Hank & Stephanie

n not doing that again hey boys and girls how are you hi it's been a bit since I've been in the studio studio I know it right yeah getting there yep you're doing better I'm glad I'm not the old one in this partnership I gotta tell you that right now because my God it's a bleep show around here I ran into somebody last night that one of our trivia teams I hadn't seen them because they were just getting over covid yeah and uh she was just like oh we're back and I was like she was like how's your Christmas I was like well I had shingles so and she said she had had it and she's barely 35 right in the service yeah and she said she had it twice so she's like just when you think I was like don't tell me these things once is enough once is more than enough I'm good I'm still in recovery from that and I'm still in recovery from my fall last week not great did not have a great week no it was not awesome but you're young you'll bounce back don't use the word bouncing well hopefully you bounced um it was the most embarrassing space of my life so like let's just peel the bandid shall we I was supporting a friend um who was working out in public in a restaurant sat down my husband joined me for a hot minute he was there slugged a beer and a piece of pizza and left so I turned I I didn't even realize he was gone already okay I turned and all of a sudden my chair un underneath me started collapsing it was this slow motion collap that awful when that happens do you ever like an injury or a car accident or anything that's ever happened to you in your life where everything is just slow-mo even though it wasn't but I could just feel the wires underneath me folding and I was down I was like go down and it was like a really high bar stool that totally just went flat and this particular place has concrete floors um and in true Stephanie fashion like I had to lay out made it big and dramatic well of course one of my friends Eileen Blake's pi and cakes was there laughing she sat picks up her bingo card and writes 9.5 on the bottom I laughed because I needed to laugh after that because it was so freaking painful I bet but at that like it knocks the wind out of you knocks the sense out of you you don't even know where you were but before I was even standing some other gentleman helped me back up and uh before I was even standing they had whisked away the the broken stool put a new one underneath me and I was like what just happen right it wasn't until later on that evening that I was like I'm actually injured to the point where I have my it's black and blue for my rump all the way to my like scapula good oh my I'm battered Hank oh God not a great place for me but you manag to get to Newport though I did I did I had a plan with uh my girlfriend my my best friend since high school uh we got to Newport for the night uh stayed at the Viking classy well it used to be it used to be years ago it was oh yeah and oh yeah nothing to be embarrassed about I was so embarrassed about it until I spoke to my friend and they were like it's weird later on that night somebody else's bar stool broke and I was like good it wasn't the weight of me it wasn't my stature by size you know if you wanted to you could own that place get a good lawyer you could own that place it was just Stephanie in the morning Enterprise could diversify even more now we're into restaurants that is the last place on Earth I would want to be right now I feel bad for my restaurant chore friends I had a meeting of the mindes two three of my girlfriend's own restaurants and we were just talking and they're like so stressed out it's it's a lot the cost of food the quality of ingredients the managing of people right now all are in an all-time low right right oh Megan tells those stories all the time about you know customers that she has to she has to deal with right and I'm like really you would think that we would be better about it like more patient and kind good morning Eva Lynn Kelly thanks for joining us Mari I appreciate you I you would think that we would be better at this point in time but we're just not it's not there's a lot going on everywhere with everything yep I was just reading something about the inflation thing is still affecting us all right yeah but not as bad well I didn't get the Stanley Cup Cliff made me my own Stanley Cup oh he did oh was in that nice Stanley from the office right so all of my office characters now Stanley has joined the crew hey there you go it's a different Stanley Cup it's got to work on the placement but I mean it's pretty cool that his little machine came from CRI his his Cricket thing he's done all kinds of things with that Cricket my wife is a fabulous crafter she loves these things somebody said something to me last night I was like oh no he's definitely my wife and cff I don't like that very much what's up Deborah thanks for joining us this morning it's Hank and Stephanie we're back together we missed each other last week yep uh well we did get our Tuesday in we got our Tuesday in we didn't get our Thursday in know our Thursday in was a bit of a I checked my phone at least a half a dozen times before I even leave the house and for some reason that text you sent me just didn't pop up it didn't pop up until I literally pulled up in front well next time just come in the house and do the show you're fine I'll show you how to do it show me how to do it I guess right I was like oh Tom you're on my to-do list today we will talk we were working on a fundraiser for the sandwich road project so save sandwich road now project save sandwich road now what what what road are we saving it's not the road it's the the ginormous apartment complex that they're trying to put on it oh okay next to you know a several million dollar just saved the the wetlands area okay it's just it makes no sense but we're not going to get political right now just keep showing up at meetings everybody in Falmouth good morning Emily yeah we got snow yeah yeah how did that happen I I I didn't know it was coming I I get up in the morning I get up before the sun even Rises so I don't see outside really yeah and I turn on the news and the weather the weather guy is showing the map and there's snow here and there and there's this chunk that's Cape Cod and it's all green oh and there's nothing there so all of a sudden I heard plowing and I think what the heck of course where I live in The Villages they plow our driveways and everything and I looked out and I went oh my God it snowed did they clean off your car for you in the Villages no my car's in the garage see so I don't have to worry about that it's not full of stuff like mine is no no no they hadn't shoveled my sidewalk though before I left but that was okay because I can the the garage