Ashley and Stephanie

hello good morning good morning how are you I'm fantastic how are you I've got Ashley St Angelo with me hello uh we will get to your story and you can we're I've been down here for like the last 40 minutes going through document after document after craziness right and I want everyone to get this story now normally this mama is love and light I am here for just positivity um but when you come across a story that is so wild and crazy and egregious for no reason I definitely feel like I need to just we need to have a dialogue about this okay just for a hot minute so first off I got to thank habitat free Humanity uh they are our sponsors and if you are looking to reduce reuse your footprint they have a demo team this is absolutely free so if you're working on something in your house and you're like oh we're getting new cabinets we're getting a new this they will come in they will take all your old cabinets they will resell them so that they can build more homes because quite frankly we 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and you're able to talk about it still and you're still here yes which I'm so thankful for right so a lot of great support for anybody that has suicidal issues there is tons of support out there don't give up never give up this basically boils down to uh bullying to a situ like honestly it's still the bullying do you feel like that's where it all began I mean with your divorce with your your transition with your your like where where do you want to start here are we're gonna start in 2020 good morning Dave good morning Katie good morning everybody um I filed divorce from my ex-wife I don't know how much of the situation you want me to go into well no I mean honestly just kind of lay the the story out for everyone else that is watching at home that knows nothing about what you've been through for the last three years and I mean I'm just giving you the platform to be able to say from your side and from everybody else out there there's always three sides to the story yours the truth and the other persons but this is way bigger than that I feel like you've had um really a horrible time it's hard enough to live period right now but given the amount of paperwork and document ation and as I'm watching you unfold the last three years of your life with this email and that video and this and that good morning Seth we've got Ashley St Angelo with us um who uh reached out to me few weeks ago because you were finally free of your your three-year Battle of Hell of hell with turtle boy right you are not the first person that I know that has been victimized by this human that is the word that is more than the word yes yes I understand that there is journalism yes I understand that there is Free Speech but when it rises to the point of manufactured evidence when it rises to systematically abusing someone for what you feel is your Crusade for righteousness and profit but that's what it boils down down to it boils down to a layer of narcissism and fame seeking to the point where now okay you've got this base level of a funny idea because that's what I remember from original turtle boy stuff was he would get people to send them in stuff about people and then he would exploit these people um not necessar but I mean honestly making it worse your exacerbating and already big issue there was a girl I'm not sure of her name I'm not going to mention her name yeah there was a girl that he did a story on she was a former state trooper he ended up manipulating the girl into a sexual relationship um and he wanted to dump his wife and move in with his wife uh his this former state trooper it's all manipulation it's all control it's all power but in the end result it's also about money well that's it turtley all it's clicks it's about popularity I feel like and this is a really good conversation to have with anybody in your life and also our children about social media absolutely bullying on and harassment on social media is out of control yeah this was not this is Throwback Thursday we're talking I'm I had my post this morning like do you remember your childhood phone number do you remember when we had landlines do you remember when you faced your bully every single day at school and then you went home and you got a break of it well we don't get a break of it anymore our kids are constantly systematically all day long having to deal with other people when they're not liked or something about them is different or they are just not the societal Norm right and I really feel like this was a giant case of cyber bullying for you correct that turned into actual bullying actually went to jail I went to the ACI overnight um long story started in 2020 I we've got coid you're going through a divorce right um your ex for whatever reason gets hooked up with this person that thinks okay I'm gonna make a mockery of you and do you think it was because uh you were trans was it your bad marriage was it just finger pointing do you feel like I think there's all little bits everything yeah like everybody's feelings are all up in this so let's muddy the waters even more and make my ex pay for making me mad right my ex-wife I don't know any of this situation I'm just we're gonna go spitballing this is me as an outsider after I digested all of your life in a manila folder right trying to put the pieces together of this crazy puzzle I filed for divorce for my ex-wife yeah