Lisa and Stephanie

and we're live I'm gonna make sure that you can actually hear us today because I've been like oh for a million lately do you want me to look hi rtb like do I even know how to do this I don't know Lisa I'm busy you put me on Facebook and now I'm like oh yeah actually you can hear us so that works okay good hooray things are working the way they should be this morning that's a first well usually I'm like halfway through all of our sponsors and I'm like and someone's like I can't hear you I think I did that from Trader Joe's one day remember I had the whole parking lot talking to you oh yeah I'm like talking to my friends you can't hear them and you're like why are you at Trader Joe's at seven o'clock in the morning yeah it was either right before Thanksgiving or right before Christmas it was It was Thanksgiving was it that okay yeah so I was doing the like get in here get her done your last minute odds and ends and all the stuff that you needed to get yeah yeah I don't do crowds so I I will get up you know at the whatever time and get there but literally before you open yeah you and I are early risers so yeah we like to get things done and cracking in the morning because I'm really no good to anybody in the afternoon I'm like I'm not good at that time that's not my time all the mundane tasks happen after lunch yeah that's when I'll do stuff in the yard or I'll do laundry it can't require any thinking or decision making right yeah I agree but you work at night you still have to come around yeah but those are processes I've already made those I flow with those you know what I mean it's like I already I can I've been trying to check the bingo card going um yeah sure they're already made at that point in time I'm just entertaining people and that's fine it's like coming over my house for dinner you know what I mean it's just pretty much that's all it is uh I want to thank our sponsors and be our cleaning services and Landscaping if you're looking for a yard cleanup now 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thank you very much yes thank you everybody gang's all here you can get to work I can't see you but that's okay Lisa is here from the Cape Cod Children's Museum you guys just wrapped up your St Patty's Day you survived yes lots of kids everything looks really really good yeah with the Irish dancers it was packed we sold out you know 250 tickets so it was good Lily was awesome she's our little Leprechaun yeah no but she's also awesome like watching her grow up and she was so helpful like she just she knows and she's like do you want me to move these can I get those chairs I'm like I love you yes like yeah like are you reading my mind she does have patience and she is a self-starter which is really nice I mean I work with some 30 year olds that are not self-starters at this point and um sometimes it's really exhausting to hold the hand of someone that is is he I don't get 30. but even in your 20s we had to be self-starters like there was you know I don't remember having so much need for my bosses or whatever I'm like um can you figure that out I don't know why you can't figure that out good morning hi Kai is going to be on the show with me on Friday we're going to talk about some e-for-all stuff which I'm excited for thank you for all and I whatever else you want to talk about Kai the floor is yours good morning Doug thank you so much for joining us so I had an incident last night bro speaking of uh my trivia nights uh-oh it was it was just very Cape Cod in the winter we'll start there so I'm gonna lay the scene for you and I've already talked about it a couple of times today because I'm kind of getting it out through therapy okay let's go I'm not any idea what you're trying to text message from one of my friends I'm gonna be there tonight with my new boyfriend I'm like great awesome very excited can't wait to see you now I get into the place that I was at last night for trivia it is packed there's a line out the door very exciting excellent that makes my heart Happy I'm like okay good we got a pile of people yeah Okay cool so I get there and the place is full and one of my trivia regulars comes over and she looks like she's like a deer in headlights and I'm like what's wrong like did you get a table are you okay what's happening and she's like what what my ex-husband is going to be here with one of your friends soon to be ex-husband so not even not even divorced yet and it's okay this isn't funny but it is oh my gosh it's yeah careful what you offer Stephanie I know um so it's so Cape Cod and and I just was like okay well as far as big so I mean your corner their corner there's only so many places where we live here and our small little community so it is bound to happen often that you will run into the ghosts of your past I call it two degrees of separation not six yeah there's only two on the cave well that was like a half a degree well I didn't even know that there was a new boyfriend situation because I had met this friend through a guy that worked at the radio station that I just used to work at oh okay you know there's already some questionable taste there so wow so it gets even better Lisa