is attached to the to our condo so I didn't have to walk in the snow at all oh till I got here you got here till I got here then I had walk like oh all right so close no no one here is doing that at any point in time no it's all right it it it'll be gone in two days probably you would think that strapping lad upstairs that eats me out of house and home would grab a shovel and help people out but yeah that's not their first inclination he could have gone to Buffalo and made money shoveling apparently that was uh how long did it take them to clear out for that game besides forever like two days or something it was ridiculous I'm so glad that we don't live in that climate oh Buffalo's crazy no thank you that whole that whole Northern New York you knowingly live where you're gonna get feets of snow right feet several yeah the when I when I used to work for the Renewable Energy company we had a we had a wind farm up in Northern New York and the in where we stayed at was right on the lake and you could get get up in the morning and there could be like a foot of snow Yeah out of out of nowhere and it was just like oh that's just lake effect snow oh and they didn't they didn't care they just shoveled it out and went on and but yeah I wouldn't I would knowingly live up there yeah we're supposed to get more snow today oh really yeah there's more coming oh okay yeah even Emily was like and we're supposed to get more oh good morning G all right never mind uh yeah so we were supposed to I was chatting with um one of one of my teams we had a full trivia night last night and they were there for us which is exciting especially when I was like oh no there's playoff football they're not going to be very happy but dos does a good job of dividing like this side is for the sports people this side is for the trivia and the sports people so we had a good mix of uh of a crowd last night and I love there's an an aged group that comes to our trivia a what an aged group aged they call themselves The Elder berries and how old are they I want to say that group starts at about 75 80 oh okay so goes up okay so I'm younger than them yes all right but I taught one of the guys how to use Shazam like they're they're they're very funny but that that they've morphed now now they're like a mega team I try not to let teams be over six and they're like eight everyone was like oh that that's a lot of people over there I'm like look they're they're bringing more friends you let them go they didn't win any rounds they leave alone they were close I know they're the elderberries they were adorable I really enjoy them and uh they they have such a good time we have such a vast variety of people we had our Millennials we did 80s and 90s so if you're coming to trivia tonight there's 80s and 90s flare well there were some definitely geners there like barely 21s oh just at 21 and they were like we weren't alive we weren't alive at this this is not fair yeah but they know a lot about 80s stuff because they like 80s music some of it and 90s fashion is back with a bang I don't I'm not I I don't love it I didn't think the 90s gave very very good fashion but no apparently it's here no thank you everything old is New Again is that the isn't that the cliche sure so Buffalo did their very best to try and lose that game last night they came out with a bang and then yeah you know Pittsburgh was scraping scraping back at him and I thought they might have had a chance at one point but right yeah Pittsburgh tried but but Buffalo it's it's it's funny watching watching the playoffs to these teams that have had these up and down during the season they're now sort of coming on when they should except of course the Dallas Cowboys yeah where their next coach may be you know who everybody's saying it's going to be Bill yep it's gonna be Bill do you think he's gonna try and Revitalize that team get another ring and just show everybody they got 12 wins this year like Tommy did it with the bucks right right he's looking for 15 to become the all-time leader in in wins he can get 12 yeah choice you know with with the uh with the Cowboys yep so hopefully he'll get it see I know I shouldn't have partnered no he knew too I know you left your keys where he could grab them though so okay it's not your fault he's got man time in hours up there I don't even know what he does up there oh all right all right he was up at six like really oh I was up before him well that's what happens I can't help when you're an elge it's what happens yep you're just up now so the Bucks it was very funny because when we were when we were leaving the Bucks fans rolling on in getting ready for their their game right and that was um happening during the emys last night yes not that the same crowd does that but Rob maleni who is a huge Seahawks person a Philly fan was watching it during the Emmys they showed a picture of him at the Emmys watching the game well they lost Phil another place where you know who may coach yeah who knows I think they're saying Dallas so yeah the money seems to be on he he he interviewed in Atlanta yesterday but Atlanta doesn't have a quarterback and and Atlanta's going to take a lot of work um but but Dallas he can go in and win 12 one year and you know a couple a couple the next year and retire when he's he's going to be 72 I right so not that there's anything wrong with that of course no but what the hell else is he gonna do yeah I know he lost the girlfriend so he's got time in his hands he's got time in his hands now that's a that's a real shame Bill you're screwed up well maybe he was all set with her yeah maybe she smelled we don't know but they were together for 16 years well maybe he was over her crap oh maybe or maybe she sometimes you just expire maybe may maybe she wanted a ring and he and he said no after 16 years is that what you want to ring here have one of my Super Bowl rings hone right but that other thing no no not for me I feel like after 16 years put in you you don't want a ring you want way more than that you want yeah you want to be in the will right I want all of it what everything and she was younger than him so so she could have been in the will yeah right you know either way that's where we're looking bellich probably in Dallas and then I saw that Tom Brady's baseball rookie card oh gee went for $158,000 wow who is spending money for that some Fanboy or fan girl right with nothing else to do Meanwhile we're all complaining it's a recession and we can't get nice things $158,000 for Tom Brady playing baseball oh that's the crazy thing nobody has any money except they do things like that right you know it's nuts it's it's it's it's crazy how people have no money and then they as as the cliche goes they spend $7 for a coffee at Starbucks I'm G