um for multiple reasons but the biggest and the most important reason was the protection of my children MH and my wife and I believe my daughter's 49y old boyfriend at the time and you can't blame my daughter for having a 49y old boyfriend when she was what's that word uh groomed groomed by this guy sorry with my ex-wife's permission she had a relationship Can't Blame my daughter because you know she was allowed it was she was a child right she didn't have she didn't have the heart to understand she didn't have the the mindset to understand shouldn't be with a 49y old guy definely cannot blame my daughter and I love her to Pieces but I want to protect her you just saw my 17-year-old having a meltdown because she she slipped turtle boy got a hold of this story I don't know how he got a hold of the story but turtle boy got a hold of this story and my ex-wife decided to cry abuse now there's a lot of tactics in divorce and people try this careful I don't like cry abuse but you know she decided to say that she was abused right whether it was real how she felt fabric I cannot speak to the mind of your ex-wife I can but I'm just saying yes you can I'm just saying she cried abuse and and she complained that uh was because I was beaten H her I've never been arrested I've I've got a clean criminal history I've never been charged with abuse at this point I have been charged with abuse in the past and it was all thrown out in cases dismissed because it never happened Okay so let's keep everything we're being up front everything's honest turtle boy got involved in this story and my ex-wife cried abuse she claimed all kinds of malicious things in court which every time we went to court her lies got proven to the judge by documentation whether from doctors counselors whomever turtle boy get a hold of it he left me a voicemail asking which I heard that voicemail and it was I my heart broke for you when I listened to that because it wasn't it it was so aggressive right and so just I want to say when you're H exercising your free speech to people agitation and gaslighting it's not free speech right when you poke a bear and it eats you uh hello you poke the bear leave people alone so you got that voicemail that voicemail uh he called to ask if I'm willing to go on his blog which I never heard of before at that point go on his blog so I can how did he say um oh fill your time when you're not abusing people fill my time when I'm not abusing my children yes so after that I got nervous I didn't go on his blog I why would you want to go on that blog that was not an open that was him saying that he invited you and you didn't show right which I don't like after that I kept sending him proof that I wasn't guilty of the things my ex-wife was claiming I kept sending him um documentation after documentation but he used that documentation against me he didn't show his public what was in there he didn't show the truth he well because you can frame a story to look any which way you want the story to look when you leave out things and then add things he manipulated the story so instead of showing the truth he made me out to look like a worthless animal you know I don't know how to what we can say here or not but he made me look like a POS that's fine um and I kept sending him more things to prove I wasn't guilty but he he just kept flipping it to make him look good in the end result he did this story for money um well that's what he does for a living that's you know if there's no salacious crazy going on what's he's not gonna you know get clicks he's not going to get people to go to the website so you're always in search of crazier and crazier like that's the the build right there like I got something a little crazy everybody wanted to know what's going on then moved on to the next one got a little crazy all right well now I'm s now everybody wants this from me I gotta give the people what they want right right no absolutely and that's good morning Lauren if you're not doing that you're not making money in his eyes but but that's exactly it so you know he sees your story as something all right well we're we're gonna have some fun with this one oh yeah instead of like you're a personal victim not only you going it's co I'm going through a divorce now I've got this crazy blogger that wants to make me look even more insane so I went to court in Rhode Island I filed a restraining order in Rhode Island um instead of him showing up now he wasn't served because he either avoided the sheriffs or whatever at this point he wasn't served he knew the court case was in January 25th instead of showing up for that court case that he bragged about on his videos instead of showing up for court to defend himself or you know fight against me regarding why the restraining order in Rhode Island should be placed he went and just um he went to lemonster mass and filed one of his own on the day he was supposed to appear in my casee so he blew off my case the Rhode Island judge ended up having to have the Rhode Island sheriff serve him at his home the Rode Island Sheriff had to go to Holden Mass where he lives and serve him at his home because the local police refuse to help I do want to make mention our friend Don who is a local here said that um Turtle Boy wrote a piece on her when I spoke out on his Facebook post about my son's transphobic boss in my opinion the article made him look much worse than he was trying to make me