so they sat it opposite ends I mean this is an L-shaped restaurant opposite ends one's here one's there but my regulars for trivia she always comes with who I thought was her mother no it's his mother you cannot make this stuff up no so I felt like it was in a tennis match last night I'm like this one this one this one this one keep it moving the bathroom's in between are you sure you really want to go to the bathroom right there right Stephanie's not paying any attention to trivia attention to trivia trying not to pay attention to this bleep show oh I wouldn't think in front of me in the show oh no I was I tried not to watch that show because I might not be flying on the wall I would have been like okay it is a tiny rock that we do live upon so it was it was just definitely an awkward moment but I didn't know that was his mother and he didn't even go and say hello no I was like that's a bomb whatever I stayed out of it but here I am having to talk about it again because I had to talk about it because one of the odds yeah well pretty good that most of them would know me because I just seemingly know a lot of people but that was just one of those very awkward but they both stayed the entire time for trivia no one was giving up the seat who's leaving first and I felt like that was a testament to my fabulousness it was definitely watching a tennis match of the utmost situation last night so very entertained was I it definitely was Jerry Springer trivia thank you Nat it was like grown up very respectful though everybody we're all adults here I mean it happens all right I have an incident which is completely nowhere near yours but yesterday so I and then I thought about it more on the way here so why like when you were growing up uh-huh there were dogs right there were tons of dogs people had dogs sure my dog didn't even have a leash or call and don't start like I get it I know that we're not talking about the current rules exactly I grew up with dogs there were always dogs I don't ever ever remember in my lifetime people with poop bags right that just was not a thing right like and and I know and we called it that's what a lovely morning conversation dog mess like you step in dog mess not right poop you know and even our mother my mother would be like get a stick get it out of the sole of your shoe go get the hose wash your shoe and don't you dare get those shoes wet I mean we learned how to do things like we had to deal with it so anyways I'm walking yesterday with my dog leave my neighborhood going into a different neighborhood he poops I get my bag I pick it up I tie it and I drop it this car pulls up beside me rolls down the window are you gonna leave that there and I was like first of all I'm in my own neighborhood who are you and I looked and I I actually I hadn't dropped it yet I dropped it and I was like kind of standing up and I felt like I'm gonna throw it in your car window would you like it there better but here's the thing do I I'm going for a mile walk I don't need to carry the actual I can get it on my way back but thank you exactly but I'm looking at mind your own business people can anyone mind their own business I know we no no did they really think I was gonna take the time to put the poop in a bag and then wing it into the road but I don't feel like you have to owe them an explanation of when you're gonna come back and pick that up because you're not I was so flustered that I was like um uh you know I'm picking it up yeah like what I know and then as she walked away I'm like come on and if you're setting up I mean obviously you live in this neighborhood like I don't just randomly walk my dog in Randle people's neighborhoods and throw a poop do you see bags all over here like this is something I regularly do it's not but also it's just not for people to say it just I I was like I I do also get it if you see something say something this is the mentality that we now live in and people can't help themselves good morning Carol yeah neighborhoods are nuts and yes they do it here constantly she said yeah they I think we've gone overboard though it was just I don't know it's a guy I saw a dog and a baby carriage in the mall the other day I'm traumatized I don't yeah it's a different world it is well and I I don't know but when growing up I don't remember anyone getting bitten by a dog I don't remember dog fights and there were dogs everywhere yeah I think when dogs sort of had their freedom they they did their thing yeah where now you just constantly hear about it we have people like uh yeah well that's it because people aren't having children now that now they're having pets and they're treating their pets like children oh my gosh yeah it's okay I mean I get it I did laugh I did see a meme the other day that it was a mom and a dad and they were it was a meme of my mom sent this vacation photo it was the dog's feet it was everyone's feet at the beach only the middle one was the dog not the kid and you kind of like that though I kind of like that too you know what I got my dog on the beach yesterday there you go he found half a dead bird yeah and then there's me chasing the dog with the half a dead bird yeah that was