure when I was in the military that's how I had to be sized was tape because I never made weight um I was just I'm heavy we're a heavy people okay I was always the size that was right but I didn't make weight so then they would have to get out the tape and I'd see the tape and I'd get upset so for me it's like a trigger so when I see tape measurement that's why I'm like I know I'm gonna put this around my neck I'm gonna own this stinking tape measure because I always made the tape that was not the issue but it was just one of those things that I was like do it right again well you know what and it's the thing that when we're measuring and when we give you a size listen there were times they're random sizes also which I appreciate so it's not that like I kept saying it's not the same thing as a traditional bra sizing so we want to make sure that we get all of your important parts covered and supported and lifted and so that's what it is I don't even look at like I I do the numbers I write them down and then I just figure out what your size is and it's not anything about oh my gosh no it's not about that good absolutely not this is something that you're gonna feel so good in you're gonna fall asleep in it which yeah that's the comfortable situation and yeah absolutely I did last night it was nice and comfortable yeah it's usually my just walking around the house gear now because you can wear it absolutely not like a bra it's just a shirt sometimes the Harvest this year was great and I'm waiting for another visit yes uh I will be definitely visiting a lot of people had great harvests it was nice yesterday we were at knockabout and Global Farms had all their new pumpkins oh I know so I got a couple of new pumpkins I was very excited the corn was amazing made that for dinner last night and I definitely suggest that you get to one of your local farms around you and support some local I love that farm especially because it's young people that are that are out there doing it yes and to know the value of that hard work and they understand sustainability is really important uh it just really is nice and I like to support that so support that where you possibly can and those white pumpkins were so aren't they so cute I know I've got one on my front doorstep right now I'm loving it my measured tape on you had scallops and bacon corn and tomatoes yesterday yeah it was a good day love from Fresh Markets when we have them we'll have one more for the month of September and then we're gonna start to get into some fall mode and I'm kind of okay with fall mode it's warmer I got some stuff I like fall I like being able to wear a little bit but then it stops for me yeah right you didn't push in the winter situation no well we get into that time of year where we might swell a little from all of the celebrations so your wonderwear might be uh very helpful to you that's what we were talking about with girlfriends yesterday you don't get that roly-poly right we were spinning you around right look at how smooth Stephanie is never the model but I appreciated being the model showing off that I didn't have any sweat or sausage lines which trust me we've all been there before where we've worn something that's ill-fitting and it's noticeable and you're uncomfortable that's right we're trying not to do those things for you no we want you comfortable every single day you have the confidence you were just at a um a convention uh sort of um get-together with your fellow wonderwear people yes and uh he got up on stage and you had a moment I did have a moment so I earned the um the values award for the third thank you so you were celebrating ourselves today yes that's right so for the third the third quarter yeah the third quarter and I got up I was excited and I got up on stage and the minute I walked across and I saw our CEO Malin I got overwhelmed and I couldn't I was CR I was crying I it was it was visible I wasn't bawling my eyes out don't get me you know I could but right it's emotions such an emotion and I just I was walking across the stage talking to the different people on stage like I don't know what why this is happening like it was just an automatic I was overwhelmed and and I'm learning my own self-confidence and to uh appreciate when somebody acknowledges me and to say thank you yes I'm proud of myself yeah um and that's taken hey I'm 61. that's taken a long time I think that there's something to be said with that if you're an entrepreneur you're you're a boss person you're in a field maybe that you're not in a space for and you don't have that confidence built up I love that you said it's taken time it's not gonna happen tomorrow and when you think you've had your big win it might not even be your big win it's your baby win to get you to your big win so so I love that also I'm very much overcome with emotion especially in group settings like that when you just the excitement is palpable it's like a little bit of nervous anxiety stress and also just so much pride it's it is that moment of confidence where you're like really overwhelmed by your feelings about it I know and I was just trying to make sure that I didn't trip on like please don't let me fall please don't let my anything be hanging out please let me not have anything in my teeth these are the things in my brain don't fall don't fall don't oh God I hope I have nothing in my teeth right don't fall I was wearing a long dress and like oh no yeah right but that's why I always wear flats you're never gonna find me in heels I have bad knees anyway it's not space for me so I avoid those situations of false and uh I just feel like I get super nervous and I won't eat in situations like that because I'm afraid