look so I just didn't give it any attention but if we're being honest it's basically a hate crime and cyber bullying mixed all together and thank you very much Don this is you are not the first person or the second person or the 15th person that I know that has been personally victimized by this human being um for clicks right and cyber bullying and this is absolutely all hate crimes that and this is not the I'm not one of the first transgender stories there's another person it was a homeless person he completely destroyed um anyway so we get the case up in fitzburg Mass I show up turtleboy manufactured by the way you live in Rhode Island I do live in Rhode Island so you're having to take time how do you even have a job like how do you continue your day when you're busy like defending yourself and trying to find evidence to defend yourself now you got to go to court two hours away from where you live so that's that's 4our day right there gas money food how do I keep a job like this is ridiculous I'm not working I am disabled this is ridiculous I'm disabled for many reasons which turtle boy said said that I forget what he claimed listen we're not here to judge anything that you're going through dis and I'm disabled for many physical Reasons I'm not going to get into that's my personal business but you know being disabled and I fixed income having to travel to Holden having to pay for paperwork having to go to court and having to do all this at Turtle booy's fun you know for for him entertainment for his entertainment um not because I did anything at all wrong I've shown you in the document yeah okay um what's upsetting to me the most is the voicemail that you played for me the one that that was used to arrest you now Ashley went to jail went to the ACI arrested for a voicemail that was supposedly you threatening him threatening his ex why oh no was a it was a voicemail left to his wife's job like it's the weirdest thing but you heard the voicemail yeah you know my voice right was that my voice in that definitely was not your voice it was a western Mass voice actually a voice I've heard on the radio before I feel like yes and I'm just gonna leave with that as a former on the dial radio lady I definitely recognize this voice and as many people said the same and I can well I can also attest that I've been called by other radio stations to do prank phone calls to do stuff like that prank phone calls can be fun if it's the right situation well like those those well that's it you cannot actually prank people so we would call other radio people and manufacture these fake phone calls for these jam scams these whatever like it was just purely entertaining and it was all fake anyway we weren't calling real people we were calling other radio people so we have been doing voiceover work in that fashion for many many years this is not new but when I heard that I was like that is definitely not you and also not real and for someone someone to be able to get you arrested with that as a piece of evidence is scary right that's scary you were you were just moving in you moved in with your in your former in-laws right I'm living and here you are like trying to move on with my life I'm going through a divorce like just transitioned like this is my life I'm trying to be left alone and get arrested right I divorced my exwife and the love between me and my kids with my mother-in-law my former mother-in-law and my former father-in-law who are the greatest people in the world you love them you love them to pieces this is crazy to me my ex-wife did everything we she could to stop us from moving in with my former in-laws it wasn't about us living there it was about leaving us homeless including her son but the long story with that is is me and my in-laws have and my children have the greatest relationship in the world good I wish I could have had that with my parents I never did but I love I love them to Pieces they fantastic people good and you're having a better relationship with your children also right now I have all three children in my life and that's wonderful I couldn't ask for anything more see so we're focusing on those positive things right now um so you you are dealing with all of this you get the fake now now not only is you're arrested you're released I went to more manufactured evidence starts popping up f Facebook pages I went to the ACI The Men's prison as a transgender person wrap your brain around that space right there for just a second what that trauma does to someone again I'm G to tell you there is help out there while I was in the ACI I was left in a Cell by myself and Lauren says family definitely does not have to be blood so she's very glad that you've got your family support I was left in a Cell in the Men's prison as a transwoman and I'm gonna be honest with you I I I had an idea a very positive idea of how I could commit suicide at the ACI I wanted to die at that point and nothing was gonna stop me I'm so sorry okay all over turtle boy all over it's not real though that's what's truly upsetting all this evidence was manufactured we'll get into that but all all of this evidence was manufactured um it was posted on his blog by people that know about the case that were court and that know about the evidence that it was manufactured and um this was all about fun good morning Wendy Jen Junior Jessica we're talking to Ashley right now talking about her victim story her uh last