that was a video take care of your poop bag so my friend was carrying a poop bag all over the beach like every time we turned we put the poop bag on another rock so we would take it with us yeah Don yes our friend Don on the west coast is a professional dog sitter that's what she does all day long as she deals with people in their idiosyncrasies with their pets although you you have some weird ones she's got a Parrot she watches on the regular she's got a pair of small dogs that they've got like the portrait kind of like our friend's suit to plansky does but it's like a full on Step Brothers portrait with the dogs in sweaters on the wall well I've told you my retirement gig I think I've told you this is you know my daughter works out in Hollywood and all of the stars have dog sitters on set so like when she worked with Jane Fonda has two one for each dog oh and I was like me whenever you make it in your show and whatever I'm in charge of the dogs I'm like I'll be in the background I will watch you work and then I will take care of your dog so Elisa that's my podcast together women travel better in pairs and we were on this trip where we were tasked with this California Amtrak trip that we were on and uh we started Trooper yeah we had so much fun we really did have a lot of laughs and your daughter joined us for spots in between but we landed in the Burbank Airport and we get out there and Lisa's I I forget what you were doing and you're like in a half an hour I was looking for the the shuttle from the hotel that was not showing up Frozen because Dax Shepard is directly in front of me and I'm like hey at least it's like what are you doing like let's go I was busy talking to his in-laws and I was out of the car so is she she's chatting with the in-laws and I'm like do you even understand how you're doing talking to Kristen Bell's parents nope not even a little bit right now well I said to them because I was like oh I go he sounds kind of famous like I recognize that voice I didn't know who he was and they're like he is and they're like do you know who he is I'm like no no they were like a little standoffish me like I go I absolutely have no idea and I don't know who you are but I'm just gonna keep calling the hotel and then they were chatty they started laughing they're like oh he's you know Dax Shepard yeah yeah but you always make fun friends with the parents I do like this one was on another train travel and all of a sudden Melissa McCarthy's parents are like your besties and they are they were my lunch mates it's always the parents I know someday I'll meet the actual person but yeah that's fine that's on the list that's your two degrees of separation when I'm in charge of the dogs then I'll be on the sets to say hello to these people there you go good morning Ricky good morning uh let's see who else is here Helen thank you so much for joining us so yeah it is Wednesday I love having my chat with Lisa because we get to talk about all the things that are going on at the Cape Cod Children's Museum your podcast kids exactly your event was great and now you're gearing towards April vacation I I don't know how you completely innovate but I feel like every time I'm in there there's something new to do which is great the kids need that yeah we try and we rotate things in and out so we put things away and bring them up which is a great chip for home if you've got little ones make things disappear and then it's like Christmas in March yeah like I know we got our granddaughter the starfish the baby gets the membership and they get to take a parent that takes them with them yes it's cute they own the membership yeah of the family having it yeah memberships are great if you're on the cape that is the way to go you save money and we do change things up you get all kinds of discounts for everything from the store to birth the birthday parties out of control I know out of control there I mean they're super fun but we're like can you work this one can you work this I mean it's a lot hey you're getting it done yep I know take it I know starting something about activities my activities calendar is runeth over which is wonderful we're trying to share staff I'm like okay wait maybe this one if you are a certain person I'm looking for a certain person you're fun you're bubbly you like to host things you're fun at parties I need you you can handle a situation should it arise well that you and I were talking off the air about a certain situation and since you went back in time talking about dogs let's talk about back in time talking about out kids the counting oh yeah I well so I can hear a lot because my office is open to the whole museum and then we just had our share of meltdowns in the last few weeks and no time out yes Jackie I can't fathom me as a grandmother either and I said it totally straight without having like a weird conversation about it's just like a regular conversational piece now yeah it's it's real I've accepted it next I'm gonna bring back the counting oh can you imagine having you as a grandmother I think well I think it's great but yeah oh yeah no so the whole counting so we just have all these meltdowns and you know mostly it's