to drink the tea for my well if you got no you know if you have no money the other thing that I think is that I think is is interesting is you know people were talking about how you know they uh you know they they paid it Forward they they paid the coffee for the person behind them in Starbucks and the Comon is always Starbucks really how's that paying it forward person behind you was ready to spend $12 for a coffee that's that's fair you know exactly you're really not doing them a favor they're going to spend that coffee money tomorrow yep you know that's not moving it forward but no paying it for it I should say you know who was awesome last night I keep seeing Snippets um and I'll go back in I got a funny text from RTV last night when I saw somebody wearing some stupid dress walst pregnant with cutouts and he just responds why oh my but I did get a good Christina Applegate throwing jokes the minute she gets up there throwing an ableist joke haha you're all standing now mocking me yeah and then you know threw an OIC joke body not by OIC right and collected um her her Emmy I thought was incredible she's just had such a year and um Elton John an official egot yes well Mari was watching it because I was I was watching of course the the football game and every now and then I'd hear you know we got to watch this aren't you watching it okay what you know some some new show well that was good I mean that the be what is it the bear oh it's so good yeah yeah we've got to watch the okay fine it's Lip from Shameless and he's a chef right but the just the whole the show is very good okay it's good it's stressful oh I don't need stress I don't want to watch TV and have stress you actually feel the stress of a restaurant or a business a chef I know what it's like my my father went a restaurant for 25 years I know what this dress is like I don't need to watch a TV show to tell me well then all the craziness that ensues right and then it makes you hungry because you're watching what they're cooking and it looks really delicious right I wish I could remember how the joke goes um but there's a joke about remember the days when if you saw a guy in a a whatever it is cut off t-shirt and Tattoos you ran the other way now you go up and ask him what's his best sule recipe yeah absolutely she's not wrong because they're all chefs yeah Marg said it was an incredible show the whole show was well done what's up n sorry about your Steelers it was ni Mari Mari did call me in when when some of the um old sitcom casts came on like like cheers it was good to see them again um Ali mcbi clarista Flockhart came out um dancing to that Barry White song yeah it was an integral part of of of that um The Baby song right the the All in the Family um set they had had that with Rob Reiner and Sally Sally Struthers who both look both look fabulous good for them yeah no it was it was it was what I saw of it was nice I just don't have patience for those kinds of things yeah some most of those shows I'm not a huge award show fan some are pretty good Rock and Roll Hall of Fame great award show well of course you were there in the front row that's different oh my God I mean uh I mean I'd have patience for the Emmys if I was in the front row too right Marla Gibbs Mark was throwing at you oh really hi I miss you Mark is uh throwing his hat in the ring I think he might come back to the Cape Cod Airwaves oh really and maybe do a show with us oh that would be cool I know he was a very controversial shock jock on pixie back in the day and uh we we absolutely adore him and um he's had some some health issues and I think we might have figured out a way for him to be able to uh come back to us here on Cape Cod so well if he's a shock dock just make sure I don't find a way to fire him that I'm so looking forward to Mark Anthony if I can fire Howard sternin I can fire anybody put your hat on get ready for Papa Hank Steelers need changes that's all I'm going to say everybody needs changes they haven't been they haven't won a playoff game since 2017 don't take the year off Mark you're here you're in you know and and someone someone commented on social media so Mike Tomlin hasn't won a playoff game since 2017 yeah it still has a job and yeah and Bill's out of a job right I don't know and and they're saying now that belich che's two sons can stay as coaches if they want it's kind of weird right it's it's kind of nutso it really is and then they're not going to maybe Bill wanted to go maybe they it was an a mut it seems Mutual yeah it sincerely does seem Mutual yeah it seems like all right this is just good for both of us right like let me have a shot at somebody else you know maybe you need some new blood in your organization right I'm taking too much money I don't want to sell Rec cut right like this is not where I this is not my swan song yeah and and not to turn this into into Sports Huddle but another interesting um thing that came out was that he didn't want to draft ma Jones but he was instructed by Mr craft to be more collegial with the with the scouting staff and the people in personnel and they wanted to draft M Jones and he didn't and he kept asking are you sure are you sure are you sure there was some other quarterback that he wanted to draft I didn't recognize the name but he went along with them interesting against his better instincts and so guys I didn't want to say I told you so but now I got to leave cuz I got you know Robert I didn't want to draft ma Jones you told me I had to look what happened I'm out of here uh oh bill and the Pats were a healthy breakup not a toxic one yeah there you go maybe maybe that's what it was and and Gerard Mayo when he was a player he was nicknamed Gerard bellich oh so he knows the system because he was really dialed into everything that Bill said he's close friends with I think Steve belich who's one of the coaches so you got Wonder okay we get a different guy there but uh I don't know interesting yeah and that's it for the sports hle this morning yeah I got nothing else I was wearing my Bruins hat yesterday that was about as close as I got to sports my girlfriend did go to the Bruins game over the weekend what did everybody else do with their children for an extra day mine did nothing I think they're already they're just really having a hard time getting back into the swing of things Christmas they just came back from vacation they're off again and the kids in Sandwich were off on Friday so it was an extra long time off right and now we have to S today right they were checking their phones did we get an email did we get a text message no you're going to school going to school we're not she's not taking the day off it's not that much though no it's not good morning Sandy thanks for joining us I told