three years has been an absolute blur of trying to defend yourself and can we just get a shout out for the court appointed attorney Christopher Walton out of Fitchburg Mass is a 10 Star Gold old nothing better than the best attorney do you think that you would be where you are right now if it was not for this human being that you fell into your life was literally assigned your case and they're like oh boy this is a lot it's a lot at that point I trusted nobody in the world why would you I couldn't trust anybody why would you I didn't know this guy but this guy is has been working effortlessly hard as hell to make sure all this evidence that we have from turtle boy to prove it was all manufactured yeah this guy had his investigators working he had everybody working Christopher Walton you are a gold star attorney my divorce attorney her name is gern cook out of Cen free RH Island same thing she worked in fought like hell for me she knew that I was lowincome she knew I didn't have much she took payment plans she did everything but she made sure that the proof everything was shown in court yeah my ex-wife claimed my ex-wife claimed in our divorce that I was at my daughter's gynecological exams and I sat in the exams and watched my daughter have a gynecological exam my my divorc lawyer got a letter from our doctor the children's doctor showing that that never happened my doctor wouldn't even allow it my ex-wife pulled everything she could this is and divorce definitely brings out the absolute gross worst side of humanity it just does yes and no get ugly and nasty yes or no I never that doesn't sound great I never attacked my ex-wife I never I never you know bothered her I never went at everything we did was in court and after that I didn't want no contact her so I didn't antagonize on my side yeah I just had to keep defending all of these lies over and over and over again which I'm G tell you a lot of stress on you and it breaks you at some point you're just sitting there crying broken because you have to keep defending more and more lies but when yes and now it's public now it's on social so anytime you would post on social no matter what it was he would respond on your social with a link to his show talking about you his article talking about you and it had nothing to do with him when I you know I post replies about things you know some four of a pages and whatever I post replies about things that are good yeah and he stalks me and stalks me and puts his Turtle Boy story about me links to him underneath three different links on each one and he stalked me throughout this entire time he never let go he kept stalking me and you and I have been friends for years socially right um but you had reached out to me about three weeks ago because you finally the the culmination you went to court finally after Lord knows I don't even know how many hours of time man hours arrests probably over hours of just Court hearings and 60 hours of Court hearings how much money have you personally spent between travel and everything else how much money have I spent defending yourself for doing nothing for existing right I couldn't even tell you how there's a lot on a fixed income it's a lot yeah so you've got all of this going on in your life you finally get clear the judge says this is all lies this is not real this is not real this case in the beginning it felt good when when I was able to prove everything Red Island it felt good to know that the truth was out right you think you're done going back and forth to Massachusetts for these fake charges Christ because this is federal right this was State this is Massachusetts not federal I don't believe it was Federal uh it was it was Fitchburg district court so it was you know it was so Rhode Island now Massachusetts right um Chris proved that the uh voicemail wasn't mine like I said many people told me they know who that voicemail was from I will not say um there's because turtle boy was not happy that I wasn't extraditable for that voicemail he made a video on one day saying that oh he's going to manufacture evidence against me to get me brought uh extra datable to Massachusetts the email that he manufactured was a former follower and the email was from a the initials of the email address was from a former story where the people used to live as the add he manufactured that clear his day like I'm exhausted I'm a very busy person I am thoroughly exhausted by going through the amount of people that had to be contacted lies that had to be put out that the like the depth of the coverup to to manufacturing fake evidence against someone that honestly when it comes down to the end of the day you and Aiden have nothing to do with each other never I never would there's no reason for you you to even talk to each other even if he changed his life and went to God and went the straight way I would still never want nothing to do with him no you don't there's it doesn't even matter like mind your business you stay on your side I'll stay on my side you even offered that option like let's put this down you're proven wrong you've lied to me I'm not going to go after you and then he exacerbated at more videos he went after judge all let me rephrase that this by the way is a human that was arrested last week so we'll get to that also when I went for my original um restraining order case against uh Aiden Rhode Island the judge offered him a deal leave everything alone