when kids are leaving which is a good thing because they don't want to leave but I I used to count and I don't know where counting went I mean then maybe that's now in the bad parenting list but at one time it was the parenting tool I mean I could you know kids time to get in the car or whatever pick up your rooms and I would just say one and they knew no there was no more conversation about this we don't know what's going to happen when she gets to that three but we don't want her to get to three because it sounds ominous and they and they would sometimes keep up and I'd be like two no no no no no no no they're running around because you I don't know we didn't ever actually really get to three I mean maybe a couple of times but it's just a signal this is over we're done I told you what's happening yeah you know you don't like it no I have been oh I'm sorry I'm banging that that's okay um bang it all you want I have not heard counting anymore I mean if you count now if you go to a child like okay one they'd be like two three what are we doing this sounds fun no there's no there's so much preparation and nice there's no directives and yeah they're so confused well that's it there's they think everything is optional there's too many schools of thoughts out there and there is wonderful I love having options but I feel like that is not kids do not need that many options no they need to have this or that Yep this or that and if they can't if they melt down over that then you have to choose and once you choose a couple times they stop melting down see even that said don't let me get to three you knew right three was bad and I don't know why or what was gonna happen and I feel like everyone in the world was keyed here counting in the stores you hear everybody was like one everybody knew it and now it's gone yeah I I feel like I want to look it up but like did that end up in the bad parenting pile did the pendulum just swing way back over here again you can't count at kids it's disrespectful or something what are the parenting Styles now because are there so many different ones there aren't any I think I think there's so many that people have just gone I know they don't know what to do and it's awful it's like you've got to ask people like what and what is your parenting style and how do you subscribe to things and how do you punish and how do you reward and how do you do that there was a parenting show that was putting parenting Styles at each other some reality show that was on this year I think there was 11 different kinds 11 I mean and from like freewheeling kids will raise themselves to like militant you know which is obviously the Spectrum right right you know you want to be somewhere in the middle sometimes you have to be militant sometimes you can be loosey-goosey it kind of throws them for a whirl if you're like also I really feel like it's kid dependent as a mother of five children I can tell you none of them are anything alike they are all very very different right and they all required a certain kind of parenting yep there are all the time no no gosh no but there are some bases yeah I feel like I always go back to dog training like there are but honestly it's a dog if my dog can learn to do these things I'm sure your three-year-old can I wouldn't say that I don't know these days well it's it kind of crosses my mind sometimes I'm like how many times you're gonna ask that three-year-old to do what you want them to do because like when it's with the dog it's one time right you know and if he doesn't come I have to take the leadership on his thing yeah and that's crazy yeah I don't know yeah you can't create children these days they have problems with that Seraphina thank you so much for joining us good morning Charles Hi how are you children frown on that no no and I think that that's really where the Millennials have lost it because if they could create children they might have some but they can't do that we play pets I'm kidding by the way I'm kidding we called them play pens yeah right I'm gonna be out tonight at tomatillos so if you're looking for a break from your Norm definitely come have some fun with us I was just reading all kinds of studies about like doing games and game night and keeping your brain going and it's really just it's good for you and it's also good for your sanity there you go um so come six to eight tonight tomatillos and sandwich and have some fun with us because we really do listen to some good Tunes possibly win a prize and and have a good time it's always different done it a few times it's great and you don't even have to know anything about music because I don't yeah right yeah but you won no one's worse than me I did win you did win yes because you can that's it um not said Plus nowadays you can't publicly punish your children when someone will pull out their phone and then give you their two cents well it's the same thing yeah kids and dogs Lisa was shamed in her neighborhood for not picking up the bag right away right like are you supposed to put it in your pocket and carry it with you for your run yeah no well he's a big dog I'm not carrying that no thank you yeah no he's right that is a