them about MLK a and that's why you have the day off that's it right oh say hi to Mom Mari said oh hi Mom is is Mom on today apparently she's here okay welcome Hey that that that would be my sainted mother-in-law so you want to do crazy crime for your sainted mother-in-law oh you want to yeah um the sandwich Police Department of course comes through and this is a really interesting story it's a story about and I'll and I'll try I mean the entry is like this but essentially what happened was a child got off a school bus and there was a car that parked out of respect because the lights were blinking and everything and the child came back on absolutely freaked out because the child thought that the person was enticing them to get into their car and the bus driver reported it and later on the driver of the of the it was a truck actually uh reported it to the police and what he said was he had stopped and he was waving the yeah because it's the law you have to stop for school bus right right and and I think the lights went off on the school bus but the driver went like this to wave the child across the street and the child thought I guess he was going like this but I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing well that's what the bus driver I guess had said that that the kid could not aate exactly what happened and just really kind of had a meltdown right right but to have I that's super scary I understand you have to be careful with your children and you have to tell them to be careful but to have them that have a meltdown meltdown because someone is I don't know it's it's weird yeah it's very strange I'm sorry I feel bad yeah because the guy didn't do anything I mean the driver didn't do anything wrong he was doing the right thing come on you can cross the street I gotta hand it to you you bus drivers and anybody that deals with children in education at this moment in time hats off to you you are dealing with a whole lot of situations my girlfriend who I had my um my day off with in Newport uh she's in special education oh my and uh the just the stories it's just a lot she said we call my classroom Vegas Vegas because what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas and we can't even deal with the situation that's going on she just said it's just so wild at this point in time and with with their special needs groups right it's it's a very you name it I said like the Star Wars bar then she said basically it is of just abilities needs and the amount of teachers that they have to cover all of this is is non-existent so it's super stressful for everybody involved and that's got to be not a great space I also talked to my daughter over the weekend and she's dealing with the same thing on the west coast so it doesn't matter where we are particularly geographically it seems to a situation across the board of people needing services that they're not getting and it's not great no and and and they're coming from who knows what in a home situation and okay I'm at school now yeah and then the teachers got to figure out okay what do we do yeah you know how do we get this person to function within you know people in the in the classroom with other with other kids and right trying to make sure that they're not disruptive they have the right to be there I guess but to make them not disruptive it's got to be it's got to be nuts yeah Switching gears a little bit we had a big winner at one of our shows somebody won 15 grand on a scratch ticket really well congratulations I know and so that prompted me to be like okay so that is our question of the day if you follow our questions of the day Stephanie in the morning on Facebook we I just threw out there okay you got 30 minutes you got 15 grand where are you spending it I'm going to Dick Sporting Goods Dick Sporting Goods because you can get clothes golf well I'll get a new new gorgeous set of golf clubs but you can get clothes too that's the neat thing about dicks all right there you go you can get some really nice clothes clothes shoes clothes and a wicked cool set of golf clubs all right easy easy I can get clothes for for for everybody in the family five spend five6 thousand on to of golf clubs and still have $9,000 left to buy clothes and shoes yeah right yeah I mean you could hit the grocery store and just get a bunch of gift cards but that's no fun no I'm thinking Louis Vuitton like I've always wanted a couple right I mean that'll take me three seconds I'll walk out with no I can hold everything in my hands with that right right but if I won something like that I would want something specifically for me and something that I would never buy myself I can go practical with it also because I'm also a Capricorn and that happens right notice neither one of us said well I'm gonna pay down some bills nope or I'm gonna put it towards my mortgage and reduce my mortgage pay absolutely not I know we're just I'm I'm going to donate it to charity not happening I mean I would I would love to I feel like I donate my time to charity all day every day the amount of board meetings I've been on the last two weeks I can't even tell you we're doing a lot you were in the United Way yes I came across uh I actually got to spend the day with another one of your United Way peoples MH and uh we were judging Miss Cape Cod ah so over the weekend uh there was a snafu with the venue and we ended up judging Miss Cape Cod off Cape which made me laugh how wish there a snafu with the venue they double booked the venue and we got bumped apparently I'm not going to say where because I don't want to hose them but it was but go on social media and throw it out there I didn't do that either none of us did what's up Wendy hi Mary hi Virginia so we went to this cute little theater in Middleboro and B did Miss Cape Cod and these are this is the Miss America program okay uh so miss teen Cap Cod was before we got there and we were in a sequestered in a little room o I know so from 300 p.m. into like 10 p.m we were you know just doing our thing we got to watch the show these women all were phenomenal all completely different all completely worthy valid um and I'm very excited at at the winter she happens to work for a black dog oh really so she's now a mashan and I'm I'm pumped for her to bring her voting initiatives and some of her other fun things to our town she's uh she's a good egg and I'm really excited but I I sat there and um last name is Barber uhuh from the United Way okay and she's like um Jackie yeah so Jack I'm sit next I have a meeting with Jackie at 9 o' yeah so I got to spend my uh Saturday with Jackie nice nice I like Jackie a lot and we had a lot of laughs and she's like telling me all our friends we had in common it's funny when you meet somebody from Cape