of something to fall on my clothes oh or once again I'll have something on my face and then I can't come back from that so that also makes me like that pit of anxiety when you're hungry also yes that's like the all of the emotions that anxiety it's anxiety it is totally totally and I you know it was it wasn't a blur because I was really trying to appreciate how I felt it and I was really trying to be in it and so I stood up there and you know I looked out to my you know my my sister stylists and you know got the smiles and you know the hug or the tap and it's okay it's fine and if I did fall down or throw my eyes out that would be okay too do you find it more pressure to be in a room of your peers like that uh as opposed to a group of strangers yeah or someone that you're maybe talking to your product about yes I think it is I feel like I feel super judged and I feel like what if I'm not saying the things that make them think that I'm I'm con I'm able to do this job it is um well it's because you're self-doubting yourself yeah right so that's where we have to say listen I'm here because somebody wanted me to be here I know how judgy I am though in a room of my peers and then I try and magnify that full of that you know what I mean just because of what we do it's it's kind of there's some technical work so when you listen to something that you don't like or you would not have done it that way or you would it's really hard for me to not immediately think that way well maybe we have to think of something that will put us back into that place that I'm not going to do that yeah yeah have a your own Trigger or your own and I know it's totally me but it still doesn't it doesn't make it not be there you know what I mean right I think that that's a confidence thing also well it's a confidence thing and it's you know doing it over and over again until it's into into you like until you're past that feeling I know what I'm doing right I don't need to worry about here's another thing somebody said to me it's none of my business what somebody else thinks of me I like that right so I'm doing what I'm I'm doing me and if somebody doesn't care for the way I do me well yeah okay I could appreciate that we're not loved and liked by everybody Yeah Ashley you had posted something I don't know if you're even still on here right now with us but you had posted something earlier this week that said if you know I basically said how she uses Facebook is a place where she goes to have a conversation and talk to people about her peers but the minute that you're negative or you're invading her space you're deleted you're blocked you're removed this is something that I've created for myself this is my safe space this is my place where I like to go and flourish and connect when you violate that you're out right that's it you really have to do and be protective of yourself when you're on your when you're on your on your own as your own boss this is it you have to protect that absolutely well so it's the same thing I've kept many of my posts about me being a stylist and what I what I do to help other women in my closed group my VIP group but I'm starting to talk more on my main page and then there are some people that really probably don't want to hear about it and that's okay you don't have to yeah right or if I get some comments that are not appropriate or not right for what I want to share you're gone yeah Caroline it is exhausting trying to be what others want to you to be I'm me and that's it also Marie thank you very much you had said something really um poignant I felt like on social she said she's wearing a ruby right now but also she said that it's really hard for her that the people in her lives that she expects to support her don't support her when she needs the support they come to her first when they need something but when it's time for her to need support no one's there to be found and I find that very true when you ask because usually you start when you're starting your business or working out something new there's a new line there's a new whatever you go to the people that you expect to be your friendlies your soft Landings your ones that I'm gonna pitch this to and maybe they're going to give me um they are also your brutalist critics but they're also supposed to be your biggest Champions and when you do that and they're not there it's painful that's hurtful it detracts from your confidence I feel it's it does and it's happened to me and then I have to just say move on yeah I just have to because you have to have a thick skin when you're your own when your own your own boss yeah you have to have your you have to have thick skin period for life these days right it's sad that you have to arm yourself before you leave your home but you do but you have to look at it that I'm proud of what I'm doing and who can I help today yeah right you do so much to help so many in the community like every single day people see you you're you know I love your car with your logo all over it you know look at me look what I could do yeah right but I but I walk the walk also and that's not an easy feat either right and sometimes I don't feel like I'm doing enough and I and sometimes I feel like I I've failed and I'm like what did I really do but I mean you have to be okay with what you can get done today and there's always tomorrow I have a really hard time just shutting the day off and you also are looking probably for Perfection yeah well it's a Capricorn thing you know it's never perfect it's never good enough and I feel like that is so toxic I'm work I know it I'm aware it's been identified as a problem okay okay so it's all right so it's identified as a problem so now