she knew that she saw some of the evidence I had she knew that you know he was destroying me yeah um his conduct to the court clerk was so abusive that the judge judge Daran out of Rhode Island well I feel like you're already showing a level of disrespect when you're you know you feel like you're on the righteous side there is Mom mentality there is you I I got 4,000 gazillion followers so they're all going to support me and I know I'm in the right judge Daran out of Rhode Island again I had no faith in anybody she showed me that faith can be held by public figures she she offered him leave me alone take down the blogs leave me alone and we won't have to move on with anything nothing down the road nothing ever well he was agreeing to that in qu and he absolutely if I could get video I'd show it to you go all day long he was agreeing to you know all right we'll just leave it alone and then as soon as he leaves he hits the road and goes on his videos or whatever he does and immediately goes back to I'm not doing that no and then he started going into the judge that judge from what I understand she's dealt with some pretty serious cases she is a very upfront honest judge she has she's a Jud you're wasting the Court's time you just made a case up for nothing like this is nonsense good morning saraphina Jamie Patrick thank you for joining us so you're here with new manufacturer evidence now it's now videos now he's claiming that you're well attacking him right but back to stalking him right after the voicemail that you heard was left he went on a video and he said um he's GNA manufacture evidence next day next day that manufactured evidence comes out and it was all regarding people that he had to do with in the past no not for nothing if you're going to manufacture evidence make sure it's not linkable back to you directly you know um but that's sloppy that that's what made the case extra datable so he had me arrested in Rhode Island um Rhode Island held me at the ACI on a $200 bail I got out the next morning I went to Fitchburg Mass I turned myself in and I dealt with the case since then now I'm not bothering Aiden I haven't dealt with that guy because he's nuts in my opinion he's nuts um more of a psychopath in my opinion if you will he's not um but I left him alone I'm dealing with this court case now for the next two years and was something that never happened something that I never did I had nothing to do with you know and he just kept going he wouldn't leave me alone now I'm dealing with these court cases and there's a lot of continuances because of Co it was it one nuts I can't imagine and um but that's like dragging on imagine if you're every single day this is like hanging over your head and you're having to deal with all of this and your mindset is how do I prove I'm not guilty how do I prove as my ex-wife claimed I beat my kids or I beat her how do I prove and I had to keep going day by day my mind couldn't be on just my daughter being safe I had my son living with me the entire time I had dcyf back and forth I had a DCF case manager who I actually called because it because now you're in the system so now it's you know good morning Dan thanks for joining us was very difficult conversation this morning and it basically boils down to cyber bullying uh it just that mob mentality we're talking about Turtle Boy Sports had done a expose on you that wouldn't end ECF ended up getting I think like 70 80 calls in a day but Turtle Boy keeps telling people on his videos fans his fans he keeps telling them that um he's he's called DCF on me he's he's purposely going out of his way to make my life a living hell he had his fans calling DCF on me for something that I never did you know the case workers not very friendly I got a hold of a supervisor the supervisor actually called the doctors the schools um the counselors everybody involved in our lives in the past and what the one thing they found out was I was the only parent in my children's lives I was the only one that's been there for my children I've the only one that's supported my children that's what the DCF case manager listen you're in a safe space here no one's asking you to defend yourself or your goodness I'm just explaining I just want when you have a problem with DCF if the case workers are not um if they're not um living up to their their duties they're being disrespect respectful or whatever you can always go to a case manager supervisors you can always go above the DCF workers heads which I recommend whether the DC DCF DCF and massachusett but these are being put into your life for no reason these this is more torment that was ruining me and bringing me down okay in the end result DCF cleared me I never got charged in Providence for any kind of abuse or anything related to my divorce the whole thing was is because I was divorcing my ex-wife and protection of my children one of the many reasons but the main reason is to protect my children um now going through this whole Court thing Turtle Boy Aiden Kerney has followed and stalked me with fake emails accounts fake Facebook pages fake everything putting his links to his video about me why do you continue to be on social media me because I look for the funny things in life I look for good laugh I love you know cartoon pictures and and I it brings me happiness yeah I don't use well up until now I've never used social media for any kind of back and forth so I prefer you