Cod that you all know all of each other's surrounding five friends it's the degrees of separation right but then to to sit there and go I'm like oh I don't know about that friend oh that that's how you know me by oh all right well Hank we got Hank right we got Hank right Jackie manages all the grant applications that's a me am and and she has to deal with those of us on the community impact Council uh who you know sort of decide with the help of people in our on our committies that's got to be a really tough job what gets what gets funded and what doesn't get funded and you know if you have a Dodo like me who doesn't submit it on the right spreadsheet and you got to get back to him and say you know Hank I know you put it on that spreadsheet but that's not the right one well that's why we have people that know those things yeah think she's accustomed to me by now you guys we're the creatives we do our best what's up Ashley thanks for joining us this morning that side of the brain oh that spreadsheet as opposed to this one oh so I did all these things that came up with all these points to rate these organizations but I don't have to put it on that well maybe talk a little bit about what the United Way does because I always you fund other nonprofits right United Way is different in h in that United Way rais es money to distribute to other organizations United W doesn't doesn't distribute money directly to people in the community or or people in need we distribute money to um various organizations that apply through a um pretty good pretty strenuous Grant um Grant process so if you if you're looking for a way to kind of have a impact across the board in the community United Way is a is a great way to go because we kind of cover we kind of cover everything I'm I'm chairman of the health um the health committee and I gotta tell you at least or almost half of the applications that I've reviewed deal with food insecurity that's that's difficult and I'm and I'm I just keep thinking to myself okay how is this how is this health um because Health you automatically think you know you're going to deal with some kind of a medical condition or something but yeah I I I think almost half was food insecurity up up and down the cape up and down the cape and it's just it it's just crazy and you wouldn't talk about things you don't know right you wouldn't have any idea right um what goes on and what or what doesn't go on and um some other kind of interesting organizations one of which I hope you and I can work with um but I can't talk about that now and we have a we have our meeting at at 9:00 this morning to sort of make the make the first cut and then we'll we'll start the more complicated yeah that's going to be stressful I always hate leaving people behind especially when they are doing good things in the community but I mean there's a process and you have to go through it right because every everyone who submits an application is doing something good right and and you know they're they're proud of what they do and they're and they're providing a service and to be in the position where you sit and say yeah but no not this year yeah you know I go oh really that's the beauty of it not this year it doesn't mean it's not for you oh yeah you can we just can't help you this year and I talking about Jackie there's some organizations you know that I know that you know Jackie will help them find other funding sources you know did you try here did you try there um so she's really she's really good like that and that's above and beyond what she has to do for right for United Way is to you know kind of point so it's a great organization to donate dire yeah you're making your financial plans for the year again if you want to do just like across the board I want to have an opportunity to you know hit on a number of issues that that's where you go to United Way well and I appreciate that you a lot of volunteers go into making sure that your money that you are donating go to a space that is making a real impact in our community so that's important right and and another thing that we try to do at least I try to do is that when we give out grants it's for um the people that the organization works with yeah it's not for basic expenses in in my mind we're not going to pay somebody's rent okay you know because first of all that's not sustainable because the grant is from year to year and if we pay your rent this year and you don't get the grant next year well then what yeah you know how have you helped the people that you were um trying to help if all of a sudden you're out of a place to go because we didn't give you the money to pay the rent so yeah that's fair yeah it's a good way to be good morning Dave thank you so much for joining us hey Amy where are you in your travels I love following your adventures her and her husband do a lot of RV travel and super fun to watch where they're going to pop up next and they got the dogs too you got your hands full that's all I have to say h oh Nate yes I know that he's going to be on your podcast go easy with him don't break him I'm going on N podcast on I think we're we're we're we're taping it or whatever you do on Thursday what's up Adam Adam is uh a chauffeur if you will where your uh your airport travels I've got to have a conversation with you I just want to grab a beer with you at knockabout one day and be like tell me about the worst person you've ever picked up tell me about the worst thing and also the best thing you could have had a best customer that gave you the best tip and the best advice I'm always curious when you work in people face fronting Industries how that works out for you I did that for one for one summer what chauffeuring driving people around yeah yeah I got I I got involved I was I was teaching it was the summer yeah and the husband of a of a friend of ours you know said hey you're not doing anything we could use a little help because we're busy with the summer taking people back and forth you know just part-time you know a couple and all of a sudden he ended up working full-time All Summer Long yeah um and I can't say that I really came across anybody who was who was really difficult there were some people who got impatient there were some people who you know for example flew in from you know another part of the country and I picked them up at 8:30 and they were taking the last boat over to you know Nantucket or Martha's Vineyard and there were sometimes we didn't get back in time yeah and then it was like okay what do you do with them want me to help you find a hotel I got to find them a place to stay now that seems like a lot of involvement you know and then they have you know they have no cars so how do they it was I had I had a couple of those and