all we have to do is just be aware of it yeah and I'm thankful that I have you all as a community to bounce stuff off of and to be be told you know all right reel it in slow it down chill out Caroline will be like have you gotten on your bike I have friends that check in with me to remind me self-care seraphine is like did you go to the beach did you do that thing and I'm just really excited that I have fostered this community of other badass women and guys that are so supportive and whatever it is whatever Community you are I've been bringing in leaders and thought leaders and people that are just really amazing humans to Showcase so I'm really excited that you're you're part of my tribe um I'm so honored well I think it's really important how you stack your deck you are the sum of the people that you surround yourself with and I've been saying this for a really long time it's true though and if you're surrounding yourself with the negative people and the people that are just really hanger on Earth we all have a few in our life that we Foster we hope that they're going to be better we hope that they're in a better spot in their life and they just don't and it's not that that you're disappointed in them you're disappointed for them that's a good that's a good explanation yeah um and and I think we all have those people so as we're out there and you see somebody trying please be supportive of them because I really that's such a confidence booster period for for baby businesses for people that are out there trying something new they're out there putting themselves out there and especially in the virtual world I mean people are brutal you think people are brutal in real life people are very brutal when they're behind a keyboard and they don't care about you at all that's right that's right it's true delete I know well I feel like you're the mama of the the beginning of online sales maybe talk about that Evolution a little bit of where it is now so night I I always say that I'm the grandmother of the internet because I had a gift a personalized gift business in 1994. and I had a website that people didn't even know what the web was yeah and it was a gift business and when I would go to the gift shows did I ever tell I don't know if I shared this before no no and so when I would go to the gift shows in New York City or Atlanta or whatever and I would say oh I have a website and they'd put their hands up like no I don't know what that internet thing is no no no can you imagine and and and I would watch the progression year after year when I would go to the shows um that I you know yearly attended and people were starting to hear about the internet and we're starting to understand that you can buy online and I was I was shipping across the country in 90 in 1994. she's OG Amazon everybody welcome in Danny Mark Jackie thank you so much for joining us yeah toxic people no good and I'm glad I'm part of your journey as well Mark Mari yeah you definitely have to have a thick skin where are you why am I going to miss you Caroline where are you going you better not be going anywhere if I'm online you can find us everywhere as we're talking about now when people were saying no no no I feel like it's important to be embracing new technologies I know people are afraid of it with AI with the way things are going and I feel like you have to kind of put your you have to understand it yes so I have something so we created Ruby ribbon created this studio and so it's it's online through my website and I give you the link and basically we're inter we're interacting I can see you you could see me I can show you things I can show you videos I can make once you've been sized I can say this is what I suggest and I can click on it and then you can just simply add it to your cart and the thing is that I start we just launched this in July and I have really taken to it and I love doing it and you know this is bringing people together and I'm really really wanting it to be a fun tool that it's all it's all technology it's amazing I showed it to my 30 year old daughter and she's like this is so great I can bring my friends on here and you can show them what to do see yeah it's great you have to embrace new technology everyone I know it stresses you out it's but learning new things is hard but you can do it I am so excited for you yes you will still be able to get me in Maine Caroline once again we are power of the internet uh even if I have to send you a modem to get you in the Deep Woods of Maine wherever it is that you go I will find you we can connect I got my new screen ordered for Peloton I tried to do the frankenton for a little while because my screen went so then I was just pedaling with the TV and I'm like this is stupid you need to see something I need the screen and it needs to keep track I need a score I'm not just pedaling for nothing I'm one of those people that need a score there needs to be an end result and I love a AI I really do I had that conversation this morning with um a person that I'm doing a podcast with Tori new season of the first shot Morning Show is out right now if you care to watch us and subscribe to us on YouTube we thank you and appreciate you but she was like oh I'm I won't use it oh and she's 30. oh right so she's just like it stresses me out I won't use it it's going to be integrated into pretty much everything so you're going to have to at least understand the technology whether you like it or not right different technology and you know if there are glitches then you got to work through them which is what I'm doing right now yeah and it's so much better it's such an it's an enhancement to whatever you're doing it's making your job