know the good things in life yeah um on days that I'm down you know I like watching videos you know just a fun right we all like a good cat video funny memes my daughter loves the uh the dog videos yeah but for me it was about bringing me up social media is about bringing me up but I also have a close group of friends okay I had to lock my Facebook page basically as hard as I can lock it down to stop the death threats from coming in from turtle boy I'm sorry his his followers kept sending me tons of death threats yeah because that's what it is it's not just it's not just him it's the people that rabidly follow um and and they are taking what he is saying as as real and true and factual and that's really difficult to deal with that mentality he's given out my address on his um on one of his videos he's given out my address and there was a lot of violence towards my home including people that lived in my town well and that's what Lauren said there definitely is always the three sides to the story and I'm glad that you're like finding yourself in this positive space but one side my my story turtle boy in my ex's story excuse me I have the right side right here that I shown you yeah my y my daughter was my daughter was being manipulated into a relationship with a 49y old guy and that's where it started that's where the divorce came out I wasn't allowing it even though my ex-wife did that's where everything started but in this packet my I have uh a document from the police where my daughter stated that I'm not happy with her boyfriend no I'm not happy with a 15-year-old and a 49 year old guy but once again here you are today but this is a document I shown you as well you know it's not like I'm making that up no I've seen it I've seen all of the documents trust me I was down here for 45 minutes like how is this real life how are you dealing with all of this there are so many fake Facebook accounts oh Don he has so many fake Facebook accounts Virginia Susan we're talking to Ashley um and you are now finally done it's done it's done for now for now yes so you reached out to me and you're like I'm finally free of this and I want other people to know that fight back you're on the other side of this you're in a positive space you're minding your business and then the following week not even four days later he gets arrested yeah my case in Massachusetts for antagonizing and threatening and the judge threw out all the fake emails yep when um it wasn't just the judge but the court threw out the fake emails was it wasn't even presented to the jury because it was all manufactured I ended up having to go to jury trial with seven jurors and um the case was I was found not guilty not guilty in court because you didn't do it I didn't do it the voicemail wasn't nothing to do with me it was all manufactured by turtleboy just so he can have his fun making his money um a couple of his however you collect the money I don't know how that works supporters no no no the the the sponsors the page where you get money from yeah a couple of them got taken away because it was you know I don't know how to explain this they took the money away and gave it back to the people that gave it to him because they realized it wasn't an honest or whatever the case may be um but I'm gonna tell you something well because there's that freedom of speech once again you want to support people to be able to live their true authentic self say what's really on their mind not be hindered from being able to say how you feel everybody wants that however when it infringes upon other people and it rises to the point where you're attacking other people that's not free speech that's criminal it yeah it's not okay but some of his followers I'm going to be honest with you some of his followers I do appreciate because they asked me what happened yeah I was able to tell them and and some things I shouldn't probably have shown them but I shown him to prove that it wasn't true well because you're in constant fight for yourself for your life for your ability to say like this is real am I real is this really happening right it it was a constant fear of of violence constant fear and Don said thank you for protecting your daughter Ashley you know there are things that sometimes people don't like and you have to make hard decisions in life but where you're being arrested for something that is fake like this is just wild the whole story is just wildr I was being arrested in the end result for trying to protect my daughter yeah I went through this misery for my children I'll do it again yeah I'll do it again today if I have to you know well let's just hope that you know he's going to have to deal with his situation right now right and have to come forward and face whatever it is that and it's not even for you it's it's a whole another case with a whole another Cane of worms I have to think just in this conversation right now three other people that have said that they have had issues before with this person there has to be more but the funny thing with turtle boy is the day of my trial the actual trial he was there to testify he he perjured himself in court of course and as soon as he left the Courthouse he went on video oh I testified against Ashley today blah blah blah okay he never posted to not guilty he wouldn't admit that he did anything wrong yeah he wouldn't go on his blog and say you know Ashley was found not guilty maybe blow a fit