part of it where is the line where you say something have you ever felt compelled to just go over to someone in public and say you're not doing that right um lots of times but I don't that's what I'm saying I keep it in the little you know gerbil wheel in my head I know now I have an internal conversation that I don't have to share with you but it's like when when does it is it like when it's life safety lines exactly are we gonna die from this I think that everyone should ask themselves right but did you die yeah five years from now am I gonna remember this incident no so and that's it let it go I know we have a lot of and I don't like using the word Karen just because we have so many lovely Karen's in our lives so many great ones right Karen but I mean it's just that personality where you've gotta have your opinion or your feeling is so important that you have to say something well I think the internet has freed that up it's like the whole social media thing when people just jump in with the commentary whether or not they know anything about the subject yeah they have an opinion like it's no one's listening to you so you feel like you have to be heard somewhere yeah and I and I do love opinions I do like asking people that's why we do surveys I think ephraal is doing their survey it's survey time right now everybody's got to get their survey out because you need to know the the public opinion but after it's been asked and answered I think that that's where we don't we don't offer it anymore oh my gosh I was reading an article you just reminded me and this parenting Guru whatever is number one phrase and number one tip is asked answered so whatever your child said and if you've supplied an answer and the argument continues the response is asked and answered that's it and just keep going back to that yeah people feel like that that is like an authoritarian thing and you're not being true to your child right that no sometimes it's asked and answered can I go to so-and-so's house no we are doing this with your grandmother you know no Aston answered I get to make decisions for a while it's it's the role that I signed up for as the parent that's it Judge Judy I'm the boss applesauce what I said goes okay you can't live there and not pay the rent this is my favorite I'm a landlord I love her that is so good Lisa it's my cooking show 4 and 4 30 every day I'm like all right what's for dinner oh Judge Judy must be on let's see what other craziness is out there I'm having a lot of fun today with our question of the day I post a question on uh Stephanie in the morning's page every single day and it's say your age without saying your age so I'm getting a lot of memes today which is very enjoying uh very enjoyable for me to look at somebody putting you know anything from cavemen to Mars and Astronaut situations uh or like naming a song or I I love everyone's interpretation of the question that I post I thought I'm a little over a little bit over a deck of cards I like that yep and so can you pick me up a boss of soda I turned 20 the day John Lennon was murdered Peace Love Not War flower power um people's names um wall rotary phones cords stretched down the hallway yeah do you remember that yes it was so good when we paid by the minute and my father was like one minute go do you paid for how long you were on the phone my favorite not having it my favorite was calling a home collect after I was done with whatever one of my sports was do you accept this call hi it's me I'm time to pick me up and that's how we communicated that was texting that was texting that was it yeah but we had to wait for my parents to show up they may have been grocery shopping they may have been out to dinner they were coming but it wasn't like I mean I'm two minutes late when the kids were in high school where are you where are you what are you doing where are you I'm like do you know how many phone calls I feel to press conference every single day starting at lunchtime with both of my children can you drop this off for me can you pick me up can you get me early I don't have anything going on right now what are you doing what are you eating what's happening what's gonna happen at four o'clock today what's gonna happen at five o'clock today it's so bad what are we doing tomorrow have you thought about this I'm thinking of painting my color the walls I'm like what are you doing aren't you at school I read another activity right or these phones are shrinking our adolescents brains no kidding they're it's a Harvard study and they're seeing that the brain is actually shrinking because it doesn't have to contain as much material or remember anything or do anything zero things so this is that that's honestly it'll it'll start anywhere between 10 a.m and 11 A.M wow whenever they're kind of checked out of school so my husband's High School you still have to check your phone at the door I really wish that they would do that because I think that is a great idea you can't learn they're not you know speaking English yeah right listen Lisa I'll put it over here because I know how to mute it listen Linda yeah so yeah honestly this is the phone calls that I get all day every single