easier too but also it's a different way to connect with people which I think is pretty incredible that you're able to do so because I mean at the end of the day you are working for yourself yes it's a specific brand yes you know that's where you Source your materials from and that's where you get all of your new line you've got some new stuff out love the tank what else have you got oh well I'm wearing a skirt but I've got these they're called uh short they're shorts but they're let the record show Amy's showing me sexy shorts underneath this table I don't know sexy but they look lazy I like it they're hugging they're hugging the the thighs yeah oh yeah they're they're really good so if you want those slimmers but they're also enhancing yes the same way you have to do things to you know to make sure you're in right here what was the word you used scoop and swoop I think every woman knows the scoop and swoop even if you got little ones you know that's it scoop and swoop the booty yeah yes and for me that's a problem because that I'm lacking good morning Patricia yeah this is good stuff your poor husband's gonna watch this back going all right here she goes again he's used to it he has to be this is what you do for a living he is he's like he must like when uh you get to try stuff on for him yes he does yeah oh yeah 100 he says you could show a little no no no no no I don't want my cleavage this one the Bastion of modesty thing isn't that funny like look I'm getting a little I'm getting see yes for the many years that you've been talking about stuff and body parts and other spots and it's still nice to me yeah it's like do I have this up high enough is it my collar isn't high enough it is it's funny though I went to Catholic High School it was very little to be left to the imagination but I was a prude I'm still a prude yeah I don't even like when people use grass language and my kids start dropping f-bombs and it likes it makes gives me anxiety that's what happens to me yeah yes so I definitely understand the modesty space but it's not that I'm immodest or I'm not afraid to say those words just for whatever reason whether it was the way I was raised or how I was taught or just my confidence yeah it makes me feel awkward so I'm working through that because it's just words at the end of the day and they won't hurt me but still like right I cringe a little when I hear it it's true also 25 years on the terrestrial radio where you get fine thousands and thousands of dollars for saying those naughty words uh it does bring those stress level a little bit high up there so yep here you are here I am pushing your confidence you see and showing off those sexy biker shorts there I'm talking about booty over here and swooping and scooping and grabbing a great old time what if someone is uncomfortable when it's time for measurement because we've all been there for a bra fitting or maybe we've avoided it completely I I know people that won't even go to the doctor because they're uncomfortable with their body in a room with another human being it is a situation or they've been traumatized or it's a trigger for them or they just feel so they can't do it so here then I ask how much do you love your bra right how much do you love your bra I don't think anybody says you have straps that fall do you have you know bulges out the side does the wire dig in does it dig into you like what's your Brahma we call it Brahma I like drama what's their Brahma what's your Brahma so if your Brahma is higher than you know the level of wanting to change it then you know those are the choices and we can't force anybody to have better you know better support better lift better abilities for your lymphatic system to be free right it has to be somebody who really wants to make that change you could be hesitant of course we all are yeah but what's worse your Brahma or how you'd feel if you're not you know does that make sense oh 100 I would rather just suck it up and be uncomfortable for a little bit so I can have a lifetime of comfortability exactly it's just one of those things that you have to choose pick your poison right what way are you going to be uncomfortable that's really up to you when you choose it right I want to take a minute to at least acknowledge 911 today I know it's a really uh sad sad day 22 years ago right around this time when our the first Tower was hit and I know we all have very Stark memories of when this happened where we were how it happened and uh really the general disbelief and and that this could possibly happen to us so I did want to at least acknowledge it uh it's heavy it's still just sort of unfathomable that this occurred and we're still here having this conversation but 22 years so we remember we'll take a minute for that I'm here sitting with Amy Levitt we are talking about Brahma no more we are ditching our bras we are talking about confidence we are talking about measurement I laughed today when it was Hot Cross Buns day and then we're here talking about some of the new line that you have coming out or it's the scoop and swoop got a little bit of a booty we all have issues I feel like that's just a woman problem boobs and butts we're like why what are we gonna do with it all it's my new book we're shaping your silhouette that's what we're doing yes that's the name of the title of your book boobs and butts what are we gonna do with it all we can collaborate on a boat I like where one of my stuff into now now what is up with the new line you've got you seasonally right every month we bring out something that's nice uh in it maybe it's in a new color maybe it's one of our Essentials but we have um can I show you something yeah well then it depends