and you just have to feel bad for those folks because they're coming here on vacation they don't have any idea of you know what's going on and how long it takes to get from A to B yeah people do not not realize how big the Cape is no they don't they're like how about we go over there I was like that is not close provinc toown is an hour and a half away from here oh yeah you know around the corner a lot of people don't understand that provin town isn't like five minutes from sandwich or okay 15 minutes right I know in your P town no you're not like that's it's a day bye see you enjoy it yeah it's a day for us who live here we live on the upper Cape hi Lynn I hope everybody's doing all right and you're reek of the Woods I know that there was a health scare uh Ashley I threw an abusive client out on 128 for being verbally abusive heading to Logan wow that's not fun I never had to do that Rude the most interesting person I picked up was someone who I thought was from the conversations that we had when he knew that I was involved in in marketing I thought he was the head of marketing for a very large um golf company yeah out in out in Fair Haven in in in a kushit yeah and I picked him up I don't know how many times and then I happened to mention to someone oh yeah you know who I've been picking up lately so and so and they said you know who is the president of Titleist oh oh and I went he is I never knew I should have asked him for more he's not a great Tipper know because we just talk we just talk marketing and and you know stuff like that and I thought that was his that was his thing but he was the the president of he was the big guy right nothing wrong with that that's exciting right uh Valentine's Day is approaching and I know it's super stressful for our singles I we're we're doing some stuff so we've teamed up with a couple of online dating groups and um first we're going to be have monthly meetups over at knockabout it's going to be the last Sunday of every month where singles can come grab a beer do a craft do a Stephanie Viva inspired activity so it's not super awkward so I don't have to plan to go you don't no you're good I'm good okay you're good on this one also we've got a speed dating event that is coming up right on Valentine's Day and we're doing this in hopes of just meeting somebody else not the same people that you're swiping and seeing not the same Facebook people not the same because there's dating on Facebook there's dating on for 14 different things whether it's Bumble and the girl is the Chooser or hinge or thank God I wouldn't know or just like the regular hookup apps it seems to be the same dating pool no matter how many times you've put yourself back on the apps or removed yourself these are the common complaints that I hear from my single friends so we are going to be doing a fun speed dating event so that's it you got to be over 21 no no cap on the ages we're doing it exactly on Valentine's Day we're going to be doing it over at Wicked and and uh we're going to have events to follow after our speed dating ice breaker if you will but uh it is going to be a little bit game showy and uh we are G to have some fun so if you're single on Valentine's Day and looking for something to do we're definitely going to do it is that gonna be you or is that gonna be Bri oh no I'm hosting you're hosting I'm hosting okay I don't think Bri could handle that we love you Bri I don't think she could handled that don't take that the wrong way no well it's just not a program I mean we're we're developing it right now so it should be interesting yeah no dates for me I'm good I'm full my right my dance calendar is uh full yeah yeah you decided to to to reup the babe and he's fine yeah with 35 years this year that's incredible no kidding I mean that's what's your secret we're Wicked patient with each other yeah you just have to be patient that's all sometimes you just got to say okay just you know because I just saw this article how to be successfully married in 11 relatively easy steps 11 relatively easy steps okay let's tack that on the bathroom mirror right be married successfully with 11 easy steps I laughed and of course I'm I'm the looky L I'm like oh what's this okay so what is it forgive and forgive often yes this is number one you don't have to forget but you do have to forgive no no no no no no no no no no you have to forget too my wife is Italian she doesn't forget and this isn't like a wife joke or anything or whatever no that's fair she's Italian and all of a sudden something that I did 27 years ago pops up and I I thought I apologized for that right oh I guess I didn't I'm sorry forgive touch each other hold hands kiss have I have somebody said I have this stupid sign that's above our bed that says always kiss me good night and I make him kiss me good night so here's the difference between us she's a handh holder I'm an armound her all right well either way you're touching each other so you're doing the thing right but she wants to hold hand she doesn't like an arm around her right I like an arm around her I'm not hold hand right hands get sputty the the the the receiving line after our wedding Mari said no fries no fries oh whatever yes that was 32 years ago um the the receiving line after after our wedding we're standing outside the church and she's standing next to me and I'm going like this in the receiving line and she's going whack and pushing my hand away because I I she had a crown or something and there was ribbons back here and by putting my arm around her oh you were dragging her back I was doing I was doing that so moments after we were married she was already smacking me around now what's the no fry story oh you want the no fry story just just the bullet points her birth her birthday or Mother's Day I I I don't I I don't remember Megan was just born we had a house full of people and we hadn't eaten yeah so I said what do you want she said I don't go to McDonald's and get a hamburger you so I went to McDonald's and go a hamburger yeah because that's what I was told to get right because I'm a literal kind of guy right I didn't get french fries oh so I came in and I said here's your hamburger McDonald's without getting fries I said here's your hamburger and she said no fries I said no you didn't want fries boom threw the hamburger right at me stormed upstairs CU she's dealing with you know the the after birth all of the things hormon sting and everything okay 32 years ago it Hank and she doesn't let it go always get the fries someone will eat the freaking fries somewhere who just gets a cheese who just gets a hamburger and doesn't get fries I do animal no I'm also I'm a non-f fryer but I like fries but I'll get them and then give them to the whatever whoever is around