day the amount of of calls for the dumbest things well it's also why too as teachers and I'm a teacher my husband's a teacher we're family full of teachers now the teacher's not just talking to the child they're talking to the parents at the same time because the answer that comes out of the child's mouth is not a child's answer so you can't like have any conversation with the kid that isn't immediately kid's not responsible for anything they're just like I got back up mom said to tell you I posted a tick tock on my page I want to say maybe two months ago and it was a principle of a school mocking the children and it was absolutely hysterical spot on impersonation really it has over 2 million views on my page alone oh wow because he is absolutely spot on and it was like I'm talking to my mom I'm just talking to my mom or The Dumping of the backpack or like I'm not making a tick tock it wasn't me I'm not doing it they're not even on it's just like absolutely all of the behaviors of middle school and high schoolers today and it's every single thing that every single parent goes through but also the teachers have that times 30 in their class I mean some upwards is brutal so I do understand why we've got a crisis going on and the teaching Department because what the hell every day is a new Fresh L for you it is welcome to school right these kids are there they're like they don't have to learn because they're on their phone they don't want to learn then they tell their parent the parent tells the teacher yeah he's not up for that or she's not up for that what we we really do have a problem it's huge yeah it is beyond and then oh I'm gonna get in trouble here but the administration doesn't want to deal with the parents so who do they come down on the teachers I know you need to do this and this and this and this for 45 different kids I know who are on all kinds of plans he you know it's it's absolute Insanity think about it like I know kids need don't get me wrong I've worked in Special Services I get it but you can't expect one human being with 120 students to know all the ins and outs of your child's plan that's a joke memo Linda that's definitely going to control my class you are right now I am like the opposite parents of my kids my boy twin boys eighth grade with a bunch of other boys are thrown into a lot in class that was out of control yeah absolutely out of control he's getting in trouble left and right I'm seeing the Oak Ridge school calling I'm like I know what that's about it's not going to meet with the teacher everybody has that feeling when you see the school calling in and I knew which kid it was love you honey but I went in and I talked to the teacher and I said listen you know this is what killed me I said and she was new and she was young and I was like I get you got a career kids here who shouldn't a be together and I said so feel free to put my son in the back of the room in the hallway I don't care I'm a display I'm like no you respect your teachers you respect your school whatever yeah she says well we had she talks like this too it's very quick quiet I'm like how do you expect anybody to listen to that I don't even want to listen no it gets better she said well we have a five-strike policy five drinks make it a million five five I I and I think I did say that I was like put five five well we voted on it as a class I'm like oh kids kid this is like Lord of the Flies this is a nightmare so I eventually ended up the principal and I'll never forget I I had emailed her and I said well the class is out of control and then she emailed back I take exception to your saying the class is out of control I said I'm quoting the teacher lady I'm on your side I'm in there to make it under control or I'm pulling my kid out of that class and he can take an extra gym this is nonsense yeah good morning Mari good morning Bob thank you for checking in five strike there's only three strikes in baseball like he was three by five I'm sorry 2 is a Max maybe even one that's your strike next time yeah you know I went to college to be a teacher and then so quickly I I subbed I think at Saint Francis for like whatever and I was just like yeah no this is no no something's brutal yeah yeah I mean it wasn't they were really nice and fun and cute and it was a really great day but I was just like this is definitely just not for me yeah as long as you don't ask them to do anything it's like my husband bring candy throw candy to them and and where without question be in education at this moment in time God bless you I thank you I appreciate you not many people do and I just want you to know I see you that's all I have for you we're awesome the other day seriously carry on I know so um We're not gonna get into the bridge talk I just do want to talk about the fact that you know that there is situational things going on with the bridge now if you have to commute over that bridge for work oh I'm really really sorry but I suggest that you consider starting your day a solid hour early right and that way you won't be mad I don't know other ways I I know I have a flight in a couple weeks I already was like okay I'm gonna go stay overnight the night