it depends yes I'm just going to show you the fun print if I can find it well this is the best bag ever I think you need to show it also bras are the worst cheetah I love it see everyone it's got the spot for your your business they have they have you have individual Pockets individual homes right I like that nobody wants the uniboob it's like the unibrow we strive for not that absolutely right because what they're they're sisters they are sisters not twins thank you so these mold to you your own personal body it does feel like a second skin I do have to tell you that it is worth even trying one on taking one for a test drive just to see how it feels even if you put them in between your weekly if you're not confident or comfortable in them yet until you really start transitioning out I wear the bra less and less it's on occasional moments that I do but it's just because I haven't found the right underwear for it so there's one for every occasion absolutely you know if you want to wear strapless we have strapless if you want v-neck we have v-neck if you want scoop if you don't want adjustable and you want more of a tank I'm gonna have to come and see you for the strapless situation I don't know I haven't seen how that works quite yet the technology has got to be strong yeah it is it is strong it's comfortable okay it's supportive that's it that's really what we're all looking for right because nobody wants that them just hang hanging low no it's not a cute look for anyone no did you know that one of our lines is called second oh really becoming your spokeslady how do you like that no talk to me about what's new coming out uh maybe this month or next month what is like really people are grabbing gravitating towards because I'm sure you've got lines where people are like I can't live without this so we have an Essentials line which that's what we always that's what I always want people to start out with not any of our you know fancy you know lace things all over the place because you don't know that sometimes that material is a little firmer so we go with my essentials and that's why getting sized is so important okay you know you don't want to go Rogue and do it because you could be unhappy yeah and that's the last thing anybody wants when you have a customer is to make them unhappy so you need to do it right right so if you want this scoop neck but you you know you have um a certain size bust there are there's a there's some there's a style called the um ultimate which is the ultimate kind of sounds like I need an ultimate in my life seriously though yes Bionic all these puppies in yes uh where do we find you Amy how do we get involved or at least try it I feel like have a party bring a bunch of your girlfriends out take the stress out of it for yourself and maybe if you make it like a fun event because nobody I do not like shopping I do not like trying things on you've seen me even with you I'm like I'm I'm done I'm over it I don't have time for it in my life it needs to come to me or I'm just not gonna do it absolutely I swear that's why I made the Makers Market so that I could shop and bring all the shop to me because I don't like shopping thing yesterday and then my purse is from Aaron see Aaron's awesome and she made me a custom handbag Aaron threads by the way another female entrepreneur doing amazing things um so yeah how do we come to you and make it at least fun fun well my website you can get to me at curlycammygirl amy.com all right we'll type it in we'll type it in um and then just reach out to me you know send me a private message right here and then we can make a connection perfect anything else you want to say before we go on this confidence and measurement Monday oh oh a good measurement you're right that's right how do you stack up in your business are you stacking up with your wardrobe right now we're all ready for fall I know I am I need to put away the things and I keep trying to dress for fall and it's still clearly somewhere outside I have my white skirt Ah that's it no more Labor Day nonsense you wear white when you want to wear white and that's it that's it we'll drop all the information in the chat and how you get a hold of Amy we've got a full list of all of our events and our schedule on our website I am actually DJing a fashion show this weekend I know right that's fine I am excited for it we're raising some money for Tommy's place and also for Rosie's Place oh that's awesome which is a um uh for women and um it's basically a shelter for whatever it is that you need and that's going to be super fun and I'm excited for that just to listen to different music it's a private fashion show in Falmouth right on the water watch it's going to be pouring rains I do also want to remember that it is ovarian cancer awareness month girly girl parts is happening this weekend but also if you can go on social and find us below the belt it is an ovarian cancer it's just all female Cancers and just really know the symptoms I've got the symptoms in front of you and once again as a female we don't pay attention bloating pelvic abdominal abdominal pain difficulty eating feeling full quickly urinary urgency it's all normal girl problems but if it's over and constant really have yourself looked at make sure you schedule your checkups I will tell you until I'm blue in the face as a Survivor you need to take care of your body you only have one of them my preach is over have a great week everyone and I'll see you out there trivia tonight at dinos trivia is back over at Shipwrecked in Falmouth on Tuesdays video music bingo at tomatillos it's always a good time so find us lemonadeio.com bye Miss Amy hi thank you I know my broad is laughs