over it just to make some more money I don't understand why he didn't people were posting that that knew the case that it was because he manufactured the evidence I was found not guilty because I wasn't guilty that he Manu factured the evidence all of a sudden those comments were deleted it's funny how that happened Yeah well yeah you know and in my opinion I felt like he was a terrorist towards me and that's how I felt the entire time like he was an absolute terrorist encouraging others to do the crimes for him but he's already done enough crimes himself towards me so it didn't matter I know about that he's and there is this de side for everything right there were people that that was on his that listened to his blog and I've got that threats and messages from people that was uh you know on his blog or whatever and people actually came by the house to cause violence you know so I'm just explaining that you know in my opinion from what I've witnessed he encourages other people to cause the violence so he doesn't have to yeah he's too lazy in my opinion to drive from holding MK to Rhode Island to do anything himself anyway no we're going to go with love and light this morning positivity I am you're on the other side of this you've got your family with you you're living your life right now my life and hopefully this is we're hopefully we're past this my life is fantastic I appreciate you sharing your story and I want people that if you also feel like this sort of thing happened to you to reach out for you as a resource absolutely to reach out to you for support my children now have the best life my my kids are in my life you know know um everything can get better over time unfortunate it's a fight but everything can get better yeah if you put the effort into it your life can be fantastic my life has been so much better since this this um case is over my life has been fantastic it took a huge load in a weight off me that you'd never want to feel but I am grateful but I'm also grateful to you for getting the story out so people know you know the right thing to do is fight don't antagonize your bully whoever it may be especially turtle boy don't antagonize don't communicate back with him if he tries to get a hold of you to torment or ruin your life leave it be but Fight For Your Right Use attorneys court systems he M manufactures evidence so if you need proof of that if you're going to a hearing in Massachusetts Rhode Island I've got all the proof in the world that he manufactures evidence and I'll go to court for there's a lot of stuff right there I'll tell you that right now thank you everyone for watching Ashley and I this morning I uh I know it's very very difficult I feel very conflicted about all of everything that's going on but when I see bad journalism it makes me upset and when I see people being victimized it makes me upset and I feel like it just needs to be talked about a little bit more once again I I apologize if you feel a little you know off this morning and you feel conflicted this morning we usually talk about super positive stuff in the community and we do but this is that's it we're moving on we're past this stand up for yourself and cyberbullying is is a serious thing making sure you can prove everything is the entire I'm sorry you've had to live like that I can't imagine having to like show my daily steps and my my my log on everything that I've done all for the last three years but everything I shown you I do have notebooks though I have um what do you call those the the drawers there yeah uh file cabinets I'm sure you do I'm sure you have to now but everything I little bit of paranoia oh it's a lot of paranoia and it makes you sick there's days you don't eat for four or five days on end you end up throwing up instead but everything I told you well you're here and you're you're in my studio today Ashley so you're doing okay everything I told you you're all right everything I told you and everything you've seen everything I've told you your followers is 100% true in your opinion for everything that you've shown me i' I've seen has been corroborated absolutely and that's the way I don't know what I don't know when you when you deal with a bully no matter who it is when you deal with a bully and then trying to pull something like this make sure you can prove everything and half the battle nowadays is when you're accused of um long my ex-wife again in a divorce you're being if you're being accused of in a divorce know that there's always cameras there so if they claim you were here there's cameras everywhere nowadays you can't hide no more there's nothing you can do to hide so you can get proof of cameras to prove just defend yourselves if if you're in a bad situation always make sure you can defend yourself thanks for coming on with us this morning Ashley appreciate everything have a good day tomorrow is Friday we are going to have a fun show we got a fun weekend it's Hall weekend and there are parties and celebrations and fun things all weekend long we will talk about them all tomorrow I forget who I have on the show tomorrow but I know um it is going to be light I promise you today was a bit heavy it's not what our normal Finn fair is but uh I've got a oh we got JT Mr positivity on the show with us tomorrow maybe I'll stop by again tomorrow for everyone we thank you for watching take have a good day man you did it though it's done yep you are fantastic