before yeah there's no way I'm gonna risk missing missing it missing it because of the bridge seriously so there was one e for all class that I happened to be in and it was a it was a book in our friend Leah was kind of like eat the Frog do the thing you hate the most right out of the way so that you don't have to regretted or hate it or whatever yeah and like that's been my mentality pretty much ever since that class it's always sat with me and I'm the Frog yeah just eat the Frog and then when that's over it'll be smooth sailing right so get up early peel the Band-Aid off and go and and get it all done and even if you have a coffee or read about content listen to a book go take a nap it's been done folks this is what we're gonna have to do until Memorial Day weekend and then the regular tourists get here so you're gonna have to deal with that anyway I bet they're done sooner they always say to Memorial Day weekend and sometimes they go longer have they yes I feel like they lie to us just so we don't like no get mad no that's a real lie that's a lie that they're like well we're still not done yet so now let's add tourists into this it's a nightmare Cape Cod chamber won't let that happen right come on guys whatever we gotta deal with them we gotta deal with it it is part of our life now we've accepted it um anything else that you want to tell us about the museum maybe donations do you have anything specific coming up um we're working on a couple of new exhibits we're getting actually getting ready for summer so once spring hits it's a little slower for us so if you're members or whatever come on in it's not as crowded um we'll have things for April school vacation week but um no we're really we're really rocking and rolling in so many different fronts that it's it's a little overwhelming but that's exciting yeah the Museum's really if you haven't been like like um what's your name again I'm Stephanie like I'm brain dead at this point in time and you haven't even started your day donations volunteers uh no but I was like yeah we always can use volunteers we would love if you have a child that's looking for a job um April vacation is a great time to volunteer we do vet our kids volunteering first because we get a real gist of you know can they work there can they count to three no one um no but it does it takes a certain kind of person you can't be afraid to talk to people you have you're in customer service and we treat it like Disneyland we want people to have the very best time and yeah it's a lot of work to do that um but it's showing I mean we're we've been busy so it's starting you know we've made a lot a lot of changes so if you haven't been you need to come by and see all the things we've added and there's more to come including we were talking about some adult nights we need some grown-up nights because I really feel like there is a burgeoning need for people to get out from behind screens television computers and meet people yeah and talk and talk to human beings In the Flesh in real life I feel like we leave the big computer and then we go on our little computer and then 24 7. and then we go home and watch the TV it's like their screen screen so I feel like yes yes we're gonna try that face-to-face time and learning how to still talk to each other it should happen more often and I love yeah we need to play even even grown-ups need to play oh we've got definitely got some play things there uh yeah Mari I hope that they take Easter off because yeah getting over that bridge for three hour situation that's not good for everybody Easter Sunday what could happen I bet they do and isn't Good Friday a holiday for schools yeah that school vacation we get ready because that's what starts no it's the following week right that's what starts it that Friday and then the following week no but not this year because it's the seventh and the week it's the following week these are things I know yeah so there's Easter long weekend and then there's a week of school and then it's school vacation the week of the 17th Patriots Day I'm sorry but I'll be in California for Easter so I'm like I don't care whatever Lisa rub it in and take another vacation oh yeah because she said you know it's Easter I'm like oops oh well yeah you haven't been able to get away so you definitely yeah since I've been out there so I haven't even seen the apartment she's living in for nine months I'm like we're going to a casita first we're staying at a nice place and then four days on her couch in her Studio unless there's someone else out there that you know that would like to take she cleans up after herself to get rid of her poop bags she won't leave them behind I don't cook but other than that I mean I'll rake your yard if you want me to they'll have fake grass out there I'm selling points for Lisa here all right well that's gonna wrap up things for us today uh because we have to go to work I know right our day jobs are calling us but thank you it's been so nice spending a few hours with you in the morning yes you can listen to us continue this conversation over at lemonadeio.com you can find us on Roku TV Alexa play lemonadeio radio or download the app in the apps