me because I'm never alone so there we go forgive touch each other those are two steps say you're sorry even if you're not okay defend each other okay realize that there are very few for unforgivable acts I feel like that still falls into the same thing yeah laugh together love with your entire heart don't take each other too seriously be proud of one another remember the young naive person that you fell in love with be kind Oh Be Kind right these are your 11 steps apparently to a relatively easy successful marriage right relatively easy I mean most of those most of those are good ideas right yeah but it comes down to just just be patient Mari said it was the 30th birthday 30th birthday okay you didn't bring any fries I know I love it that's a good story to have though oh oh it's a wonderful story you'd be surprised how many times the story gets told well I love it and it's the first time I've heard it and I've known you for years I know so yep no no that's a that's a that's a classic Mark says he was not trying to be a shock jock we're just teasing you Mark we're excited if you join us here at lemon Ado and I think a lot of capod will be very very excited for you to join us as well yep we love branch and the band the band needs to get bigger right we're working on it yep your Jazz show has got a lot of uh followers thank you I'm having I one of the things I always wanted to be when I grew up was I always likeed Jazz I always and I always wanted to wanted to do that and eventually Jazz became I mean there used to be radio stations that played nothing but Jazz yeah and as as time went on and and you know rock and we can go on and on about you know the the programming changes Jazz became less and less popular and it was pretty much relegated to Public Radio stations not that there's anything wrong with that but I I just never I just never had a chance to to do it I had a chance to do it once oddly enough during the Blizzard of 78 because I worked for a radio station that's usually signed off at 11 o'clock but we stayed on all night during the Blizzard of 78 and they needed somebody to just play music just like overnight to to keep the thing going and I went I will I will I will and I grabbed all my jazz records and I went in and I play jazz all night long but I really love it I've got some you know some great Stories We adding some new music that you guys I think are going to find interesting um we're adding some more current day performers um that it's gonna kind of gonna kind of mix things up and and you know what I always say is it's not oh God it's Jazz no it's it's not right you know that people Hear jazz they go oh God anything but that G's it's not your elevator music it's not it's not Kenny G it's it's not like that it's not the great day you know it's not the other stuff where you listen to it and and you go okay is this supposed to be a song does this have a point does this have a point I think they call it Progressive Jazz nothing wrong with that folks nothing wrong with that this is this is nice music and it fits really well in a Sunday morning so I'm glad people like it and I'm just having a blast yeah it's ni it's a nice relaxing way to wake up on your Sunday and you gave me an extra hour so four hours now see so you've got plenty of time to be able to enjoy Hank on the Sunday morning it's definitely worth a listen I don't bring the fries sorry didn't they ask do you want fries with that what's up Michael McMuffin and Fries Michael from Bella Luxury Transportation I saw mari's card on one of his flyers I was like oh there's Mari yep yeah she's here she's there she's everywhere absolutely she really is what's going on in the real estate market right now rates are dropping all right you heard it I I saw one on Friday that's that was 59 so they're really starting to come down getting better so if you're if you're thinking that you know I gotta make a move or you know this house is too big or this house is too small now is the time to start planning because when it really hits whatever number you're looking for there's going to be a thousand other people looking for that same number yeah and the inventory is still kind of limited but I just think that cycle is going to break you know one of these one of these days at some point that the people that are in the houses that are too small are going to decide to sell and the people in the houses that are too big they're going to decide to sell going to decide to sell and everybody's G to move up and around because because because that's how it works yeah you know right exactly I mean you guys are looking to get out of your house because it's just going to be the two of you in well I mean it also doesn't matter cuz like wherever we are in the market when we sell we're buying into the market again so it's not like there's going to be a big exchange that's gonna win one way and lose the other it's just not gonna happen right but you're not gonna need the space you did no no I'm looking forward to that I can't believe my daughter graduate graduates in June it's like wild to me I know to have this what are you gonna do with your life I was talking to my other daughter and uh both of them are considering the Navy at this point in time really I said ouldn't it be funny if you both were in at the same time wow and she said I we had this conversation together and I love the fact that they're friends and they chat outside of us which makes me really happy I feel like we did a good job in that respect well your other daughter nice relationship your other daughter is in San Diego right she is well there's a huge navy presence yes yes huge and she you know went to her recruiter she took her as Babs she's like physically fit and ready to go like every she checked all the boxes like actively considering doing it and it makes me a little nervous given the way the world is right now um I can't say that I'm not nervous about it but I also feel like it's so good for them to be able to explore that and it's really the first adult decision that they're going to be making and they you know get funds for it and she's like Mom the pay is terrible and I said but think about it all of your needs are met for you what do you need your pay for I remember when I graduated from all of my training in the Army I bought a vehicle outright right because I had no need for actual money right my food was taken care of my clothing was taken care of my rent was taken care of your healthare was taken care of yeah uh but well we didn't have to pay for your healthare we we're not talking it's not glamorous or anything like that but it's taken care of so I was able to Sock away money enough to be able to buy the things that were pretty incredible for someone that's 19 years old to be able to do that right if you stick with it you can retire after 20 years right exactly and then do what you want to and then do what you want to do with the job that you learned it really is a nice training space right so I am an advocate for serving our armed forces in some fashion um even though you know a lot of it's you hear the stories you live the stories if you've been in then you know but I really do say it's a good place to learn a lot of things for um the low low cost of your body right right there's a give and take for everything that you choose it is the low we have the lowest enrollment right now in our Armed Forces really pretty much forever since ever wow that's kind of scary right and and demographically a lot of the people who are um in the armed forces I mean it all comes from from a particular demographic which is kind of weird yeah you know we won't we won't get into that because that's not just kind of but yeah um yeah it's it's kind of it's kind of weird rtb said for um the uh Market the real estate market Spring and fall is usually when the inventory is larger right correct correct so we're we're we're heading there so if people are thinking spring it's spring real estate market it's already when are pitchers and catchers right pitchers and catchers are five weeks now maybe even four and the Red Sox still need a bat and they still need a top-of-the-line pitcher our sports teams are dis F and I think that's something that Nate and I are probably going to talk about when I when I tape his pot on um Thursday on Thursday um they're gonna be a disaster folks and I love the Red Sox and and I grew up in Boston and I've been a Red Sox fan for a very long time this sh is going to be a disaster well you know at least we're prepared for that our children have never seen the likes of how bad our sports teams could possibly get like we have so they don't know they haven't they haven't this situation for them they've been raised on Championship after championship and Fanfare after Fanfare and they don't know the years of suffrage we put in to get here right when when I was watching the coverage of everything that went on with Coach belich um one of the TV reporters that I was watching uh Katrina conate who's actually miss Massachusetts she was talking about how she has never known a time when there was not a coach bich yeah and she's 25 26 years old maybe I don't I don't know but like he's always been there right pretty crazy pretty crazy oh it's nuts it's it's it's nuts that that that one guy would have been there for for so long here we are back to sports you can't let it go Can't Let It Go all right so we're we're wrapping things up here today what else do you hna anything you want to hit that we missed no I don't think so coming up um on lunch break this afternoon we're going to talk about some things you can do um to make yourself um popular at a party oh I'll have to listen to lunch break I'm curious actually there's 33 things we won't get we won't get that's a lot of things we won't get through them all today but for somebody like me who who is you know kind of withdrawn sometimes at at at parties I don't see this oh yeah no I am well when you're next to Mari that's different well yeah see that's the thing you know and I'm just I'm I'm just there right it's the same it's like if you're at a party with me and my husband just kind of sits there and he's like just let her I'll be over here he enjoys that role that's why cliff and I get along so well just say go ahead let them go right they're busy they're busy I'll just you know and then when it's then when it's time to go you say it's time to can we leave now I love that lunch break with Hank you learned some party tips right right you know and I'll say to Mari you know isn't it you said you were GNA leave now in 45 minutes later babe I've got fries let's go it's all you have to say yes whatever it is that you're doing today I hope it's great I'm sorry if you have to shovel yes stay safe I'm going to be out tonight at Shipwrecked make sure you are visiting us at our events when are they doing the the the plung not this week po plunge February 25th oh February 25th February 25th oh they've moved it way out yeah yep it is going to be extra cold by then oh isn't that or maybe it'll be warmer we don't know it's New England wait a minute I don't know Mariana and I talk were talking about doing it if it was the end of the month I don't I don't know about February 25th yep it is push to February I will get you all the dates on it but if you want to jump into the ocean oh I might be do a little cold flunge I might be away I might be in Orlando I'm trying to get out of here Caroline I don't even know how you're dealing with the main aspect of snow we've got like a couple of inches and it's like festive looking you're in main snow which is different kind of snow altogether like snowmobile and this is this is going to be here for a few months nope not for me kind of snow yeah it's definitely not for me either I like to visit it though oh yeah oh this is nice I'm going back home now yes go to the trck it's not that bad all right go to go to Portland or something yeah right lemonade events we are teaming up with Ryan's 10 pin eery that is for dinner date nights we're going to be doing those Tuesdays and Thursdays and Tuesday is going to be music Bingo Thursdays is going to be trivia and come enjoy some dinner and hang out with us at Ryan's 10 pin is that gonna be you or a minion Thursday is gonna be me oh good yeah until we find the right minion for the fit okay it's got to be a right fit with a venue and a host and uh and if you ever want to be a host please we are training new people by the day we've got a couple of new ones coming up Nate has been working on it Mina has been working on it and they might be ready to host their own shows so if you're not seeing lemon Ado in your town please ask for us we would be happy to come there and we've got some great hosts and very very fun entertainment for you want to give them the phone number that you never answer yeah 18669 lemons leave a message yeah and eventually she'll get back to you there's a message Kathy said I met somebody from Buffalo she called snow and Vermont cute I feel like as a buffalo person that is absolutely what it is oh cute that cute isn't that nice yeah right hold my snowplow I gotta get to work Buffalo is a special breed of people as we witnessed from watching uh whatever game that was whatever hi Danielle and bye Danielle we're wrapping up the show today have a great day everybody and we'll talk soon okay see you later kids bye bye I think this is by or maybe this is by I don't know Hank I never know I'm figuring it out everybody else in lemon ado.com land